Over 40 ttc- lots of baby dust for me!

[Orchid222]

hmmm123: 41 (42 in spring!) 1 dc ttc #2 6 months ish
Rose68: 43, 2 DS 9 and 6, 1mmc, ttc #3
chatbash72: 46, 2ds 21,19,17,8,5
2 mmc(9wks,6wks) 2cp ttc 2.5 yrs
Russkispy: 42 (43 this April). 1 DD. TTC#2. 1mmc. 2 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF, no frosties
Minime2017: 41 ttc#1, 1cp, 1mc, ttc 2.5 yrs
Karryk: 41, 1cp, 2mmc (5.5wks, 8wks), 1dd (17 mths old), ttc#2, 1mc (6.5wks)
Realitysucks:40 (41 in 17 days) ttc#2, 1mc (5.5wks), 1DS (16), TTC cycle 5
KateyA: 40, ttc#1 (1 frosty), cycle
Karigan195 41 1DS 1mc April 2018. Pregnant 5+4 today 3.1,19
Littlemimosa age 42, 2DC 5&7, ttc too long!
Cleozeta, 41, 2dc, ttc #3 for nearly 2 years. 1 mmc at 10 wks, 1 cp
Onemorego2019 - age 40, DS 15, DD 10 & DS 3 ttc#4 Dec 2018
ZoeRoma, 41, 1st month TTC#2, DS aged 4 months
Crittertamer: Turned 41 last week! No DC, currently (as of 3.1.19) 15+5 pregnant with twins following second IVF cycle.,
Gizmojo: 44, DS (18 months), 1 mmc, ttc#2 4 months
Letsdothis43: 43 TTC#1 ttc for 2 years first IVF cycle in January/2019
Booseysmom: 46. 47 in Feb. 1 DS 5. Ttc #2 3 years
SparrowSG: 44 in April, 1 DS 2 from IVF 2016. 1 ectopic 2014. Currently BFP @ almost 8wks
Olivia12: 43. 44 in September, 1 DD 10yo, ttc #2 with DP, 1 month
Floofsquidge: 40. No DC, currently 20 +5 pg as at 9th Jan.
Taxgirl: 43 (44 in April). 1 DS (March 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year - 3 mc and 1 mmc

Yeah I felt that too at first then it started truly kicking the out if me last week. Oh how I long for I just feel a bit queasy.

I felt great yesterday. Today I was dry heaving 5 or so times before I even managed breakfast.

Hi everyone, I had a blood test today and my HCG levels have gone down to 4, so back to normal. So thankfully not ectopic and no need for any nasty interventions. I had my suspicions because the bleeding stopped a few days ago, I got a flashing face smiley on CB this morning, then some EWCM, so looks like I'm getting ready to ovulate already. I'm hoping it's true that you're more fertile after a MC.

Sorry I haven't read the thread...I'm at work at the moment. . I'll catch up later tonight.

hobbes thank you that does help a great deal!

Ooh goodness too much to catch up on!!! Please forgive if I leave anyone out
@CritterTamer Glad you are home.. are you still working? Or can you take sick days?
@Karigan195 Great scan pic, I suffered really badly with hg when preg... dr said have ginger and get hubby to rub my feet... I didn't tell her where to go but got myself down to a&e and got admitted.. don't suffer if it gets too bad.
@Cleozeta Have no tips as never had one, but good luck x
@rytonsister Welcome and so sorry for your loss.. what a horrible position to be in.. xxxx you will get lots of supplements advice on here. I don't use the ubiquinol but co10, 220 per day.. I'm 46 but hubs and I are trying to just enjoy contraception free dtd through the month to take the stress out of the process..
@Dickybow321 Good news about levels and yes we kick out those eggs all over the place in our 40's.
hubs is very difficult to live with at mo, lots of family stress which I'm not sure helps.. but hey ho life keeps moving on..
Se ding lots of love to all xxx

@Dickbow123 thank goodness it wasn’t ectopic, I hope you are okay x

@anaconda76.. thank you..He's better and trying to eat a little but was sick tonight so no school again tomorrow

Critter.. Glad you are ok and back home. Take care x

@Rose68.. I totally understand how you feel about carrying on. I'm with you but just about hanging on. I just have made myself have the mindset that if it happens great but if it doesn't well there's not alot i can do about it. Wishing you luck whatever you decide x

Hi

I'm new and not technical so I apologise if I get it wrong and do t know all the abbreviations I'm 42 this year TTC

Hi all, sorry I went awol for a week or so. Been in a strange mindset after AF hit 5 days ago. Coming out of the fog now and feeling a bit better.
So much to catch up on. Apologies if I don’t respond to everyone.

Let’s and Presh - how are u both after treatment?
Critter - what a time you’re having. But glad those bubbas are ok.
Cleo - I had an HSG (slightly different I think?) last March and it was fine. I took two ibuprofen beforehand so I’d definitely recommend some pain relief an hour before. Although to be honest I could’ve managed fine without. R u nervous?

Dickybow didn’t want to forget u hun. Sorry it wasn’t good news but glad you’re ok and it wasn’t ectopic.

Welcome @Marty77 😊 you'll be up to speed with the abbreviations in no time

Just a quick hello as I pass through...I'm finding I just need some time to myself and my thoughts at the mo, but I continue to wish all of you every bit of luck and baby dust ❤️ xx

I have redone our list in alphabetical order, aren’t I wonderful! ☺️
I got the list from page 9 of the thread, I think it was the latest. Sorry if not, and I’m also sorry if my alphabetical order is questionable. If anyone else wants to add themselves please do.

Alibaba2: 43, ttc #3, MC in 2016, several CPs since (last one Oct 2018)
Booseysmom: 46. 47 in Feb. 1 DS 5. Ttc #2 3 years
Chatbash72: 46, 2ds 21,19,17,8,5, 2 mmc(9wks,6wks) 2cp ttc 2.5 yrs
Cleozeta, 41, 2dc, ttc #3 for nearly 2 years. 1 mmc at 10 wks, 1 cp
Coffeist : 40, ttc #1. 2 MCs in 2018
Crittertamer: Turned 41 last week! No DC, currently (as of 3.1.19) 15+5 pregnant with twins following second IVF cycle.,
Floofsquidge: 40. No DC, currently 20 +5 pg as at 9th Jan.
Gizmojo: 44, DS (18 months), 1 mmc, ttc#2 4 months
hmmm123: 41 (42 in spring!) 1 dc ttc #2 6 months ish
lii222: 44, ttc#4, 2DDs 14 and 4 (natural), 1DS 7 (IVF); MMCs Nov 2016 (boy, 15 weeks, no known cause, FET), June 2017 (9 weeks, gender unknown, FET), Nov 2018 (boy, 10 weeks, Trisomy 14, natural)
Letsdothis43: 43 TTC#1 ttc for 2 years first IVF cycle in January/2019
Karigan195 41 1DS 1mc April 2018. Pregnant 5+4 today 3.1,19
Karryk: 41, 1cp, 2mmc (5.5wks, 8wks), 1dd (17 mths old), ttc#2, 1mc (6.5wks)
KateyA: 40, ttc#1 (1 frosty), cycle
Littlemimosa age 42, 2DC 5&7, ttc too long!
Mahotsukai: 43, DD (born 2014 at 38), TTC #2 for 2+ years, MMC nov 2018
Minime2017: 41 ttc#1, 1cp, 1mc, ttc 2.5 yrs
Olivia12: 43. 44 in September, 1 DD 10yo, ttc #2 with DP, 1 month
Onemorego2019 - age 40, DS 15, DD 10 & DS 3 ttc#4 Dec 2018
Petrarabbit: 43 (44 in June). 1 DC (mid 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year with 1 MMC
Realitysucks:40 (41 in 17 days) ttc#2, 1mc (5.5wks), 1DS (16), TTC cycle 5
Rose68: 43, 2 DS 9 and 6, 1mmc, ttc #3
Russkispy: 42 (43 this April). 1 DD. TTC#2. 1mmc. 2 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF, no Frosties
SparrowSG: 44 in April, 1 DS 2 from IVF 2016. 1 ectopic 2014. Currently BFP @ almost 8wks
Taxgirl: 43 (44 in April). 1 DS (March 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year - 3 mc and 1 mmc
ZoeRoma, 41, 1st month TTC#2, DS aged 4 months

Oops I’ve already spotted a mistake, sorry @Little for putting you in the wrong place. 😩

Actually it’s Lets and Lii that are wrong isn’t it! I shall book myself into an alphabet class.

Thanks for that Rose, I've been wishing somebody would make it alphabetical but was too lazy to do it myself . I'm going to add myself and change Lets and Little.

Alibaba2: 43, ttc #3, MC in 2016, several CPs since (last one Oct 2018)
Booseysmom: 46. 47 in Feb. 1 DS 5. Ttc #2 3 years
Chatbash72: 46, 2ds 21,19,17,8,5, 2 mmc(9wks,6wks) 2cp ttc 2.5 yrs
Cleozeta, 41, 2dc, ttc #3 for nearly 2 years. 1 mmc at 10 wks, 1 cp
Coffeist : 40, ttc #1. 2 MCs in 2018
Crittertamer: Turned 41 last week! No DC, currently (as of 3.1.19) 15+5 pregnant with twins following second IVF cycle.,
Dickybow321: 41, ttc#3, 1MC Jan 2019
Floofsquidge: 40. No DC, currently 20 +5 pg as at 9th Jan.
Gizmojo: 44, DS (18 months), 1 mmc, ttc#2 4 months
hmmm123: 41 (42 in spring!) 1 dc ttc #2 6 months ish
lii222: 44, ttc#4, 2DDs 14 and 4 (natural), 1DS 7 (IVF); MMCs Nov 2016 (boy, 15 weeks, no known cause, FET), June 2017 (9 weeks, gender unknown, FET), Nov 2018 (boy, 10 weeks, Trisomy 14, natural)
Karigan195 41 1DS 1mc April 2018. Pregnant 5+4 today 3.1,19
Karryk: 41, 1cp, 2mmc (5.5wks, 8wks), 1dd (17 mths old), ttc#2, 1mc (6.5wks)
KateyA: 40, ttc#1 (1 frosty), cycle
Letsdothis43: 43 TTC#1 ttc for 2 years first IVF cycle in January/2019
Littlemimosa age 42, 2DC 5&7, ttc too long!
Mahotsukai: 43, DD (born 2014 at 38), TTC #2 for 2+ years, MMC nov 2018
Minime2017: 41 ttc#1, 1cp, 1mc, ttc 2.5 yrs
Olivia12: 43. 44 in September, 1 DD 10yo, ttc #2 with DP, 1 month
Onemorego2019 - age 40, DS 15, DD 10 & DS 3 ttc#4 Dec 2018
Petrarabbit: 43 (44 in June). 1 DC (mid 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year with 1 MMC
Realitysucks:40 (41 in 17 days) ttc#2, 1mc (5.5wks), 1DS (16), TTC cycle 5
Rose68: 43, 2 DS 9 and 6, 1mmc, ttc #3
Russkispy: 42 (43 this April). 1 DD. TTC#2. 1mmc. 2 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF, no Frosties
SparrowSG: 44 in April, 1 DS 2 from IVF 2016. 1 ectopic 2014. Currently BFP @ almost 8wks
Taxgirl: 43 (44 in April). 1 DS (March 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year - 3 mc and 1 mmc
ZoeRoma, 41, 1st month TTC#2, DS aged 4 months

Thanks for all the kind thoughts, everyone. I'm feeling back to normal and ready for this cycle!

I've started DP on Wellman Conception this past week and his libido has gone through the roof. It's a bit crazy. Has anybody else had this? Do your DPs take conception vits? The reviews on Amazon for Wellman are amazing, so thought we'd give it a try.

Glad the babies are ok Critter.
Hugs to all the ones suffering with morning sickness xx

Alibaba2: 43, ttc #3, MC in 2016, several CPs since (last one Oct 2018)
Anaconda76: 42 (43 in Spring) 3 DD 10, 8, 3, ttc #4.
Booseysmom: 46. 47 in Feb. 1 DS 5. Ttc #2 3 years
Chatbash72: 46, 2ds 21,19,17,8,5, 2 mmc(9wks,6wks) 2cp ttc 2.5 yrs
Cleozeta, 41, 2dc, ttc #3 for nearly 2 years. 1 mmc at 10 wks, 1 cp
Coffeist : 40, ttc #1. 2 MCs in 2018
Crittertamer: Turned 41 last week! No DC, currently (as of 3.1.19) 15+5 pregnant with twins following second IVF cycle.,
Dickybow321: 41, ttc#3, 1MC Jan 2019
Floofsquidge: 40. No DC, currently 20 +5 pg as at 9th Jan.
Gizmojo: 44, DS (18 months), 1 mmc, ttc#2 4 months
hmmm123: 41 (42 in spring!) 1 dc ttc #2 6 months ish
lii222: 44, ttc#4, 2DDs 14 and 4 (natural), 1DS 7 (IVF); MMCs Nov 2016 (boy, 15 weeks, no known cause, FET), June 2017 (9 weeks, gender unknown, FET), Nov 2018 (boy, 10 weeks, Trisomy 14, natural)
Karigan195 41 1DS 1mc April 2018. Pregnant 5+4 today 3.1,19
Karryk: 41, 1cp, 2mmc (5.5wks, 8wks), 1dd (17 mths old), ttc#2, 1mc (6.5wks)
KateyA: 40, ttc#1 (1 frosty), cycle
Letsdothis43: 43 TTC#1 ttc for 2 years first IVF cycle in January/2019
Littlemimosa age 42, 2DC 5&7, ttc too long!
Mahotsukai: 43, DD (born 2014 at 38), TTC #2 for 2+ years, MMC nov 2018
Minime2017: 41 ttc#1, 1cp, 1mc, ttc 2.5 yrs
Olivia12: 43. 44 in September, 1 DD 10yo, ttc #2 with DP, 1 month
Onemorego2019 - age 40, DS 15, DD 10 & DS 3 ttc#4 Dec 2018
Petrarabbit: 43 (44 in June). 1 DC (mid 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year with 1 MMC
Realitysucks:40 (41 in 17 days) ttc#2, 1mc (5.5wks), 1DS (16), TTC cycle 5
Rose68: 43, 2 DS 9 and 6, 1mmc, ttc #3
Russkispy: 42 (43 this April). 1 DD. TTC#2. 1mmc. 2 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF, no Frosties
SparrowSG: 44 in April, 1 DS 2 from IVF 2016. 1 ectopic 2014. Currently BFP @ almost 8wks
Taxgirl: 43 (44 in April). 1 DS (March 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year - 3 mc and 1 mmc
ZoeRoma, 41, 1st month TTC#2, DS aged 4 months

Sorry, just adding myself so I'm officially one of the gang. x

Thank you @Dickybow123 and @anaconda76, I have corrected lii222. Hopefully that’s it for mistakes.
My DH is taking wellman conception, but I haven’t noticed any change in his sex drive, which tends to be through the roof anyway.

Alibaba2: 43, ttc #3, MC in 2016, several CPs since (last one Oct 2018)
Anaconda76: 42 (43 in Spring) 3 DD 10, 8, 3, ttc #4.
Booseysmom: 46. 47 in Feb. 1 DS 5. Ttc #2 3 years
Chatbash72: 46, 2ds 21,19,17,8,5, 2 mmc(9wks,6wks) 2cp ttc 2.5 yrs
Cleozeta, 41, 2dc, ttc #3 for nearly 2 years. 1 mmc at 10 wks, 1 cp
Coffeist : 40, ttc #1. 2 MCs in 2018
Crittertamer: Turned 41 last week! No DC, currently (as of 3.1.19) 15+5 pregnant with twins following second IVF cycle.,
Dickybow321: 41, ttc#3, 1MC Jan 2019
Floofsquidge: 40. No DC, currently 20 +5 pg as at 9th Jan.
Gizmojo: 44, DS (18 months), 1 mmc, ttc#2 4 months
hmmm123: 41 (42 in spring!) 1 dc ttc #2 6 months
Karigan195 41 1DS 1mc April 2018. Pregnant 5+4 today 3.1,19
Karryk: 41, 1cp, 2mmc (5.5wks, 8wks), 1dd (17 mths old), ttc#2, 1mc (6.5wks)
KateyA: 40, ttc#1 (1 frosty), cycle
Letsdothis43: 43 TTC#1 ttc for 2 years first IVF cycle in January/2019
lii222: 44, ttc#4, 2DDs 14 and 4 (natural), 1DS 7 (IVF); MMCs Nov 2016 (boy, 15 weeks, no known cause, FET), June 2017 (9 weeks, gender unknown, FET), Nov 2018 (boy, 10 weeks, Trisomy 14, natural)
Littlemimosa: age 42, 2DC 5&7, ttc too long!
Mahotsukai: 43, DD (born 2014 at 38), TTC #2 for 2+ years, MMC nov 2018
Minime2017: 41 ttc#1, 1cp, 1mc, ttc 2.5 yrs
Olivia12: 43. 44 in September, 1 DD 10yo, ttc #2 with DP, 1 month
Onemorego2019 - age 40, DS 15, DD 10 & DS 3 ttc#4 Dec 2018
Petrarabbit: 43 (44 in June). 1 DC (mid 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year with 1 MMC
Realitysucks:40 (41 in 17 days) ttc#2, 1mc (5.5wks), 1DS (16), TTC cycle 5
Rose68: 43, 2 DS 9 and 6, 1mmc, ttc #3
Russkispy: 42 (43 this April). 1 DD. TTC#2. 1mmc. 2 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF, no Frosties
SparrowSG: 44 in April, 1 DS 2 from IVF 2016. 1 ectopic 2014. Currently BFP @ almost 8wks
Taxgirl: 43 (44 in April). 1 DS (March 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year - 3 mc and 1 mmc
ZoeRoma, 41, 1st month TTC#2, DS aged 4 months

Maybe lii starts with a capital i rather than a small L oh well, I resign from list reorganisation 😩😂

You're off alphabetising duty Rose
I suppose it's just as well your DH hasn't been affected by the WM Conception then!

glad to hear that things have resolved themselves @Dickybow321, so glad you are out of the awful limbo x
Just adding myself to the list:
Alibaba2: 43, ttc #3, MC in 2016, several CPs since (last one Oct 2018)
Anaconda76: 42 (43 in Spring) 3 DD 10, 8, 3, ttc #4.
Booseysmom: 46. 47 in Feb. 1 DS 5. Ttc #2 3 years
Chatbash72: 46, 2ds 21,19,17,8,5, 2 mmc(9wks,6wks) 2cp ttc 2.5 yrs
Cleozeta, 41, 2dc, ttc #3 for nearly 2 years. 1 mmc at 10 wks, 1 cp
Coffeist : 40, ttc #1. 2 MCs in 2018
Crittertamer: Turned 41 last week! No DC, currently (as of 3.1.19) 15+5 pregnant with twins following second IVF cycle.,
Dickybow321: 41, ttc#3, 1MC Jan 2019
Floofsquidge: 40. No DC, currently 20 +5 pg as at 9th Jan.
Gizmojo: 44, DS (18 months), 1 mmc, ttc#2 4 months
hmmm123: 41 (42 in spring!) 1 dc ttc #2 6 months
Hobbes39: 41 (42 in March), 1 ds5, ttc#2 almost 4 years, 1 Ectopic, 4 IVF cycles (1CP, 2MMC) current 5w pregnant as of 30.01.19
Karigan195 41 1DS 1mc April 2018. Pregnant 5+4 today 3.1,19
Karryk: 41, 1cp, 2mmc (5.5wks, 8wks), 1dd (17 mths old), ttc#2, 1mc (6.5wks)
KateyA: 40, ttc#1 (1 frosty), cycle
Letsdothis43: 43 TTC#1 ttc for 2 years first IVF cycle in January/2019
lii222: 44, ttc#4, 2DDs 14 and 4 (natural), 1DS 7 (IVF); MMCs Nov 2016 (boy, 15 weeks, no known cause, FET), June 2017 (9 weeks, gender unknown, FET), Nov 2018 (boy, 10 weeks, Trisomy 14, natural)
Littlemimosa: age 42, 2DC 5&7, ttc too long!
Mahotsukai: 43, DD (born 2014 at 38), TTC #2 for 2+ years, MMC nov 2018
Minime2017: 41 ttc#1, 1cp, 1mc, ttc 2.5 yrs
Olivia12: 43. 44 in September, 1 DD 10yo, ttc #2 with DP, 1 month
Onemorego2019 - age 40, DS 15, DD 10 & DS 3 ttc#4 Dec 2018
Petrarabbit: 43 (44 in June). 1 DC (mid 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year with 1 MMC
Realitysucks:40 (41 in 17 days) ttc#2, 1mc (5.5wks), 1DS (16), TTC cycle 5
Rose68: 43, 2 DS 9 and 6, 1mmc, ttc #3
Russkispy: 42 (43 this April). 1 DD. TTC#2. 1mmc. 2 failed IUIs, 1 failed IVF, no Frosties
SparrowSG: 44 in April, 1 DS 2 from IVF 2016. 1 ectopic 2014. Currently BFP @ almost 8wks
Taxgirl: 43 (44 in April). 1 DS (March 2017) ttc #2 for 1 year - 3 mc and 1 mmc
ZoeRoma, 41, 1st month TTC#2, DS aged 4 months

I’m so sorry that happened to you Dickybow but glad it was not ectopic

My DH is taking wellman, no impact on libido, his is quite low these days

Thanks Karigan and Hobbes. I'm happy to see both of you are cooking those buns nicely 😊

Cleo have you thought of giving him some Maca?

@Cleozeta good luck for tomorrow x

Hi

Thanks @karryk I'm sure I'll pick it up just haven't used a site like this before, my DS is 14 and DD 9 so it's been a while.

DP and I (picking up the abbreviations ) have been TTC for about 4 months, I have friends who have just had babies and been fine and the same age as me but apart from them no one knows we are TTC.

DP is 47 and never had kids we dated when I was 20 and 3 years ago he got in touch and we've ended up back together it's been so right we'd be very happy.

Feeling a bit nauseous, tired, ratty and sore but it's so similar to your period you can't know it's doing my head in

Yes good luck with the Hycosy Cleo