11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

How are you guys doing @Bbutterfly @dizzy85

I had an odd week I must say. Positive opk on Tuesday, so jumped hubby, and again just after midnight this morning (poor guy is trying to adjust from coming off nightshift so I couldn't get him awake last night lol.) but usually my opks are always positive for a day or three once I get the first one. Now, they went straight back to negative the next day. I know the hormone surge can be short, but i just reckoned it tended to be the same for me each month. Can it differ? Also, last night after DTD I had a verrrry sore half hour or so of what felt like one great continuous period cramp. No idea what this means as it's obv way too early for symptoms. Any ideas?

@amethyst45 congratulations!! Great news for you!
@ArjaD I am not convinced I've done it this month, I managed to dtd only once after I got my positive opk, hubby had to travel for work unexpectedly the next day when I was planing to jump him again lol. Gutted. It's so annoying. And the exact same happened to me! Opk negative and usually it stays positive for at least a day after! I have no idea what your cramp could be? How strange.
@beachlife321 hopefully the blood tests and scan will give you some answers finally. Keep us updated. Xx

@ArjaD I'm doing ok Thankyou, 7dpo today, feeling little twinges here and there but I've had that before and it's been nothing so not reading anything into that, no other real symptoms yet other than my lack of sore boobs this month. Could the cramp you had be related to ovulation? If you had positive opk Tuesday then it could possibly be ovulation pain as it can happen I think 24-36 hours after the surge.

@amethyst45 congratulations too you ☺️

I guess it may have been, it's odd how your whole body can just be different from one month to the next. Arghh why can't it just be the same once you've established your pattern 😂😂 Well anyhow, we'll wait and see.
Aw @Bbutterfly, that sucks about hubby. Nothing like worse when you've got it planned out and then work gets in the way. But it only takes one, so fingers crossed 🤞🤞🤞

Sorry wrong tag, meant @dizzy85
Babybrain never fades BTW, ladies.

Oh no I got it right after all. I rest my case 😂😂

How's everyone doing? Not had a positive opk yet but still trying to dtd even with staying with the in laws! Having extremely irritated and sore boobs has anyone ever had this my boobs only only fine for 3-5 days out the month the rest of the time I can't take the pain of them this has been for the past 2 months! I spoke to my doctor about it and they told me it was nipple eczema but I've got eczema and know for 100% that is not that its definitely hormone related but it won't leave anyone else had this problem?

@NicoleR14 I can honestly say I've only ever had this problem when I was pregnant with my boy. SO sore, I hated it!

@ArjaD it is annoying isn't it, I've lost count how many times I think I've figure it all out and then it changes itself up😂
@NicoleR14 hey, I'm all good thanks. Hope the nipples aren't too bad 😄 i usually get sore boobs starting from ovulation but so far they're not too really sore. We are currently staying at our in laws aswell whilst we save so I feel your pain 😂trying to dtd is a nightmare at times having to be really quiet and conscious if anyone can hear us is not a turn on. Hope you get your positive opk soon what cycle day are you?
I just had a tiny bit of spotting when I wiped but I've had this before so who knows.

They've been sore for days now since about the 3rd! I've never had sore boobs before af or ovulation this has been a new thing since having the implant removed! It's difficult staying with the in laws we all get along so well but it is difficult to get time alone me and dh hasn't had time to be alone in 3 months! Dtd is getting difficult to do lol

Morning ladies hope your good, I tested today at 8dpo 😂bfn but it's definitely still early so I'm not worried. I've seen online Superdrug's have packs of 2 frers for £8.49 I'm assuming it's the same in store too.

@NicoleR14 oh I know the feeling of not having any alone time it drives me crazy!

Hi ladies, been a bit MIA, lots to catch up on. Hope you are all doing ok this month.

Hi @Nmew how are you? Where are you at in your cycle?

Hi all! Just at 2dpo now I reckon.. Will prob just carry on every 2days for the next week or so just in case. Still have lots of cm which I can't even remember is normal after ovulation. Oh well, the two week wait has commenced!

@dizzy85 I’m CD 14 today, negative opk yesterday and positive opk yesterday. Dtd yesterday and will try get a few more in the next few days. I tried doing BBT but I was useless at remembering to do it lol
I see you are 8dpo, how are you feeling?

@Nmew have fun dtd😄 I did think about bbt too but I know I'd be rubbish at it. I didn't opk this month just went by cm etc so I could be out on the DPO. I'm doing ok had some spotting and crampy but I normally get pre af spotting so I hope it's not gonna come early🤞🏻

@ArjaD hope the tww flies by for you

Have you found it less stressful this time not doing opk? I couldnt keep up the bbt, I’d get up and go to bathroom and realise I’d not taken it lol I think I’ve managed do remember twice! I will certainly make the most of dtd 😅 and can only hope I don’t find the tww as hard this time round! Hope it flies in for you!

Hi ladies! Still not got my positive opk yet and on cycle day 15! Think my cycle is still all over the place hope I ovulate soon sick waiting on it now! How's everyone else getting on?

@Nmew I'd be the same I'm so forgetful. I have found it less stressful without the opks it's been nice not to think too much and just go with the flow. I hope it's easier this time round for you.

Best ovulation calculator?

@NicoleR14 I hope you get the positive opk soon x

@NicoleR14 that's odd huh, we should just have the exact same thing each month, would make life so much easier. How's the pain in the boobs? Anyone doing any symptom spotting yet?