11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?

[HalfPenny28]

I’ve been testing since 8DPO and have had consistent BFN and a couple of evap lines. Since we BD I’ve had consistent cramping - particularly bad around the time implantation would be happening but I’m worried I’m looking for symptoms! Has anyone else got their BFP after 11DPO? I feel like I’m going mad!

@rosie990 I think just to check im ovulating and my hormones are normal etc
I'm sorry you're in limbo 🥺 the not knowing is the hardest.

I'm really hopeful this is your month!

Have you got any other tests?

@halfpenny28 hopefully everything comes back OK for you.

I am having limbo I really am. I have ordered some first response tests but I dont see how the one step cheapies could be so wrong

Never wanted a period so much xx

@rosie990 me too, I just want to know now and start a different route if needed. Tested yesterday and BFN so I think I've just been unwell rather than symptoms.

Do you feel like AF is on the way at all?

@halfpenny28 how are you feeling?

I am now on cd 47 never in my life have I been this late. I have taken countless test and nothing.

Had spotting the other day but as fast as it came it went. Keep feeling like I have cramps but I am at the point now I am thinking its in my head.

Just have to wait for it to hit me now :-( xx

@rosie990 hey love, feeling okay. Bloods came back fine for progesterone so I'm deff ovulating. My husbands got his test week after next so we'll see what they say.

Sorry you're having to wait so long :( would a test deff show up by now do you think?

Have you spoken to the docs at all? Xx

Hi @halfpenny28 that's great news that everything has come back OK. What is the next steps if hubs is OK, has the doctor said?

No I haven't seen anyone yet. I haven't experienced anything like this before but I have been under alot of stress with work so I am just going to wait and hope it comes soon.

Last thing I want is delaying having a baby but fingers crossed.

Xx

@halfpenny28 @wannabemum1989 hope your both doing well.

Penny, have you had your results yet?

Randomly on day 56 today I got a flashing smiley on the ovulation test. So its all system go for bd this week now.

Gosh knows why but pleased I am heading towards ovulation now xxx

Hi ladies. AF is in full swing for me - it arrived early this month at 11dpo. Absolutely gutted as it started with some light spotting I thought could be implantation but no 😔 so into month 4 I go... Hope you're all OK. Good luck with the BDing @rosie990!!!

@wannabemum1989 @halfpenny28 hello ladies.

Just checking in to see how you are and hoping you are both now pregnant :-)

Just an update still no period and no pregnancu here. Doctor has given me tablets to start my period and had all blood tests come back normal.

Just think I have now over stressed myself with it all and hoping for good luck in the coming months xx

Hi @rosie990 nice to hear from you. I wish - sadly not yet :( really thought this month could have been it but then AF came. Into the back end of it now so time to crack on with month 5. We've booked some private fertility testing as I'm finding it all stressful and don't want to wait any longer to find out if there is some issue preventing things from happening. Sorry to hear you're still in limbo a bit - totally know how you feel with the stress levels. Great that the blood tests came back normal :)

Hi @rosie990

Sorry to hear that :( at least you can get your cycle back to normal and try again now.

No pregnancys here unfortunately. We've now started our process with the hospital so I'm hoping the help will mean it will happen for us soon.

I'm lucky to have 2 rounds of IVF funded where I live but I think the wait is going to be the hardest part

Hi ladies

@halfpenny28 how is it going? Did you put yourself forward for ivf

Just wanted to say dont give up hope after 3 months without a period I just got my positive. So happy xxx

That's wonderful news @rosie990, congratulations :) I got my bfp this month too. Lots of luck for a healthy pregnancy!

@HalfPenny28 I hope things are OK with you and if you've started the hospital process that it's going smoothly x

@wannabemum2989 excellent news congratulations. When are you due? Wishing you all the best.

Xxx

Thank you @rosie990! Due around the 15th May - how about you? Hope you're feeling OK so far! X

@wannabemum1989 based on my dates I think around the 22nd.

Have you contacted a midwife yet, curious how it will work now with covid etc and whether you get the same appointments

Xx

@rosie990 I had a short call with the midwife on Friday to make my booking appt. It seems the usual booking appt is split into one 45-60 min phone consultation and one 30-min face to face appt because of covid, rather than one long face to face. That's all I've gleaned so far! Have booked an early 6 week scan privately though just because I'm paranoid and my husband refuses to believe it's really happening until a medical professional confirms 😂

Keep me posted, hope the early weeks go smoothly for you! X

@wannabemum1989 I am so excited for you. How have you been feeling so far? All I know is i have been so tired then waking up at 1am and unable to sleep lol.

I think we will be booking a scan too around 8 weeks. Going to 12 weeks is so long lol.

I am going to call the doctor tomorrow and get the baby ball rolling.

Xxx

@rosie990 I've had some insomnia too - usually waking up way earlier than I need to and not being able to go back to sleep. Not too much otherwise still - I felt pretty fatigued yesterday for the first time but still no nausea/sore boobs etc. Feels like I've been pregnant for ages already even though I'm only 5 weeks and just found out last week!! X

@waanabemum1989 how are you? Did you book a scan xx

Hey @rosie990 - doing well thanks, actually had my scan this evening! I made myself 6+4 weeks today but they dated me at 6+6, and I saw a flickering heartbeat, so all very reassuring :) how about you? Did you book one in in the end? X

@wannabemum1989 so pleased your scan went well. What does that put your due date as?

I had my scan today and to our surprise there is two beautiful heartbeats. Measuring 7 weeks 5 days and so excited xx

Wow, twins! What an amazing surprise!! So glad all went well with the scan 😊 my due date is 12 May, what's yours?

How have you been feeling lately, much in the way of symptoms? I really feel like I've got off pretty lightly (haven't been sick once) but I can't help wishing I was having a few stronger symptoms for the reassurance of it! X

@wannabemum1989 it was a massive surprise. Not going to lie I have panicked abit. Purely because we have a 2 bed but we will make do until we cant any more.

Due date is the 19th May but I would imagine they come a few weeks before that.

I have also had very little symptoms. The lady at the scan place was surprised because with 2 its supposed to be rough. Saying that I had next to no symptoms with my son.

The only real symptoms I have had so far is my boobs have hurt none stop since being pregnant and I now can't get into any jeans but there is 2

Have my midwife appointment next week so hopefully get some answers xx