TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 29 - huddle up and bring on the BFP's!

[Laney79]

Hey ladies, we were nearing the limit on thread 28 so here's a new one.

Roll Call...

Name: Laney79
Age: 39
TTC: #1 since autumn 2017.
2 losses - MMC discovered March 2018, MMC discovered Sept 2018 both at what should've been 9 weeks, bean and bow measured 6 weeks.

@Lilimum6 @Russkispy @Catconfusion @Boboelephant @fnej01 please tag and pass on!

@Lilimum7 I'm so sorry it's another loss. You really are having a terrible time. Sending you lots of hugs. I hope you're being looked after.

@hayleyfx congratulations on the BFP. Fx for a healthy sticky bean.

Did another IC this morning and still stark white. AF due on Wednesday. 6 months since last last MC and really wanted this to be the cycle we had a BFP as it was this cycle last year we got BFP for first pregnancy. Life sucks. I still can't comprehend why people who are so dreadful and horrible get everything they want and yet those who work hard and try to be a decent human being get to deal with this shit. Life is so unfair.

@Frillyfarmer Oh I think that's right. Sorry you're here too (I'll be honest, I dipped in and out)

Thanks everyone. Hoping next time is the one that works for everyone

Congrats @hayleyfx 🎉

@Lilimum7 I'm so sorry you're going through this

Thanks everyone! So lovely to hear from you all again.

@AliceRR oh my goodness I’m so so sorry, that is just heartbreaking. My heart goes out to you. How awful. You truly deserve your rainbow, sending you the best of luck for TTC again 💕

@Mistymeow I’m so sorry you’ve had another loss, it’s just so cruel. I hope you’re doing okay. Thank you lovely, phoning hospital tomorrow morn so fingers crossed! 😬 the diagnosis was very scary, really upset me but relieved to have answers and a treatment plan - finally! X

@Lilimum7 I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this once again 😞 definitely keep pushing and pushing for testing, you deserve answers and you deserve your rainbow. Sending love xx

@Yukka wow 7 months - congratulations!! Glad all is going well for you. Nice to have someone to talk to who has this condition too (although I wish we didn’t!) that goes for @fnej01 also! Really scared, I was only diagnosed 1-2 weeks ago and now this! I’ll phone hospital tomorrow and ask them what to do, really worried now that I don’t even have aspirin yet so I’m very on edge right now! The thought of injecting myself is scaring me so much but will be worth it if it works. Thanks for the advice ladies. I’m sure I’ll have loads more questions to come! 🤣

@hayleyfx You deserve it too. I remember the time when you left the Feb 19 thread and I know that was a really difficult time for you

@Lilimum7 Hope you’re ok and you can get some answers

@InDreamland Sorry you haven’t got your BFP yet. Life is so unfair sometimes. I feel crap but wine gums and Netflix helps! 😬🤷🏻‍♀️ xx

@hayleyfx you can get the aspirin from a supermarket or boots, marked at 75mg so maybe try and get some today rather than wait for appointments etc. It will start to thin your blood pretty quickly and keep the flow to your bean hopefully clot free. I only say this as I lost two at 5 weeks and really felt the clock was ticking straight away. Good luck xx

Oh and I was the same... diagnosis on a Thursday, bfp on the Monday, but the gp and consultant jumped into action when I told them xx

Hi @hayleyfx lovely to hear from you and congratulations on the BPF! I think it sounds like good timing. At least you have your diagnosis, so you are a little more prepared. Take Yukka's advise and start the aspirin ASAP, and then see what the consultant says. Really hope this one is a successful pregnancy!
I've only recently come back to the thread too. I had a 7-month break while going through RMC investigations. Turns out I have prolactinaemia which I started meds for last week. Just started trying again this cycle too. The Endocrinologist who prescribed the meds said it can affect implantation and is worth treating, but the gynae I saw didn't seem to think it had any affect at all on MC, so a bit of confusion there. Hopefully it will work though!

Hi @coconutlatte44 so sorry you're feeling low. The recovery after MC is very up and down. Some days you'll do great, the next day you might just be a heap on the floor in tears. Just ride the waves of emotion. You'll feel better again in a day or two. xxx

So guys, I think I'm getting side-effects from my meds. Started burping a lot two days ago and have woken up bloated and a bit nauseated. These are known side-effects to the meds, so I'm sure that's what it is. But as I'm in TWW my mind is getting all hopeful that it could be a sign of other things... Just trying to talk myself down at the moment. I've never had nausea as a first sign of pregnancy; but have had increased burping as one. But I think I'm only 4 DPO... But since I don't track, I could be anything between 4 - 10 DPO. Last cycle I had a randomly short cycle, and if I'm going by that I could be about 6 or 7 DPO. So really not sure and trying not to get my hopes up!!

We must be about ready for a new thread?

I've started a new thread but not sure how to link it here

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 30 - huddle up and bring on the BFP's

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3584529-TTC-after-pregnancy-loss-Thread-30-huddle-up-and-bring-on-the-BFPs

Think I did it, I could be wrong let me know lol

Hi lovely ladies!
Sorry I have been out of the loop for the last month I just needed some time to focus on losing weight and getting fitter! Update on me, We were due to have our follow up fertility appointment last Thursday but after waiting around for an hour it was cancelled the Dr was sick! So it's rearranged for 5th June.

However AF was due on Saturday and she still hasn't appeared so yesterday evening I tested with FR kit and got a very faint BFP! So decided to test this morning and I've got another very faint BFP! This is yesterday's test I ran out of time to take a photo from this morning but it's very similar. I'm so confused as I thought if I am pregnant the concerntrated urine this morning would mean I would have a stronger result and confirm. HELP lovely ladies have any of you had such a faint line which developed?

Also hugs to all and hello to the newbies I'm sorry for your losses xx