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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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NicoleR14 · 11/01/2020 10:53

@ArjaD It is odd but I think my body's still recovering so maybe out this month already! Boobs is still extremely sore to touch and getting aches in them I don't understand why! My cousin has passed away so my focus on dtd is completely gone so I think do think me and dh is out this month!

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ArjaD · 11/01/2020 12:51

So sorry to hear @NicoleR14 😞 can totally imagine your mind is elsewhere now. You never know though! Once is all it takes..... Very odd about the pains though. I wonder sometimes if we just put too much pressure on ourselves and then stress takes over... It does odd things to the body.

Nmew · 11/01/2020 13:53

Hope you get your positive opk soon @NicoleR14

I have been stressing about it less this cycle @dizzy85, though now I know I’ve gotten a positive opk I can’t stop thinking about it. I’m hoping the tww doesn’t have me symptom spotting like crazy, but who am I kidding!

Nmew · 11/01/2020 13:55

So sorry about your loss @NicoleR14 xx

dizzy85 · 11/01/2020 19:56

@NicoleR14 really sorry to hear about your cousin hope your ok as can be ❤️xxx

NicoleR14 · 11/01/2020 23:33

Thank you everyone❤️ xx

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Nmew · 12/01/2020 20:40

Hope everyone is having a nice Sunday, I was wondering if any of you ladies have ever felt nauseous around the time of ovulation?

I have felt so nauseated today and can’t really pinpoint why.

ArjaD · 13/01/2020 07:56

@Nmew that's so odd, I've been feeling nauseous too this week. Last night I thought I'd have to get up to throw up... Never had this before.

Nmew · 13/01/2020 10:47

I’ve read that it could be something to do with a hormone surge, who knows! Thankfully I seem to feel better today, hope you feel better @ArjaD

ArjaD · 13/01/2020 11:39

@Nmew you too x got a full day of massages to do today so no time to think about it thankfully. 5dpo today, defo too early for any symptoms.

Nmew · 13/01/2020 11:58

According to my app and OPK peak I’m 2dpo, so that’s why I wondered if nausea was ovulation related that or it was just a coincidence. Good to be kept busy! I’m hoping to keep occupied this tww cycle to stop the symptom spotting, thankfully have picked up more shifts in work to keep distracted!

Hope everyone else is doing well x

Bbutterfly · 13/01/2020 17:08

Hey everyone, @NicoleR14 so sorry about your cousin I hope you are ok.
How strange re the nauseous-ness!
I swear this tww gets longer every month.
Hope everyone is ok. Xx

ArjaD · 13/01/2020 20:34

Fingers crossed for everyone. I've got one pregnancy test left so I am trying to resist buying more. That way I have to wait till the day my period is due! Who knows, the nausea may be hormone related. Must be just another joy of being a woman 😂

Nmew · 13/01/2020 23:17

Lol another thing added to the long list @ArjaD

I have 2 frer and some cheapies, and I really don’t want to buy any more so I am determined to wait until the day after my missed period at least!
I wasted so many tests and I was 7 days late so used even more that week, need to plant a money tree lol

dizzy85 · 14/01/2020 14:34

Hey how's everyone getting on? Af Is due in 2 days for me have tested for a few days now and still bfn.

NicoleR14 · 14/01/2020 14:40

@dizzy85 don't give up hope yet! Hoping you get your bfp! It's CD19 for me today and no sign of a positive opk yet! Still dtd just to be on the safe side, how's everyone else?

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dizzy85 · 14/01/2020 15:00

@NicoleR14 Thankyou hopefully I'll find out one way or the other soon😄On another thread I'm on someone just got their positive opk on cd25 so it just goes to show how different we all are. Hope you get yours soon.

ArjaD · 14/01/2020 17:48

Hi @dizzy85, dpo6 here, so not testing yet xx you're defo not out though, fingers crossed!!!

dizzy85 · 14/01/2020 20:12

@ArjaD Thankyou, but I do have a bad feeling now I've even put a pad on coz I feel she's coming 😭 shall let you know. 6dpo your getting there fingers crossed for you.

ArjaD · 14/01/2020 21:31

I've noticed lots of spots in my face today, never tend to get that. It seems I may be doing my paranoid symptom spotting after all 😂😂😂

Nmew · 15/01/2020 09:03

Fingers crossed for you @dizzy85 when will you be testing next?

I’m 4dpo today, I think beyond 6dpo I’ll find it hard not to symptom spot since I know implantation can occur from then onwards lol

Hope you get your positive soon @NicoleR14

dizzy85 · 15/01/2020 12:17

@Nmew thanks, I tested again today and bfn again af due tomorrow so we will see what happens, feeling really rough now had a on off bad headache for the last few days if it's af I'd rather just know now so I can stop symptoms spotting two weeks of it's enough I need a break...until the next two weeks 😂
Hope it's your lucky month this time 🤞🏻

ArjaD · 15/01/2020 17:02

How's you @Bbutterfly?
Aw I hope af stays Away @dizzy85 - I just realised hubby is away for his offshore shifts during fertile weeks in Feb and Mar so if no luck this month, that's us for a while 😞

Bbutterfly · 15/01/2020 20:14

Haha @ArjaD just caught up on the chat and I'm doing the same paranoid symptom spotting 🤣 got a couple of spots on my cheek and even though I could only dtd once when I got my positive opk Im still really hoping it's my lucky month! Don't worry about next month, our days fall on the same 10th/11th feb? Hubby is also planning to travel for work and it's those days too! Hopefully the universe will give us our bfp this month so we don't have to miss out next month. Plus yours came home on the perfect day for you this month so it might be fate! @dizzy85 fingers crossed af doesn't turn up for you. It's so annoying isn't it when you get to the point of just wanting her to arrive to just get on with it.
@NicoleR14 hope you get your positive opk soon! Xxx

ArjaD · 15/01/2020 20:59

@Bbutterfly my date somehow is predicted for the 9th, must be because I had a 32 day cycle last month. I am crossing everything for us, but i am passed the stress now. I think eventually things sort of even out à bit 😂 two months of no unromantic DTD may bring the mood back a bit lol

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