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Anyone get a BFP after BFN

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Cabbiefix · 10/09/2019 18:47

I'm approx 9dpo and have been having lots of twinges and pinching on my right side, been very very tired so decided to test today and got a BFN.....

Anyone had this and then gone on to get BFP? Or am I out this month?

Sorry been trying for 9 months and getting restless 🙄

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Gigi318 · 12/09/2019 14:06

@Trying93 🤣 that made me chuckle. Not that it's funny, of course - but you know what I mean. How are you feeling today?

Trying93 · 12/09/2019 15:06

@Gigi318 im actually fine iv finally learned not to get my hopes up and accepted that early testing is not worth it.

How are you?

Gigi318 · 12/09/2019 15:18

@Trying93 that's the way I'm thinking at the moment, but who knows what I'll be like in the future. I'm feeling okay, horrendous backache though. And I strangely had lots of EWCM after a run this morning, so either that's a good sign or I'm well off and ovulating crazily late for me on CD20!

Trying93 · 12/09/2019 18:19

@Gigi318 I dont ovulate until CD18 or 19 so it is possible. Have you used opks or you just working it out based on your cycle length?

Gigi318 · 12/09/2019 18:36

@Trying93 oh amazing. I've done it based on my body. Mainly CM and ov pain. Usually how I know. Never used Opks but might in the future. I feel like I know my body well. But we shall see what the months bring. I may be well off 😂🙈

NightlyBye · 13/09/2019 04:42

Aaaand I'm out for this month. AF came 2 days earlier than predicted. Had a little cry earlier. Will have to hope that I get a holiday baby on the next cycle!

I'm keeping my fingers crossed that someone gets their wish this month, good luck everyone :)

Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 06:31

@NightlyBye oh no 😞 so sorry my love. But that's the spirit - you might be out of the round, but you're still in the game. And how lovely a holiday baby will be! Get planning, DTD, and we'll all hope for a nice sticky baby 💫

NightlyBye · 13/09/2019 07:10

Thanks @Gigi318
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Think I’ll stick around on here too as it’ll be nice to see how everyone else gets on too

Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 07:25

Yes @NightlyBye definitely! The sense of community here is wonderful - I know I'm new but I find it so supportive already!

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Cabbiefix · 13/09/2019 08:28

@NightlyBye aw I'm sorry to hear that!! I'm waiting for mine to start today, got horrendous upper back pain 😭

It's nice to hear people in the same boat and am sending each of you my crossed fingers 🤞🤞🥰

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Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 09:11

@Cabbiefix oh no! Are you due today? My back pain seems better today, so we shall see what that means 🤷‍♀️

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Cabbiefix · 13/09/2019 10:14

@Gigi318 yeah due on today but as of yet nothing so trying to stay positive 🤞 backache seems to have eased off a bit too 🤷🏻‍♀️

Hopefully it's a good sign for us both!

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Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 11:35

@Cabbiefix definitely keeping my 🤞🏻for you today. My back is a little worse again now so hot water bottle at the ready. Let us know if you have any changes. It's such a waiting game, isn't it!

Trying93 · 13/09/2019 12:19

@NightlyBye sorry to hear your out. I got pregnant when I was on holiday before so fingers crossed for you.

@Cabbiefix really hope AF doesnt show up

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Cabbiefix · 13/09/2019 13:17

Thanks @Gigi318, keeping my fingers crossed for you too! let me know how you get on, got a few sharp pains in my right side and feeling a bit light-headed but still no AF Confused

@NightlyBye hoping you get a holiday baby Flowers

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Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 13:20

@Cabbiefix will do. AF not due to next weekend and it literally feels a year away! I'm currently sat leant against the hot water bottle and its helping! Hoping you get a BFP soon. Will you test in the morning? I'm so lost on where I am with everyone - sorry if you've already told me!

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Cabbiefix · 13/09/2019 13:24

@Gigi318 i know that you mean, the two week weight kills me every time! hopefully it will be the last one for us Wink

It's ok don't worry, i think i'm going to rest testing tonight and wait until tomorrow, maybe Sunday?

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Cabbiefix · 13/09/2019 13:26

That was meant to say resist not rest [facepalm]

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Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 14:06

@Cabbiefix it's the first official one for me, but it would be fantastic if it's the last (for now 🙈) I'm feeling so off either something is going on or I'm getting quite poorly 🤣

Yes testing in the morning or Sunday is a good idea! Not long to wait at all!

Trying93 · 13/09/2019 14:53

@Cabbiefix @Gigi318 do yous have any kids already?

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Cabbiefix · 13/09/2019 15:10

@trying93 no, no children. We did get pregnant twice last year both within three months but sadly we found out at the 12 week scans that the babies had stopped growing both times ❤️

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Trying93 · 13/09/2019 15:26

@Cabbiefix sorry to hear that ❤

I'm in a similar position. No kids and had a mc earlier this year. Think it makes ttc even harder you just want to be pregnant again

Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 15:42

@Trying93 no, this will be baby number one for us. I'm excited, but terrified. I want that BFP but then it's a whole new adventure, right.

@Cabbiefix so sorry to hear that, lovely one. Keeping all of the 🤞🏻 for you right now. You too, Trying. But it will happen for you both one day, one way or another. I do hope we get three big ✅✅✅ for this cycle though!

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Cabbiefix · 13/09/2019 17:06

Thank you both ❤️

@Trying93 I'm so sorry you've been through it too, I agree, you do just want to be pregnant again...

I'm with @Gigi318 I'm hoping this month it will be the one for us all 🤞🤞🤞🥰 but either way it's nice just to have people going through it with you for a little hand holding 😊

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Gigi318 · 13/09/2019 17:23

@Cabbiefix it really is. I'm so green, very new to all of this in terms of what to expect and so it's lovely to connect with people at the same stage or just going through the same things. I think I'd be going crazy if I hadn't of signed up. We're not telling anyone we're ttc so it's horrible just bottling all the thoughts up. And you can learn so much from what others are experiencing so you don't feel so alone or crazy!!!