Anyone get a BFP after BFN

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I'm approx 9dpo and have been having lots of twinges and pinching on my right side, been very very tired so decided to test today and got a BFN.....

Anyone had this and then gone on to get BFP? Or am I out this month?

Sorry been trying for 9 months and getting restless 🙄

@Trying93 that's what I'm thinking. And I'm never early. Ever. I have been late before when I've gone through stressful times, but always a regular 28-30 day cycle! So 🤞🏻
Oh goodness yes, that is annoying. Are you taking pregnacare? Maybe that could be why? Or maybe stress? Even if you don't feel that stressed? Hehehe I can imagine.
I have two FRERs here but won't touch them until Tuesday! 💖

@Gigi318 I was taking pregnacare earlier on this year so maybe thats why they are now longer. Only had 3 cycles since my MC so could just be still settling down too. I wouldnt say im stressed but maybe need to relax a bit more leading up to my period. Easier said that done 😂

You must have the patience of a saint I'd have used them haha. Literally no shops near me sell FRERs so I couldn't even go buy one if I wanted to. Probably a good thing

@Trying93 yes I imagine that's why my lovely, just getting used to it! Oh babe, tell me about it. SO much easier said than done!
Hehehe I am terrified of POAS! That's why 🙊 and if this is IB I know I need to give it a few days for hcg to build up. Oh the torture 😂🙈

When i first started trying for a baby i thought it was going to be so easy. It took me 27 months to conceive my 1st, i fell pregnant 13 months later and had my 2nd & fell pregnant 13 months later and had my 3rd.

It feels like a lifetime when your waiting doesnt it. I am no longer with the father of my children and have been trying with my DP for 22 months now,

For what its worth aswell, when pregnant with my 2nd i was POAS from the day i was late and didnt get a positive until i was 15 days late. When i had a scan i was supposed to be 9 weeks and was only 7. They said i must of conceived later in my cycle

Good luck, every month i get excited, it will happen one day

@FoggyHazeyMaybe sorry to hear that it's taking you a while, chick. Hope you and DP conceive soon. And that's the spirit, it will happen for you babe! Thank you, hoping this CM is a good sign! 💖

I'm out this month, AF has turned up

@Trying93 oh no babe!!!! So sorry to hear that. Big hugs and go grab a bottle for tonight and chill. Chocolate and a good film at the ready xxxxxxxx

Booo @trying93. Same for me, AF turned up yesterday so it's another month of trying for us.

@Trying93 and @mummabubs i'm sorry this isn't your month either xx

It's onto the next cycle for us but at least we can all relax a bit this weekend then onto the next cycle

@mummabubs sorry to hear that too chick!

Girls, I may be joining you, just hope this CM stops and it's not AF 😔 I'm only 10DPO though 💖

I actually feel okay about it, didn't manage to try much this month so wasnt expecting to get a BFP.

Got the wine chilling in the fridge. Enjoy your weekend ladies. @Gigi318 keep us updated 💜

@Trying93 I will do chick. Currently driving myself mad so will let you know if it stops or AF just arrives. Gahhhh 💖💖💖

Hello ladies!

I've just been for my uterus scan and the scan is fine. No bicornuate/septum uterus so I think I'm going to cancel the hysteroscopy as I don't want another invasive procedure if I don't need it.
@Trying93 sorry this month isn't your bfp month, have a few G&T's this weekend and ovulation will be here before you know it xx

@HoldingOn2Hope hello, hello! Oh yay, I'm so pleased. So they weren't worried at all? I'm so pleased for you. Yes, as little interference as possible. Are you feeling good??

How is everyone today? I hope you all have a wonderful weekend 💖

@holdingon2hope fab news!! So pleased for you, you must be feeling relieved.

Does that mean you can ttc this month then?

Hi ladies....

New to this group today and found this post which makes me feel like I'm not alone!!!

OH and I are also TTC with Baby No2. I came off the pill in 2018 and my periods all year have been a CD28-30 cycle. September my period came on CD32 and I put that down to it being the final week before finishing up for holidays and the usual crazy busy spell.

Anyway, between CD13-17 I got positive ovulation results I didn't test after CD17 so not sure if it was any further prolonged or not.

AF was due 10th Oct so I'm now 9 days late. I've tested several times all negative.

I've had cramping, feeling yucky, tiredness, really sensitive nipples, acne on my jawline (which was the clue that made my mum guess I was pregnant first time round), and CM has varied over the last 2 weeks - gone from thicker white to the clear/white stuff.

This is month 2 of TTC so early days - with our daughter it happened on the second month - but I'm not sure we'll be blessed with the same luck this time!

Just need some other people to talk too who are dealing with the same thing.... none of my immediate friends are TTC.

I hope you all have some Positive news soon! 😁

@Gigi318 I feel a little relieved but will wait til the gp confirms the findings before I get excited about ttc again! The hysteroscopy was purely to check for septum uterus but i still have that appt with private consultant mid Nov and he would prefer I wasn't pg at the time he sees me. When will you be testing? Exciting 😆

@Trying93 ideally I shouldn't ttc this month as the consultant I'm seeing in Nov doesn't want me to be pg for the appt but I guess I can go with the flow and DTD during my fertile window and see what happens 🤔

@LynzP85 hello chick, and welcome. How are you feeling. I'm also second month but TTC1! How old is your DD? Hopefully you'll get that BFP soon. When will you test next? 💖

@HoldingOn2Hope oh yes! But then if you are PG babe all is well. I say carry on as you are. Maybe not actively TTC but relaxed and just seeing what happens. Seems silly to stop TTC to see a specialist when you could already be PG! If that makes sense? Unless the consultant you're seeing isn't fertility related? Either way, fingers crossed for you chick! Xx

@Gigi318 My patience has been awful so I've been using strip tests each morning for the last 5 days. So it will be hard to leave it another few days before checking again! And if I'm lucky enough to get a positive I would like to know exactly how many days late I am before the result was known!

I was taking to a girl yesterday who had a late period, day 12 she got a positive and my friend Hannah had all negatives until Day 9 and her little one turned 3 today!

My daughter turned 3 last weekend 😁

@LynzP85 aww that's so lovely a nice age gap there. Exactly. Another girl I know was late 9 days before BPF. That's true, with ICs its not so bad and you can always order the FRER when you get a BFP on them! 💖

Hey @Gigi318 how are you doing? Have you tested yet? 😃 it's ovu week for me but I have to stay safe! Can't believe how fast it comes around though! Xx

@HoldingOn2Hope heyyy! How are you? So I tested yesterday at 5am (couldn't sleep) and BFN! I'm 14DPO today. No brownish CM so far today (I've had it practically last 5 days very lightly) and no sign of AF yet. AF due tomorrow according to Flo. Will test Thursday as I will be 1 day late then. Eek!!!
Exciting. Shame you have to say safe ☹️ when is your next appointment??

@Gigi318 well I hope AF stays well away for you! Brown cm could be implantation bleeding? 😃 my appt is in 4 weeks so if I did ttc again this week they will not be able to do the nk cells test so I should really stay safe! Tempting though

@HoldingOn2Hope thank you! It could have been. Had it 9-13DPO! Nothing today and still no AF. A bit crampy right now so 🤷‍♀️ it's such a rollercoaster. Hmmm that is tempted. If you caught then would you still need the appointment?? Xx

@Gigi318 Dr S the consultant thinks it's very likely I have elevated NK cells so I guess if I fall pg again I'm at risk of mc. But then you read these stories of women who are lucky 3rd 4th and so on time.
He will probably be annoyed at me too if I turned up at his appt with a bfp! 🤪