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11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?

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HalfPenny28 · 02/11/2019 07:10

I’ve been testing since 8DPO and have had consistent BFN and a couple of evap lines. Since we BD I’ve had consistent cramping - particularly bad around the time implantation would be happening but I’m worried I’m looking for symptoms! Has anyone else got their BFP after 11DPO? I feel like I’m going mad!

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cookielove · 09/12/2019 11:26

Hello ladies

I love reading about people ttc, i wish you all the luck for happy healthy pregnancies.

I have been ttc for a few years (luckily i am pregnant now) always used opks, the test strip ones are best used in the afternoon to get a clearer result. (I use to test in the morning and late afternoon) the test line needs to be as strong or stronger than the control line. Fx that helps.

Bestronger · 09/12/2019 12:01

Aw thank you cookielove that does help Smile

I like to hear people's positive stories too! Were you on anything when you been TTC? I have used pre-seed and currently taking seven seas pills daily.

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HalfPenny28 · 09/12/2019 19:33

@Bestronger when are you testing?? I have literally everything crossed for you 🥰💕🤞🏼

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cookielove · 09/12/2019 19:50

Erm as i have had a lot of losses, i was quite bitter and angry about the whole situation, so i was only really taking folic acid when i remembered which to be honest was really bad!

However when i got my bfp i switched to seven seas preggo pills, and because i bled heavily at the beginning of this pregnancy i saw a dr immediately and she recommended taking asprin as well.

Due to all my previous losses i saw a fertility clinic at 7 weeks and they put me on progesterone.

Before i had my little boy i was on folic acid and vit d.

Bestronger · 10/12/2019 08:28

I will do the test tomorrow when my FRER delivery arrives- thank you Penny!

@cookielove I am really sorry to hear you had lots of losses but congratulation on your pregnancy hope this one will stick!

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HalfPenny28 · 11/12/2019 16:50

@Bestronger any news? 🙂

How's everyone feeling? My clear blue ovulation kit has shown my fertile window about 3 days before my app does!

So waiting to see when it says I ovulate now.

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HalfPenny28 · 11/12/2019 16:51

@cookielove sorry to hear about your losses 😔 I can't even imagine how heartbreaking that is.

Are you trying for your second now?

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Bestronger · 12/12/2019 08:13

I haven't got chance to test as I am away atm but definitely will let you all know tomorrow!

I would follow your ovulation kit than the app if I was you Penny Smile I wish you a good luck and hope this is your month!

Bestronger · 13/12/2019 06:29

I got BFP!!!!!

Now I just need to tell my DP eek! 😁

rosie990 · 13/12/2019 06:51

@bestronger omg that's amazing. I am so sorry i havent been on this week. Work has been insane.

So how many days late are you?

I am so happy for the first postive test in this group.

I started spotting yesterday thought it was my period but I woke up today with burning boobs and no period. I am now considered a day late.

Took a test 2 days ago and negative. 🤔

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HalfPenny28 · 13/12/2019 07:45

@Bestronger congratulations 💕🙌🏼 you must be so pleased.

Tell me your secret! Haha

Late is a good sign @rosie990 fingers crossed for you too!

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Bestronger · 13/12/2019 08:28

I was 11 days late but funny thing that I tested it last week and I had BFN and I was 4 days late so Rosie you probably tested early?

I used pre-seed lubricant and seven seas tablets if that helps!

I want to keep in touch with you guys and I want to hear all the update! Thank you guys!

rosie990 · 13/12/2019 08:35

@bestronger so happy for you have you told your other half yet?

Best christmas gift for you all xxx

Bestronger · 13/12/2019 08:54

No I haven't but I will tell him tonight Grin can't wait to tell him!.

It is the best Christmas gift that I ever asked for! xxx

Bestronger · 13/12/2019 08:55

I got my fingers crossed and wish you all have BFP on the way soon!

rosie990 · 13/12/2019 18:20

@bestronger how many days past ovulation are you today? I think I am a minimum of 13 and I got a negative on a internet cheapie today.

My boobs are burning and I have the worst headache and sore throat which isny making this easier xx

rosie990 · 15/12/2019 12:23

Period arrived late last night. At least I can move on and try again next month.

Xxx

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HalfPenny28 · 15/12/2019 12:47

@rosie990 I'm sorry to hear that 😔 are you okay?

On to the next cycle lovely, and you'll be able to enjoy yourself over Christmas (although I know it seems minor compared to what we would want!)

I just got my static smiley face on my clear blue ovulation kit so about to start dtd a lot 😅 then into the tww again! Right over Christmas which is just my luck!

11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?
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Bestronger · 16/12/2019 08:05

Apologies I just saw this! On Friday I was 17 days post ovulation.

Sorry to hear that rosie, be positive and on to the next cycle.

Looking positive Penny, keep dtd up haha!

rosie990 · 16/12/2019 12:47

@bestronger how did your partner take the news? How did you tell him

Good luck penny hopefully this month is our month

My next ovulation is expected around 4th Jan. Damn these longer periods but at least I can enjoy all the christmas festivities with my boy without worrying

Xx

Bestronger · 16/12/2019 13:02

I gave him two pregnancy sticks with positive sign on and he looked very hard and just lost word haha! He was very happy. He asked me next day to double check that I did told him that I was pregnant as he thought he was dreaming Blush

You can focus on spending time with your family without thinking when to do DTD and other worries xx

xxSarah86 · 16/12/2019 13:28

Hi everyone, I hope you don’t mind me posting in this group, I’m new to mumsnet and it seems like the most appropriate post to ask advice. I have been off contraception since July but have only been properly trying and looking at dates/cycles in the last 2 months. I am currently 10 days post ovulation and I caved this morning and did a frer test- I can definitely see a faint line but I have just read reviews on their website and there seems to be so many false positives. I was wondering if you could take a look and give me your opinion? Thanks so much for your help. I don’t want to get my hopes up. Am I seeing things?

11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?
11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?
rosie990 · 16/12/2019 15:11

@xxsarah86 it looks postive to me.

Maybe give it a couple of days and test again but it does look like a positive test.

Hopefully congratulations are in order 💗

Diamond94 · 16/12/2019 15:21

@xxSarah86 hi 👋🏼 i am in the same boat, done a test an hour ago, i am 8dpo, feeling nauseous and exhausted the last 2 days.. my frer has a very faint pink line, hard to get a picture! I can definitely see a line on yours 🤞🏼

11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?
11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?
11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?
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HalfPenny28 · 16/12/2019 16:54

Hi @Diamond94 & @Sammyclaire22 I can see a line on both of those but I think it depends on if they have colour to them?

I'd test again in a couple of days 🙂

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