Hi everyone, can I join? Got a BFP back in July - all went amazingly well (after a miscarriage in December 2016) until our 20 week scan when a severe heart defect was found. We had to have a tfmr a week later, and are now waiting for the results from some genetic tests we have had to see if one of us carry a gene which causes it, or whether any other reason can be found.
Although I am not TTC right now I know it's going to be difficult for me to get my head around the fear I'm going to face next time after all this, so I'm trying to gear myself up for it. I'm hoping the results come back as the defect was a complete fluke and we can start trying again in the new year. Just hoping my period and everything goes back to normal quite quickly too.
So my christmas miracle would be getting the test results we want, or at least some kind of largely positive outcome so we can start TTC in earnest as soon as we are ready.
I was on this thread back in July, and it was so helpful then, so hoped you wouldn't mind me coming in early this time. At the moment I just feel fear at the idea of trying again, but hopefully I will overcome this in time.
Good luck to everyone, I really hope you get your Christmas miracles :)