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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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dizzy85 · 19/01/2020 11:26

@NicoleR14 sorry to see that how frustrating

Nmew · 19/01/2020 16:18

Aww no I’m sorry @NicoleR14 😞 I hope this cycle gets better for you soon xx

I’m 8dpo today and the urge to poas has gotten very real! Af due in 6 days, I’m not sure I’ll last lol only thing stopping me is not wanting to spend the money on tests

Bbutterfly · 19/01/2020 17:17

@dizzy85 sorry to hear this, I hope

Bbutterfly · 19/01/2020 17:20

@dizzy85 sorry to hear this I hope you get some answers from the doctors tomorrow keep us updated. @NicoleR14 I have read that some months women just don't ovulate then the next month back to normal... you never know though you still may ovulate late or may have ovulated and just not known it and test missed it?
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I still have 0 symptoms @ArjaD how you feeling?
@Nmew I'm with you on that I don't know if I can last till 23rd when af due! Xxx

ArjaD · 19/01/2020 17:56

@Bbutterfly well I'm not feeling much tbh. Just itchy nipples which I am trying to persuade myself is from the sunbed 😂😂😂

ArjaD · 19/01/2020 18:55

Stay strong @Nmew, I poas at 8 dpo, bfn. Now 11dpo and hubby is hiding the tests 😂

NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 20:24

Hi ladies I thought what I had this morning was a negative there was a v faint line I took it to be an evap as cb is notorious for them but now looking at it this evening it's a bit blue in colour I think I'm just wishful thinking but has any one any advice have you checked your tests later on in the day to see if they've changed I know we're not supposed to but I couldn't help myself!

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ArjaD · 19/01/2020 21:39

@NicoleR14 do you have a pic at all or is it too tricky?

NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 21:48

@ArjaD this is the photos the one with the one step strip is this mornings and the other 2 is this evening I know I shouldn't of looked I think it could be an evap!

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Nmew · 19/01/2020 22:23

I have been guilty of looking later, not sure if I ever really saw a line later or if I was just seeing Evaps. I do see something in your evening photo, I guess there’s no real way to tell if it’s an evap or not unfortunately :(
I really really hope it’s not an evap, do you know when you think you’ll test again?

NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 22:27

@Nmew thank you I think I'll retest in a couple of days with another cb or frer I think I'll take a step back from the one step test strips Im scared to think its positive incase I'm wrong and it's more heartache!

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dizzy85 · 19/01/2020 22:43

@Bbutterfly Thankyou, my docs is on the 6th I was gonna go as an emergency app tomorrow but the pain seems better today so I'm gonna see how it goes from now. Wishing you luck this cycle.

@NicoleR14 hopefully it turns into a bfp

NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 22:47

@dizzy85 hopefully you get some answers soon enough it can be so difficult needing to wait for gp and most of the time they have no answers either! I have docs phoning back tomorrow I made the app originally to get some answers for my body not ovulating this month but I can't take the pain in my boobs!

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ArjaD · 19/01/2020 22:49

Hm hard to say. I've been guilty of it too though! I guess testing again in a few days would indeed be the best thing. We could all test together hahaha. I am testing on Wed. Xx

NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 22:56

I shouldn't of looked but couldn't help myself! I agree we'll all be testing at the same time lol! I'm sick buying pg tests right enough I haven't bought any since Dec 24th so I'm doing not too bad ill need to get a few frers I think!

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Nmew · 19/01/2020 22:56

@ArjaD that would be 3 days before af is due for me... I mean if I’m poas for moral support then I guess that’s ok 😂

dizzy85 · 19/01/2020 23:12

@NicoleR14 I do hope so it takes forever to see the doctor and your right half the time they don't have any answers, my af is gonna be gone tomorrow and I'm gonna find it so hard not to try. Part of me is like just do it anyway coz perhaps it was just a random gallstone attack and I might not get another for ages but the other part is saying just miss this month and see what the doctor says 😏. Oh you still have sore boobs? That's been I while hasn't it now? They might wanna do some blood tests hopefully they do something.

NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 23:17

@dizzy85 it will be so hard I hope its not too serious and they can give you something to help with them I'm not sure about anything to do with the gallbladder just know that we're all here for you whenever you need a good rant! And yep still having sore boobs they are getting worse this has been since the 3rd it's now the 19th the last time I spoke to the docs about this they told me I had nipple eczema I had a good laugh at that lol the docs around here seem to be quiet silly I used to stay in Aberdeen but now I live in denny and they don't seem to like outsiders down here lol x

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Nmew · 19/01/2020 23:30

Hope you ladies get some solid answers soon, this whole journey of ttc is so much more than it ever seems from the outside. Xx

ArjaD · 20/01/2020 06:56

@Nmew true, what more reason do you need lol, pure solidarity 😂 at least we'll all know more by the end of the week xx

Bbutterfly · 20/01/2020 08:17

Morning everyone, @dizzy85 hopefully it was just a one time attack like you said and you can get straight back to it. @ArjaD how's the itchy nips 😂 I am going to test weds too.
I randomly got a bit emotional last night which for me is a classic sign of the old witch turning up. I feel fine today though. @NicoleR14 I can't believe you still have the sore boobs! Yeah I'd wait now a couple of days and re test. Really hoping we get our bfp this month! X

dizzy85 · 20/01/2020 10:50

@NicoleR14 nipple eczema well that's a new one 😆 I swear they just make things up as they go along sometimes. Thanks I'm sure I'll have lots to rant about after the doctors 😂
@Bbutterfly that's what I'm hoping they'll say 🤞🏻 hopefully the emotional thing is a good sign for you.

ArjaD · 20/01/2020 16:06

@Bbutterfly no more itchy nips 😭 no idea what's happening anymore but worrying about af coming now.

Bbutterfly · 20/01/2020 16:26

@ArjaD me too... Hate when the af terrors turn up. It makes me want to test in hope I'll get a bfp early! Hopefully the time passes quickly xxx

dizzy85 · 20/01/2020 16:58

You lot are doing good holding off on the testing! Are you all waiting till Wednesday?
Well I dunno what's happening to my body but today I'm getting scratchy stabbing feelings in my ovary areas af has finished and I don't usually get this I'm gonna do an ovulation test when I get in just to check but it's definitely strange, I think I'm clearly falling apart at the moment 😂

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