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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Anyone starting their TTC journey in July 2019?

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TurquoiseKiss · 12/07/2019 09:09

Anyone in the same boat? I'm 33 and from next week DH and I will be actively trying for #1. I'm excited, nervous, trying to be chill about it all but also imagining myself with a bump celebrating Xmas this year Grin

I started taking SS 'trying for a baby' supplements 4 weeks ago, not sure if it was their effects or not but this month my cycle was 20 days. Otherwise i'm 27 days always. Anyways, let's see what happens.

Hoping to find some pals in a similar place at the moment on here!

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Ellsbells112 · 26/01/2020 11:23

@Wearenotyourkind that sounds like an absolute plan 👌 enjoy it, you deserve it! I've had flashing smileys for 3 days, tomorrow is the day I normally ovulate so hoping to get a solid tomorrow or Tuesday (I get a solid smiley the day of my bbt rise) but we will see! We've dtd since Friday evening and will continue lol even though two people I know who have recently got a bfp only dtd once during the fertile week! If there's a next month maybe I'll try that

Wearenotyourkind · 26/01/2020 11:56

It just shows you doesn't it, there's only so much we're actually in control of! And it only takes one time and one strong swimmer! I'm already starting to feel a bit better after the initial disappointment, so onwards and upwards. Good luck with DTD and getting your static smiley!

AAJJ83 · 26/01/2020 12:22

@Wearenotyourkind so sorry to hear you’ve not had much luck, hopefully next month will be your month.
@ellsbells112 how are you doing?
@Wakemeupwithcoffee thanks for your post. I’m still feeling pretty awful, gave in and went the Drs for some medication. Not sure if it’s working as I’m still being sick but now only once or twice rather than five times. Went for the scan, thankfully it’s only one baby but they put me back a couple of days date wise so I was 9 weeks yesterday. Everything I read says it peaks this week so I’ve everything crossed after this week I’m going to start picking up. It so exhausting feeling drained and sick. I literally drag myself to work, do a less than half arsed job, drag myself home and get into bed. My OH has actually been amazing, doing everything with my girls and around the house, but I just want to feel normal again.

Positivity2019 · 26/01/2020 20:21

@Wearenotyourkind so sorry to hear AF arrived. I hope you’ve had an amazingly indulgent day, you deserve it. Are you going to keep using AC? Might see a longer cycle this month if so, I read it can take up to three months to see a difference. Good luck for this cycle Xx
@Ellsbells112 hope you’re fine and all your deed doing will be worth it.

Ellsbells112 · 28/01/2020 10:11

Hey guys how are we all?

I'm okay think I'm maybe 1 or 2dpo, cycle 6...already scared it won't happen again lol but such is Ttc I guess.
We dtd from Friday through to last night... Let's hope something happens x

@Positivity2019 how are you?
@Wearenotyourkind hope you're feeling better

@AAJJ83 I'm OK thanks, just entered the 2ww again and hoping 😣. Hope you're feeling better?

Positivity2019 · 28/01/2020 20:34

@Ellsbells112 that’s a good effort you’ve put into this month, fingers crossed for you. I’m ok, got EWCM today and niggling pain on my lower left side so hoping that is ovulation twinges. My Flo app says ovulation day is today and my Ava app says Thursday so I recon DTD through the week and over the weekend and that will cover any and all bases. We did do it end of last week and over the weekend so really hope it’ll be our month.

Wearenotyourkind · 28/01/2020 20:35

Thank you for thinking of me @Ellsbells112! Feeling much better now - just needed a day to sulk. On CD3 today, so almost waving goodbye to AF. Good luck for your TWW 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Wearenotyourkind · 28/01/2020 20:36

Good luck to you too @Positivity2019 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Ellsbells112 · 29/01/2020 14:06

@Positivity2019 sounds like you have planned well!! Wishing you ll the luck 🤞 😁
I'm already obsessing and rabbit holing into Google. Who knew you could still be entertained reading the same stuff every 2ww. "symptoms at 4dpo" "definitely ovulating but not getting pregnant!?" haha 🤷‍♀️

@Wearenotyourkind glad you're feeling better. Yes the start of af is always the hardest. I'm getting quite weary of this every month but I can't stop lol

Positivity2019 · 31/01/2020 20:53

@Wearenotyourkind thanks, hope you’re fine.
@Ellsbells112 I also spend most evenings on google researching. I’ve added vitamin B6 and wheatgrass capsules to my daily vitamin intake as a result.

Currently I’m right around ovulation. Ava bracelet predicted it for yesterday but this morning it had recalculated it to today due to my BBT reading. So still at it with the baby dancing. Unfortunately I’ve been ill the last two weeks. Head cold, sinusitis and awful chest so I’m not exactly in the mood to be DTD however I’ve been doing it with a view to not wasting a precious month. However, as much as I’ve been trying my hardest not to I’ve been taking Sudafed which is extra caffeine and also ibuprofen. So I recon this won’t be our month anyway.

Ellsbells112 · 01/02/2020 16:59

@Positivity2019 hopefully that doesn't have much affect on anything, I think that it will be okay. My mum drank 5 coffees a day when she got pregnant with me and my sister, along with alcohol of course...and smoking 🙁🙄 and here we are stuffing our faces with all those lovely. Vitamins. At least when we get pregnant they will have all the nutrients they need ❤️❤️ I'm. Currently 6dpo and feel absolutely nothing of course. We dtd at the right time just like every other month lol let's see if this one is any different. Good luck to you hunnie x

Positivity2019 · 02/02/2020 21:31

@Ellsbells112 you’re right of course, so many people fall pregnant who are in less than ideal situations. I agree, it’s good to know that hopefully any new little bean will have plenty vitamins and nutrients to help them on their way.
My ovulation day moved again according to my Ava bracelet so today is 1DPO. If AF comes when I’m expecting it to then that’ll only be a 9 day LP. Also got a dilemma approaching as we fly to Houston on Saturday and it is a potential Zika threat country. I’ve done the research and they’ve had no Zika births since like 2017, it’s apparently a low risk place so I’m like hmmm how do I handle this.
Fingers crossed for you guys for sure ❤️

Han1213 · 07/02/2020 07:02

Total shock here this morning! I’m pregnant!!

AAJJ83 · 07/02/2020 07:49

@Han1213 huge congratulations!! Lovely news!
I’ve not been on for a while as I’ve been in the haze of sickness, horrific, but I THINK I’m coming out of it now. Not feeling amazing but better than the past few weeks.
How is everyone else doing? Xx

Ellsbells112 · 07/02/2020 09:31

@Han1213 congratulations!!!!!! Super super happy for you!!!! ❤️ ❤️ 💕 💋 Have a healthy happy pregnancy!!! Xx

I'm just waiting on af now, typical af signs so I know it'll be here Saturday or Sunday as had a bfn yesterday. We've been doctors and got the ball rolling, she thinks I could have scarring but wants to check my OH sperm first. We have that appointment next week so fingers crossed we get some good answers x

Han1213 · 07/02/2020 09:43

Thank you! First month I’ve relaxed and didn’t use OPKs or apps! Really wasn’t expecting it. Bled on Tuesday so though AF was a day early but then totally stopped. Felt weird yday so tested this morning.
That’s good to get things going! Good luck with it all x

Ellsbells112 · 07/02/2020 12:08

@Han1213 how long was you trying hun? Wow I've heard good things about this relaxing business lol x

Wearenotyourkind · 07/02/2020 12:26

Congrats @Han1213 brilliant news!!!!

I'm CD13 today and waiting for peak OPKs. Does anyone find the FW harder than the TWW? Sorry to hear about your PMS symptoms @Ellsbells112 but good that you're both getting checked out and being listened to.

Han1213 · 07/02/2020 18:39

@Ellsbells1 Came off the pill in April but didn’t get any periods until September xx

Positivity2019 · 07/02/2020 20:49

Congratulations @Han1213 that’s amazing news.
@Wearenotyourkind I massively struggle with the FW, I think it’s much worse so I’m totally with you there. Hope you get you peak soon.
@Ellsbells112 hopefully you get some answers and some help now you’ve got the doc ball rolling. I’ll keep my fingers crossed incase you get a cheeky wee BFP over the weekend.
I’m due AF about Tues next week. Not sure about this month at all. I’ve sore boobs, more than usual and I keep getting little niggly twinges in my lower pelvic area. But in all honesty think it’s nothing and prob be seeing AF next week.

Ellsbells112 · 08/02/2020 09:04

@Positivity2019 it sounds promising though! So I'll keep my fingers crossed for you 🤗 good luck. Mine is definitely coming tomorrow I can feel it and my temp has dropped but its fine, I'm happy that we are looking into it x

Wearenotyourkind · 08/02/2020 09:50

Is anyone else using the CB advanced OPKs? I used them for the 1st time last month and got 7 days of flashing smileys from CD11 before my peak static smileys at CD18/19. This month it's different - I'm now on CD14 and still no flashing smiley. Am I overthinking it? (There is a strong chance of this 😂)

Ellsbells112 · 09/02/2020 16:16

@Wearenotyourkind you could ovulate at different times in your cycle?? You might ovukate later this cycle perhaps?

Wearenotyourkind · 09/02/2020 16:31

Thanks for replying @Ellsbells112. I imagine you're 100% right...it's just hard not to overthink these things 😂 still nothing today CD15. I think after this cycle, I'll go back to IC OPKs as at least you can see the progress as you go and see if you're almost positive/getting darker etc. Also they are so much cheaper and I don't fancy taking out a second mortgage to afford CB! Did AF get you?

Wearenotyourkind · 09/02/2020 16:31

And how are you doing @Positivity2019?

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