11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?

[HalfPenny28]

I’ve been testing since 8DPO and have had consistent BFN and a couple of evap lines. Since we BD I’ve had consistent cramping - particularly bad around the time implantation would be happening but I’m worried I’m looking for symptoms! Has anyone else got their BFP after 11DPO? I feel like I’m going mad!

@Bestronger I only know from my horrendous smear tests every 3 years haha it's nearly impossible to get a sample! The nurse said it won't affect fertility, just make smear tests a little uncomfortable but it's still annoying.

I've ordered the clear blue ovulation tests to see how they stand up again the internet cheap ones I got last month but I'm hoping using the SMEP method will help me relax because I don't have to rely on the opk.

I think I'll wait a few days of being late before testing again.

Just so sick of seeing one line on a test! So decided not to test until day before af is due next month :) try and relax a bit over Christmas.

When is your af due @rosie990? Will you wait to test?

Waiting for af today! Wish it would hurry up!

Awww a kitten?! Hope a kitten is settling in okay with you guys.

Ah of course smear test... they are horrible and I hated it even though it doesn't hurt but it is so uncomfortable!

Think I will test again since my AF still haven't arrived but I am not getting my hopes up because my AF can be late often. I was suppose to due AF yesterday

A kitten will be a fantastic distraction!

Are you still testing bfn @Bestronger? I think af is definitely on her way today for me. Can feel the cramps starting and getting a little spotting I think.

On to the next cycle for me! So so hopefully you two get your bfp this month 💕💕🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

I haven't tested since last week (I think I am putting it off...!). I will test it tomorrow morning.

Sorry to hear that Penny but give SMEP method a try next month! Sounds very good from what I have looked up.

Will you be 3 days late by tomorrow?

Af is deff here now 👋🏼 but it was bang on when my app said so at least I know that's right!

Just got to get it out the way now and get going again 🙂

Yeah I will be 3 days late by tomorrow.

Wish AF can feck off - yep that is correct Penny! Eat lots of chocolate to smoothen the ride 🙂

Fingers crossed for you today @Bestronger 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼💕

Any news @Bestronger ? 🙂🤞🏼

@HalfPenny28 I havent tested it yet oops! I am not at home yet until tonight 🙈 should I test it tonight or morning when it is more affective or that doesn't really matter?
Thank you! X

@Bestronger I'd wait until tomorrow now and use fmu 🙂 no sign of af? How're you feeling?

I will wait till tomorrow morning ☺️ yeah no sign of af but I didn't had implantion bleed or feeling pregnant 😂 just lots of cramping, think my body is winding me up

Only 1/3 of women actually get an implantation bleed though so it still could be good news 💕

I've ordered the clear blue ovulation tests for the next round so looking forward to using those! Easier to read than IC ones I think.

Got my preseed at the ready! Haha had a change of heart over the SMEP, think it might wear us out 😅 just going to focus on the days around when I ovulate.

@rosie990 how're you?

Interesting! Good to know that ☺️
Omg you should've seen the face of my DP when I told him about SMEP. He looks scared 😂 yeah I might be casual with SMEP but not in rightly order lol

Hi ladies hope your well. I am sorry I have been distracted with the new kitten. He is settling in nicely although completely scared of my little boy.

How are you both feeling?

Implantation bleed is a tricky one to judge but I keep my fingers crossed it is.

I am ok abit deflated I did a test today it was negative I know it's way to early and I dont know what came over me.

If it doesn't happen this month we will all enjoy trying over christmas.

My period is due next thursday so it's all a waiting game xx

Haha aw bless kitten, your boy must be so excited!

Aw yeah it is bit early, you should test it next to see more accurate test but I am hoping you will get BFP.

At least we all can drink over Christmas period if we get BFN (on positive side... ish)

@bestronger he is so excited he shouts and runs towards him. It's more about child training than kitten training. Teaching him to walk slowly and he resembles the robot.

I know it's to early I just dont know why I did it to myself.

Exactly I am looking forward to the christmas festivities if no babies.

Sounds like lots of learning for your lad lol.

Yeah exactly! We can just enjoy ourselves and have a hopefully new year 2020 with BFP

BFN from me! Oh well on to the next cycle. I just have to wait for my AF to show up but if nowt I will arrange an appointment with my doctor.

Sorry @Bestronger 😔 I know it's so disappointing.

On to the next cycle! 🙂 although unfortunately for me I'll be in my tww right over Christmas haha so a quiet one for me!

It is okay! I just have to be positive :)

How are you both doing?

@Bestronger exactly, that's it 🙂

You know I am actually feeling pretty calm this cycle, think I'm going to try and be a bit more relaxed over Christmas and focus on other things.

Still going to use my clear blue ovulation kit to double check when I ovulate as only had a 3 day period this time (usually they're 4 so it's not massively unusual) but just want to check I ovulate when I think I am!

All in all feeling okay 🥰 how're you both?

AF has still not arrived! WTF

@Bestronger omg!! Have you tested again? How late are you?

I've ran out of FRER so I need order more then I will test it again. I am now a week late... My cycle might be getting longer but who knows.