11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?

[HalfPenny28]

I’ve been testing since 8DPO and have had consistent BFN and a couple of evap lines. Since we BD I’ve had consistent cramping - particularly bad around the time implantation would be happening but I’m worried I’m looking for symptoms! Has anyone else got their BFP after 11DPO? I feel like I’m going mad!

@rosie990 I got my second reading from jade and she said my conception month will be May 🤔 so not sure now 😂 but it has cheered me up anyway in a weird way so thank you xx

Interesting. I would be curious to hear what your signs are and compare them to mine. May be both months are significant. You could fall pregnant in august and be due in may?

How are you feeling anyway, did your period show up?

Xx

@halfpenny28 sorry forgot to tag you in the previous post. I have booked a reading with nicolle, she has a deal at the moment. Let's see what she says and if it compares xx

@rosie990 haha so have I! Got it booked in for Monday with nicolle!

Yes that's true I hadn't thought of that actually! My signs were a birthday or celebration around my August conception month and it's my 30th in August. And a red door 🤷🏼‍♀️

I didn't get any signs with jade but interested to see what nicolle says.

I feel okay today, still no sign of AF which is weird as I started spotting yesterday but due tomorrow so could be a slow lead up.

How're you? Are you in your TTW now? Xx

Interesting. Cant wait to hear what she says and I will let you know what I get :-)

That's a weird one? Would you take another test?

Yes officially in my tww. It's odd. Last month my bbs hurted instantly after ovulation and this month nothing. They certainly love to keep you guessing 🤣

@rosie990 af came this morning 😢 I kinda expected it though so I'm alright.

Yeah I'm really interested to see what the third one says!

Going to try and relax a bit this month.

@rosie990 I got my reading from nicolle and she said I'd conceive in August too but that it would be a boy 🤷🏼‍♀️ I really really hope they're right but we'll see 🙂

Did you hear back? Xxx

@halfpenny28 I haven't heard back yet. I may message her now and see which day i fall on as she put a monday special on yesterday.

So overall which months, gender and signs did you get xxx

@halfpenny28 I had my reading she says September either leading onto conception of conceiving or receiving a doctors confirmation

Gender - boy

Signs - nausea, fatigue and vivid dreams

Now I dont know what to think this is the most different reading meaning the others where not as far away.

I know it's a waiting game but I am scared it wont happen at all now having 3 readings i dont know what to think xx

@rosie990 hey lovely, how you feeling? Xx

@halfpenny28 I am ok thanks. Just finished my period and looking forward to starting this month and hoping it will be out month.

How are you xx

@rosie990 got my fingers crossed for you 💕 yeah I'm okay, now in TWW but not feeling like it's our month at all.

Spoke to the docs last week and we're going to start going for tests next month to see if anything's up so just trying to get through now.

@halfpenny28 aww that's really good news that you can get some tests although I am sure everything is ok.

Where we live you cant get nhs ivf so I dont know if I would have to go private for the tests if needed.

Hopefully this is your month. Xxx

@halfpenny28 how have you been xx

@rosie990 hello lovely 🙂 I'm okay, AF started Monday so onto cycle 10 for me this month.

Our doctors trying to find a clinic which is opening to start the testing process so just waiting to see.

How're you? Xx

@halfpenny28 that's good that they are looking. Are they not able to do initial tests within your doctors surgery? I dont know how this stuff works.

I hope you fall before needing anything additional. I will keep my fingers crossed.

I ovulated yesterday according to my calender. So I am keeping my fingers crossed, if not we have decided to try until December before seeking help.

Just getting so hard isnt it xx

Hi ladies - I've just read the full chain and I'd love to join the chat if I can. I'm currently ttc (at 11dpo in my second month of trying) and finding it so much more stressful than I ever expected, especially this early on! Only my husband and I know we're trying so could really do with some women to chat to about it :)

Hope you're all doing well. Lou x

Hi @wannabemum1989 of course you can join.

How are you coping? It is far more stressful than I could have imagined but is that because my son was a beautiful surprise.

Try and not pressure yourselves its easy to say but I am writing off the first few months of trying due to over stressing

Are you using anything or taking any medication?

Keeping my fingers crossed your you.

Sorry you had the read half of my ramblings about my journey. Sure I resemble a mad woman 🤣 xx

Thanks @rosie990! I've honestly been shocked at how anxiety inducing it all is, it's completely taken over my brain the last couple months. I thought it'd be fun but no!

This month I used the Clear Blue OPK and dtd every other day or every day around the peak, but that's it so far. Might step it up with Preseed if unsuccessful this month - testing BFN so far so that's looking likely...

It was really reassuring to read your stories and be reminded that many of us are going through this! Great to be able to chat to others in the same position :) x

@rosie990 I know, I'm completely over it in all honesty - so draining getting a BFP every month. But I am pleased we've started the ball rolling with tests and help.

How's your TWW going? You must be about 13/14 dpo today right?

Hi ladies sorry about the late reply

Firstly @wannabemum1989 how are you getting on. Did you get your positive?

@halfpenny28 I am increasing frustrated and worried that something is wrong now. After coming off the pill last August it look a few months to regukste my cycle I went from 38 days to 30 to 34 days.

I am currently on Cd 36 and I havent had a hint of a period. I have taken some Internet cheapie but they are negative. Although I have heard mixed reviews about them, surely it would work by now.

Not taking ovulation tests means again I could have missed last month and I ovulated later than expected.

I have never wanted my period si much so I can start again :-(

@rosie990 sadly I did not :( ended up getting a very odd AF which kept me guessing as to whether it could be implantation bleeding but the tests have remained firmly BFN so on to the next month! Feeling a bit more positive than I have for the last week or so at least.

Hope your period shows up soon so you can crack on with a fresh month - the waiting is just the worst! X

@WANNABEMUM1989 sorry to hear your period came but pleased you are positive this month.

When are you due to ovulate? I will keep my fingers crossed for you.

I am now on cd 40 and no sign of my period at all. I can understand a couple of days late but I dont think I have had a period this late since an early teenager.

I have been taking the Internet amazon cheapies and they show nothing.

My other half is getting excited because of all the negative reviews with giving both false negative and positive tests.

I just want my period and to be able to start again 😪

Aaah sorry @rosie990 🙁 how late are you now? Do you feel like it's just late or could be a late BFP?

Had blood work done this morning so should get that back Wednesday.

Been so unwell this weekend though and can barely eat anything 😢 trying to get my hopes up but it's impossible isn't it. 9dpo today and got some tests in the post.

@halfpenny28 thats good what tests did you get done? What are they looking for?

I usually have a 33/34 day cycle on average since coming off the pill and today I am q week late.

I don't know what to think. I currently don't feel right, if that makes sense but I also don't want to think about it because I will get my hopes up.

As always I hope for a positive and have never been this late before but I just dont know.

Just getting upset with it all at the moment

Xx