11dpo and BFN

[NicoleR14]

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

Big hugs @xxchlobo90xx its possible they are thinking ectopic more now with the slow rise in hcg and no evidence in your uterus. If it is ectopic but no evidence of a heartbeat I believe they can give you methotrexate injection rather than surgery, (only from a quick Google when I was in a similar situation, although mine had a heartbeat and my tube had ruptured so I didn't have a choice!)
If it is, feel free to dm me if you need any advice or someone to talk to. I hope you get some answers soon xx

Happy new year everyone! Hope its the start of a better year and more bfps!
@xxchlobo90xx so sorry to hear that I'm hoping you get answers soon but if your hcg levels had rised isn't that a good thing?! I've got my fingers and toes crossed for you hun!

@NicoleR14 how are things going with you?

@dizzy85 everything's been fine still a bit sore seen the nurse they confirmed it was an ectopic told me to give myself a few weeks and go again so it was 2 weeks ago today started my opks yesterday going to take it from there and try again, how's things going with you?

@NicoleR14 im sorry to hear that I hope your ok. ❤️. I'm doing ok Thankyou 1dpo for me today.

@NicoleR14 so sorry to hear that Nicole. Did you had to have surgery? I've had 2 ectopic pregnancies. Both treated with surgery. Second time I had to have surgery, which failed so I had to have methotrexate. It is the worse thing. Sending lots of baby dust and luck to you ((hugs))

So sorry @NicoleR14. 😣 Hope we all get lucky this month and no more drama 😟 fingers and toes and eyes crossed.

Thanks ladies! Hopefully this is our month 🤞🏼no i didn't have to go surgery they had given me an injection and let me go home they said most of it had passed on its own I think I was one of the lucky ones Considering the things I've herd about ectopic pregnancys xx

Anyone else threatening their husbands during their fertile week? Mines is acting like a child at the moment 🙄😂!

Hahaha, that gave me a giggle! I must say my hubby's always just excited 😂 he follows instructions well 😂

So bloods and urine came back negative on Friday from docs ... I have to Waite and see now does my January af come which is due now on wed if not I have to do another set of bloods and urine if there still negative then doc is sending me for scan .. still very tired .. veiny boobs.. From yesterday I have a very very weird taste in my mouth and the inside of my lips feel like they did when I had my braces 🤷‍♀️ ..

I don't know what's actually going on atm but gonna retest on Friday if af doesn come

@ArjaD mines doesn't do well with instructions I asked him what would get him excited he replied with talk dirty about my game so I laughed thinking he's only kidding went to touch him and he shouted stranger danger i think I need to get him trained or a good whip either one 😂!

@sarahc336 sorry to hear that! My fingers is crossed for you hoping af doesn't arrive and you get your bfp! 🤞🏼

@beachlife321 sorry I got the name wrong!

@NicoleR14 omg 😂😂😂 hope you're managing to get to it lol! I think mine just jumps at every opportunity, he's away on the rigs for weeks at a time so he's deprived when he gets home 😂😂😂

@ArjaD were trying the smep this month so were trying to do it every other day but he just laughs at me when I try my luck 😂 it's like living with a child your lucky enough yours wants to jump you at every chance I'm trying to jump mines at every chance and he rolls me away laughing! maybe I'm being to desperate 😂!

Lol @NicoleR14 I just saw your reply in the up yours to ttc thread-why are they so annoying?! Luckily my husband isn't so bad and we did have sex today but my heart wasn't in it lol-sex feels so contrived when you are ttc,we are vaguely trying SMEP as well and it's a lot!

@amethyst45 I agree! It's a hassle all this ttc I finally managed to attack mines my opk is a bit higher today than yesterday it went from 0.07 to 0.24 so he was rumbled 😂 were at that stage where sex happens maybe once twice a week but when it comes to ttc its like a chore!

Hahahaha yeah, it helps when he's away a lot. Though tbh it's still super unromantic when you run down the stairs with a positive opk and tell him to drop his pants 😂 thankfully he always does 😂😂😂

It's brilliant how much they understand how important a positive opk is that's about the only time I don't need to attack him 😂😂

@NicoleR14 glad your back to it even if your dh is being funny 😆 that did make me chuckle about the dirty talk though.

Oh the joys hahaha 🤣🤣🤣

@dizzy85 yep getting back at it again dh thought this would be all fun and games we didn't realise how much effort went into ttc hes been telling me he feels violated but I have told him to shh and get on with it😂 we've had one of those days I think he's currently googling how long it takes for sperm to reload basically so he can prove a point! Need to start working on my dirty talk apparently I'm no good at using his game to turn him on possibly thinking it may need to be a cup and turkey baster 😂😂!

@NicoleR14 😂😂 to the turkey baster..hopefully it doesn't come to that. men can be abit weird sometimes can't they 🤣 it is hard work this ttc journey, I do try to keep it fun and not just dtd around ovulation but it's not always that easy coz it's on your mind all the time.

@NicoleR14 oh I'm rubbish at dirty talk too. Thank God it's not one of my hubby's kinks hahaha, I've been known to go 'oh. Your Mother called!' mid-you-know-what. Mood killer 😂😂😂😂