11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

Morning ladies, well that's me out this month the ugly witch is here 😭 depressing but at least now I know I can stop guessing. I'll be watching out for all your bfps 🤞🏻and be stuffing my face with chocolate for the next few days whilst planning which way to tackle the next cycle 😆

Aww sorry @dizzy85 fingers crossed for next cycle, enjoy your chocolate!

@dizzy85 sorry to hear that hun! I don't think any of us got our bfp last month so fingers crossed there's at least 1 this month!

Hoping so much for you both @ArjaD and @Bbutterfly So you don’t have to wait!

Aw sorry @dizzy85. Mother nature plays by her rules 😞 8dpo now and desperately resisting testing!!!

Thankyou all, not nice but I'll be ok onwards and upwards, I'm gonna enjoy the chocolate some wine and some peace of not thinking about it for about 5 days lol then back to it. I'm buying the pregnacare his and hers today as I conceived the month I took them so ya never know 😆. Lots of bfp baby dust to everyone x

Worth a try @dizzy85! I started some vitamins this time, folic and vitamin D. But if I have no luck this cycle I may get the his and hers too!

@Nmew I'll try anything at this point 🤣 I've just been looking at preseed stuff too i might give that a go aswell.

At the risk of tmi, my hubby is trying vitamin c as this is supposed to boost sperm count. But it makes it a bit rubbery 🤣🤣🤣

@ArjaD oh I wonder why it does that? Maybe it helps the sperm get stronger so they can swim faster 😁

I bought the his and hers pregnancare vitamins for me and dh have been taking pregnancare pre conception since October but dh started 31st of December in fact I think it's made him want to dtd less than usual! Haven't had a positive opk yet but boobs still been extremely sore even my bra rubbing against them is so painful! Can't get rid of it at all having one of those nights I think! How's everyone else getting on x

@dizzy85 maybe a larger concentration of sperm? No idea... We'll see what happens! Still trying to resist testing, 9dpo today and feeling a bit crampy. Hoping it's not af.
@NicoleR14 that's so odd about the boobs. Maybe it's a stress thing?

@Bbutterfly how are you feeling?

Morning ladies
@Nmew join the non existent symptom spotting club me and @ArjaD are pros lol
I'm feeling nothing just completely normal no symptoms what so ever I can't even make one up out of something that barely exists lol. I'm going to wait until af due to test... I 🤔. when was you thinking of testing? @dizzy85 yes enjoy your weekend with lots of wine and start again next month... after mall it is valentines month! Xxx

@Bbutterfly Well I’m 6dpo today so you can bet I’ll be on the symptom spotting train from here on out 😅
I’ve heard some good reviews of the preseed stuff @dizzy85 can’t do any harm trying it!

Once again I crumbled last night and tested at 8dpo. Bfn of course. WHYYYYYY

We always cave around the 8/9dpo and test at least we know there's still hope @ArjaD!

Testing at 9dpo is far too early. Very small percentage of women get a BFP that early, you just need to read posts on this site to see this. Alot of people need to wait till AF is late to get a BFP

Wait till the day AF is due otherwise your just waiting money and getting disappointed.

You're right. Just wish I could convince my brain of this. 🤣🤣 No more wasting tests, that's it. Af shows or not. That's that.

@Bbutterfly i had not a single symptom my first pregnancy. It was a total surprise to me then to get a bfp. So no symptoms could be great news!

@Trying93 trust us we know that 😂we are just lunatics who like to throw away money.
@ArjaD I hope you are right. It will be my first so I've got no idea what to expect at all xxxx

I don’t blame you ladies for testing, it’s so hard not to. I still have 8days until AF is due and I’m not sure I’ll make it that long lol

Starting to get a bit worried now on cycle day 22 have had no cm or positive opk is there something wrong with me? Has anyone had this problem before 😢?

Hi guys,
I was on this thread in December and then fell pregnant when I least expected it with stress at work and stuff but I didn't obsess that much about getting pregnant in December. I still thought of getting pregnant but I didn't constantly do ovulation tests. I only did them once I though I am ovulating and that is all.

So I just wanted to tell you why I think I got pregnant. This is crazy but I don't know if this has anything to do with me getting pregnant.

First of all that month in December

1. I stopped obsessing but didn't stop thinking of course that is impossible
2. Me and DH started eating Manuka honey the strongest ( I know there r rumours it doesn't work but my mum told me to try it anyways)
3. I did acupuncture and she told me that my lower back was locked. And that I might be able to get pregnant this month. I laughed and said yeah sure, what ever if I get pregnant I will let u know. But I could feel difference when I left the acupuncture. I could feel some kind of uterus cramps just like the blood was rushing down just minutes after I left, I thought I was imaging it to be honest. And I did the acupuncture one day before ovulation.

1. I did some massage ... and she said ur lower back is very tense. I thought that couldn't be a coincidence..

So honestly of all three I think all of them worked. I can't tell what exactly did the magic.. but if I have to choose I would probably say that Manuka honey worked for my husband and acupuncture for me. Because my husband was feeling full of energy that month.

I have only been doing opks for 2 cycles @NicoleR14 so I don’t have much experience. Though both cycles were totally different results on opks for me. Hopefully it’s just a fluke cycle or bad opk batch or something xx

@Sunshinexx95 huge congratulations on your bfp! And thank you for the tips, I have been thinking of trying acupuncture if this cycle is a bfn. Wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy x

7dpo here and symptom spotting is slowly creeping it’s way in lol heartburn, which let’s be honest was due to something I ate, but a gal can hope lol