11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

How's everyone getting on? No positive opk for me yet and hubby is home tomorrow so looking ok so far!

Were no good at dirty talk either we've tried it but just end up laughing coz it's too funny 😂
@ArjaD I'm roughly 4dpo now getting there slowly, I wanted to carry on dtd every other day just incase but we are both full of cold so not been in the mood much hopefully we've covered it anyway. That's worked out good timing then for you 🤞🏻
I'm already starting to symptom spot 😆

We've never been good at dirty talk it always ends in laughing trying to keep it fun I'm that kind of person when we're going for it I'll ask him a silly question and he just kinda rolls over telling me I've killed it 😂 trying to be less of that person and make things more exciting lol I should be on my fertile week now taking opks but it's going up and down like a yoyo since cd6! But trying not to pay too much attention to the opks and trying to dtd every other day see how that goes for us this month!

Morning ladies! Happy positive opk day @ArjaD glad to know hubby is home today perfect timing!
I have cracked up at our chat the dirty talk is a disaster always ends in laughs can't be taken seriously.
@NicoleR14 glad you are ok now and hopefully this month can be all our month! For some reason I have a good feeling and haven't been so psycho this time around. Even though I said I wouldn't test I still did but not as much and only 3 days before predicted ov. Got my positive opk this morning. Best get to it after work! Have a lovely day all xxxx

Update ..

Still no period

Dull pain in my left side (around my hip aswell)l really weird) when I move sudden .. rolled over in bed last night and it woke me up .. weird pain around my belly button.. very bad heart burn still don't know what's going on .. but currently waiting on gp to phone me ..

I'm actually worried as now I'm late for second period aswell and have no symptoms at all of af coming

@beachlife321 that is so weird, maybe you should go get more blood tests done? I know the last ones come back negative but surely something is going on? Hopefully dr calls you ASAP xxx

I know im genuinely worried atm as this has never ever happened me before...

I'm afraid off them fobbing me off .. like where do you go then or what do I do

@dizzy85 oh I feel you, we were trying whilst having FLU last month and it really sucked!!! Not surprised we weren't successful really. Good luck!
@Bbutterfly positive opk for me too today! Jumped hubby already this morning, will do so again tomorrow 😂😂

@beachlife321 aw man that sucks! May want to try a gynaecologist if the gp is no help.

How's everyone feeling tonight not had a positive opk yet but supposed to ovulate on 10th so there's still time been trying to attack dh at every possible chance but currently staying with his mother, father and sister it is not easy!

@NicoleR14 omg that sounds bad 🤣 my mum is coming over to stay for a week from tomorrow so will just get one more go in before she arrives 😂😂

@ArjaD we've had our home broken up so we decided to move in with his family for the time being to get things sorted and back to normal, sooo dtd isn't going to be easy especially in the room next door to his parents! At least you've got your positive opk and can get dtd before she gets there 😂!

@NicoleR14 oh I feel for you we lived at my in laws' for two months while our house was being built. NEVER AGAIN!!!!!

It's definitely been a struggle I don't mind it for the most part as we all get along really well but this baby making isn't going to be easy im telling you's girls ill be needing a turkey baster and a cup soon enough 😂!

@NicoleR14 well never say never. We use a cup most times as, even though my hubby is well up for it, he had always had an issue (his whole adolescent and adult life) finishing through intercourse. But we have fun with it and we got pregnant the first time using this method. Apparently it's quite a common thing amongst men. 🤔 It doesn't bother us.

Ive seen loads on here of people saying it's the easiest way and more affective! I think it's a great idea but hubby just isn't up for it🙄!

It's a shame because we all have days where we're not up for it or it's harder, and especially when the pressure is high like this week, it's a good option.

My period is due on Monday. Had sex every other day this month apart from one time where there was a two day gap because of non-cooperation from husband. I took a test this afternoon and got this. Now of course instead of being delighted I am terrified of a chemical and wish I had waited until my period was late-I'm not someone who overtests or anything so not sure why I felt the need this time!

That looks like a strong positive to me! I wouldn't be too worried I'd make an appointment with the gp to double check congratulations @amethyst45!

@ArjaD I agree it's hard sometimes especially when trying to do it every other day hubby is wanting to leave 2 day gaps between as he thinks it would be better but again living with the in laws there's no way of dtd every day either or every 2nd day!

Thanks @NicoleR14!

The every other day thing is definitely tricky,I could count on one hand the amount of times I genuinely enjoyed it. I always say to my husband that it will be great when we have finished having kids because then sex is an enjoyment thing whenever we want(definitely not every other day!)

I remember at start of ttc I made hubby dtd every day-it didn't work of course and we were both miserable but you get a bit obsessed with trying to make it happen and the more sex the better sounds like a good plan but every other day is definitely better.

I pity anyone staying with their in laws-I lives with mine for a few months before we got a house-never again!

@amethyst45 omg congratulations!!!! I'm hoping for lots of bfps on here this month.

Thanks @ArjaD very very early days so I am taking it a day at a time and trying not to think too far ahead!

I really think I ovulate differently to when the apps say,this is the first time I didn't pay much heed to when they said I was fertile-that and taking different vitamins were the only differences I made this month.

Fingers crossed that 2020 is lots of people's year for BFP!

@amethyst45 I was thinking that today actually, even though I do opks and all that I can't help but wonder how accurate it actually is. I mean, we're women so we're raging with hormones all the time 😂

@ArjaD congratulations

Wee update on my situation

Doc phoned me On Tuesday and wants me bk on Friday for more blood test also have a scan on Monday to find out what is going on xxx so hopefully I'll find out what's going on soon

Sorry @ArjaD wrong tag

Congratulations @amethyst45

Good luck everyone xx