11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

@sunshinexx95 congratulations on your bfp! How many weeks are you now?

@Nmew hopefully I haven't had any cm either I'm worried my body won't ovulate this month at all and I'll be out before I even start haven't dtd for 5 days now and dh is basically refusing so I doubt I have much a chance this month anyway!

Aw @NicoleR14 why is hubby refusing? Mine is so exciting that I've finally agreed to a second baby I can hardly keep him Away! I've had months too with no cm and no pos opk. Not sure what that means, i guess it's possible we don't ovulate every month, or the eggs just hide better sometimes I hope 🥚🤞🤞

@Nmew your lucky mines is more interested in his new Morris minor he bought he absolutely loves it he's been spending all his time fixing it up for the old car shows this year! Ladies can evaps be green when inverted?

@NicoleR14 kick his butt 😂😂 steal the keys and tell him he can have them back once you're pregnant 😂

@ArjaD I agree I threatened him with that earlier I could understand if this was our second and he wasn't too bothered but its our first time ttc so he has been told he will be attacked made to get baby dancing and not just by me which made it so much worse 😂😂

😂😂😂😂 OMG some men hahahaha

Hey everyone, hope alls good, has anyone tested yet or anything?

Well I'm now feeling quite crappy, basically found out 6 years ago I had a gallstone and they said I'd probably have to have my gallbladder removed which I decided to just leave it and see how it goes but recently I've been having constant pains, only mild but enough to notice it's there have got drs on the 6th of feb but pretty sure their gonna tell me to have it out and now OH thinks we should put ttc on hold incase I need surgery which I know is the right thing to do but obviously I don't want that, but I'm probably gonna have to go on a waiting list which will all take however many months, I'm gutted coz I don't want it out and I just wanna keep trying 😭😭😭

@dizzy85 ooooh no I'm so sorry 😔 let's hope they can treat it without surgery. So many things are impeding baby making atm, the world seems to be going mad.
I'm 10dpo and trying to hold off testing.

@ArjaD I really hope so, I know it's so frustrating I'm gonna have a good chat with the doctor on the 6th but means I'll just have to not try this cycle as the fertile weeks before the appointment 🙄. Oh wow you've done good to not test yet, when do you think you'll test?

Oh don't get me wrong, I tested at 8dpo and regretted it 😂 so waiting now. No more till af is due x

@ArjaD oh I see haha 😂 well hopefully you can hold out 😆

Ladies am I going mad or is there a line? X

I think i see a line !!!!

I picked up the wrong one I have the opks and pg tests in the same drawer it wasn't until I had dipped I had seen it was the pregnancy test and it had a line straight away but v faint I haven't even ovulated this month I wouldn't even know how many dpo I am!

@NicoleR14 I think I can see something too 🤞🏻have you done another test?

Aww @dizzy85 I’m so sorry to hear that, I hope you can get it all sorted ASAP with the docs!

@NicoleR14 I Definitely feel like I can see something too! Could be worth a frer tomorrow?

Not yet I'm going to wait till morning and retest with fmu! I hope it's not an evap🤞🏼

I've got a 3 pack of clear blue in the house but I'm scared to use them because they are notorious for evaps also!

@NicoleR14 I'm sooo excited, really hoping your test this morning is a bfp! 🤞🤞🤞

Bfn's for me this morning I really thought there was a line on that one strip test last night! I must of got a faulty batch of them 😢

Aw no, sorry @NicoleR14 😞😞

I think it was wishful thinking anyway I haven't even ovulated I have no idea where I am in my cycle thank you @ArjaD! When will you be testing?

Af due in 3 days so will try to hold off till on the day it's due I think. It's soooo hard.

That's not too long to wait! It is hard to resist the urge to poas! I get towards the 9/10dpo mark and the urge gets too much and I cave in! Af is due on the 30th of this month but I doubt it'll come then it'll wait and taunt me and drive me insane for a week or so!

Sod's law huh! Nothing predictable about it!!