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11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?

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HalfPenny28 · 02/11/2019 07:10

I’ve been testing since 8DPO and have had consistent BFN and a couple of evap lines. Since we BD I’ve had consistent cramping - particularly bad around the time implantation would be happening but I’m worried I’m looking for symptoms! Has anyone else got their BFP after 11DPO? I feel like I’m going mad!

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rosie990 · 19/11/2019 17:07

I wish you both luck this month. So excited for you both and this little journey we are going on.

We are also dtd today and thursday in prep for next week and the big ov 🤣

Xx

Bestronger · 20/11/2019 08:54

Me too @rosie990! Hope this is the month and it'll be nice early xmas present for us lol.

I am feeling grotty today - I got sore throat boo Sad Hope I will keep up doing the deed tomorrow!

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HalfPenny28 · 20/11/2019 12:06

@Bestronger this is so weird Grin I feel exactly the same! Woke up this morning feeling like I've got the worst cold in the world. We dtd last night as a final attempt but it was a struggle and certainly not very romantic 😂 just got to wait and see now.

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Bestronger · 20/11/2019 12:40

That is weird haha hope you feel better soon.It is such struggle for us too! We were both tired and pre-seed isn't exactly romantic thing to use Blush Yes wait and see... I will do one more DTD tmw then do the waiting game

rosie990 · 21/11/2019 13:09

How are you ladies?

So according to my calender I am due to ovulate next week however, today is day 15 and I have cramps and alot of fertile cm. I am wondering whether I ovulating early with taking these tablets.

Anyway I am going to dtd tonight just incase.

I wont do ovulation tests because I will obsess haha

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HalfPenny28 · 21/11/2019 13:49

@rosie990 getting on okay Smile just trying to make the waiting go as quickly as poss and not obsess over symptoms haha hmm yes they may have done! Have any of the reviews mentioned it? It can't hurt to dtd anyway just in case! I loved tracking with ovulation sticks this month but can totally understand why you wouldn't want to! Do you use an app to track ovulation usually?

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Bestronger · 21/11/2019 15:04

if it helps I am not getting any fertile CM and yet my OPK says I am ovulating :/ but I am cramping a lot. It is normal to be like that apparently.... Maybe your tablets is encouraging your body to produce and fertile more? I'm aint a doctor but I think that what it is doing.

rosie990 · 21/11/2019 17:26

It's great that your getting positive tests.

It's hard insnt it we all look for the smallest sign 🤣

It's just a waiting game for us. Fingers crossed for us all

Be an amazing Christmas gift though

Bestronger · 22/11/2019 08:20

Waiting game is the worst haha!

Yes it would be wonderful Christmas gift for us - it would be the best!

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HalfPenny28 · 22/11/2019 08:39

I have my fingers crossed so tightly for all of us!

I'm so tempted to test with a frer on the 6th day before af Grin going to take a lot not to think! So far though I've not actually been tracking the days as much as last month although I'm only technically 3/4 dpo so it's not a wild achievement 😂

Are you both going to wait to test or ASAP?

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Bestronger · 22/11/2019 09:44

Haha try not think about it too much 😂 I am trying not to!

I think I am just gonna wait for my AF to come first then test it unless I'm having lots of symptoms I will definitely gonna test it straight away!

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HalfPenny28 · 22/11/2019 17:28

@Bestronger so hard isn't it! That's the annoying thing though, last month I could have sworn I had all the symptoms and still got bfn so don't know whether to put it to the back of my mind this month! I know that testing won't actually make any difference though 😂 af will come or it won't so I think you've got the right idea!

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HalfPenny28 · 24/11/2019 17:05

@Bestronger @rosie990 how are you both getting on? Smile x

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rosie990 · 24/11/2019 17:17

@halfpenny28 I am doing good thank you. Just starting my fertile window now so we have lots of activities ahead in the next few days 🤣

How are you? X

Bestronger · 24/11/2019 18:10

Hi guys! I don't feel pregnant which is sucks. Funny how I really want to have a sore boobs so badly 😂😂

How are you?

Get on DTD ASAP (lots!) @rosie990 I wish you lots and lots of lucks x

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HalfPenny28 · 24/11/2019 19:08

@Bestronger me neither! Feel completely normal which is the worst! I'm not even keen to test now this month because I just know it's going to be negative.

Considering this fertility tablets!

@rosie990 eeek exciting! Get going! Haha we dtd for 7 days straight 😂

How have you got on with your tablets?

Even though you're not hopeful @Bestronger I'm wishing you both lots of luck too! 💐💐💐

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Bestronger · 24/11/2019 19:40

At least we are going through with it together and know how we both feel but we just have to be postitve 😊 might have to look for different fertility tablets...

You too penny! I wish you a good luck too x

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HalfPenny28 · 24/11/2019 20:20

Exactly :) it'll happen when it happens! X

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HalfPenny28 · 25/11/2019 17:48

Is it mad to test at 7 dpo? Asking for a friend.

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Bestronger · 25/11/2019 19:11

Mmmm all i'm gonna say is go ahead but don't get hopes up too high but I reeeeeeeally hope you got the positive!

Up to you really...

rosie990 · 25/11/2019 20:32

Test at 7 days if you want and let us know the results 😊

I have my tablets I do seem to be having ovulation signs earlier but I think I am so overthinking everything.

Just keep trying and hope for the best.

How are you both feeling?

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HalfPenny28 · 25/11/2019 21:04

@Bestronger @rosie990 I tested and it was negative BUT I'm okay :) I fully expected nothing less but it got it off my mind.

I'm so keen to see how these tablets turn out!

I feel okay :) don't feel much different other than had light af like pains today but hardly noticeable really. Actually the only thing I have noticed is that I've been so warm! And usually I'm always cold - but I have just had a cold so it may be that messing my body up.

I'd love it to be a positive this month but I just don't feel like it is at all but I'm plugging away with the folic acid and Vit D and the dreaded pre seed 😅

How are you both?

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Bestronger · 26/11/2019 08:57

@rosie990 maybe the tablets has the affects on it?

@HalfPenny28 sorry to hear that penny but at least you know the answer and I bet that your mind at peace for this month. Just keep trying!

I am alright I still got a cold :( I will wait for AF to come first which is on 2nd Dec wooooo(!) Cos I am not feeling pregnant at all. I think I will to start exercise again as I know that might help me to conceive better. I stopped exercise after I had a accident with the spinning bike and ended up in the hospital lol. I have to stop making excuse now!

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HalfPenny28 · 26/11/2019 14:52

@Bestronger I'm going to carry on testing in hope that it was just to early but not too sure about this month. It's hard because a part of me still hopes it'll be positive even though I think I know it won't be.

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HalfPenny28 · 26/11/2019 16:55

@Bestronger oh my goodness that sounds horrible :( sorry you're going through that as well as ttc!

Are you still feeling symptomless?

@rosie990 when is your next af due?

Still got my fingers crossed for us all 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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