We're ovulating again, so let's jump our men. It's TTC after miscarriage thread ten!

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I hope I did ok with the title (thanks for the inspiration Emwithme). I felt a bit lost without a thread to post on so I thought I'd have a bash at it.

Sounds like you got in there at the right time Nocats!

I am really struggling not to believe I am pregnant. Help me be less positive!

Hi ladies

Can I join again please? Was here a few months ago after a MMC then fell pregnant again only to get to 10 weeks again to find out I lost baby again at 6 weeks, both to trisomy16 which apparently only happens 2+ times to 1 in 16,000 women!! Waiting to speak to a genetics specialist at the mo

@NoCatsHere hope you've caught it! This was my OPK this morning which is looking more hopeful but it's my 9th day of High on the CBFM.

No idea what cd I am on, my mc completed on 17 May, so I told the CBFM that CD1 was 19 May which was would make today CD19 and I ovulate normally CD14-16.

I'm sorry tea. I hope you're ok.

I'm ok thank you, just getting back on the ttc horse and hoping it doesn't happen again :)

tea I'm so sorry you're back here, i remember you from before, you were really kind to me when i had my mmc. thank you for that.

grumpy it's looking better, maybe if you can bear more peeing on things do another this afternoon, i think it changes so fast sometimes. We seem to be cycle buddies though, think my period after my mmc started on 18th may. I'm cd19 today, i normally ov much earlier, 12-14 i think. anyway we shall see i guess.... hope that line gets stronger later or tomorrow.

emvy have you tested again? I wouldn't be able to restrain myself!

flash positive is good though i think, otherwise it would be so depressing, if we didn't have some hope we wouldn't be on here driving ourselves batshit about everything. if you test tomorrow we are all here for you!!!

Thank you nocats, I hope you're doing well

Tea so sorry to hear about your MCs. I'm pleased that they are taking it seriously re genetic testing etc.

Grumpy it's looking very close. OPKs definitely satisfy my need to pee on things (that's only in relation to TTC I hasten to add).

NoCats thanks, in some ways I'm enjoying the hopefulness of not having any bleeding at this point in my cycle for so long, every month I usually know I'm out a few days after OV, which I also thought was true, but to me it makes sense that implantation could coincide with the bleeding stopping, and the docs have all said, get pregnant and it will stop! So FX!

thought was true this month

flash I've had 4 MCs in total and a chemical and with last 2 losses being same cause and so rare to happen more than once they want to look I to everything as I'm at higher risk of this happening again

I'm so sorry to hear that Tea.

@ flash

Last time I was preg I tested day 14 and NAda them 15 and Li and behold! Do I am going to try to hold out till sat which is 15 unless af beats me to it. How's you?

@tea gave you been referred to recurrent clinic? Really sounds horrendous and my heart goes out to you

Hi ladies quick question any of you take pregnacare conception vits? Did they make you sick? I feel like I have morning sickness but I'm definitely not pregnant.

No genetics specialist is next step then I'll go back and see my consultant at maternity unit. No real plan set in motion till I've seen genetics, just need to wait for appointment coming through

The OPKs look fun I must admit Perhaps I'll try some this month or next month. Might wait and see what the doctor suggests which is week after next.

How did you get that TeaAndPjs? I really want to see a geneticist but they're all ignoring me I know it works differently in different countries but it's very frustrating.

I paid privately to have some karyotyping and see regan at the miscarriage unit. Pricey but both good for peace of mind

I'm ok Angli struggling not to obsess. I feel slightly nauseous all the time, unless I eat, and my boobs are sore, but different then the first half of my LP where my nipples hurt, now only boobs feel tender, and all over not just underneath. Had a couple of non-descript stringy brown bits when wiping today. I have a headache this afternoon and feel tired but to be honest I think those things are just from stressing about if I am or not.

iecgi I didn't get that when I took them but I remember lots of others did I think. I've swapped to viridian pregnancy brand as I wasn't sure about some of the ingredients in the pregnacare ones like bulking agent etc.

I've just had the tiniest bit of pink on the paper when I wiped for a wee. I've never had that before. I don't think it can mean anything considering we only dtd last night, I reckon I'm going to annoy myself so much during the dreaded 2ww now!! So much for my relaxed take it or leave it approach!

bertie I got it because they know that 2 of my 4 MCs are trisomy16, it's very common for some1 to suffer MC due to this but only 1/16,000 people will go through it 2+ times so because it's now happened twice the genetics specialist have requested to see me if I wanted which I do so just need to wait on an appointment now and see what they say

And here we go... the clooneys have had their twins.... twin fever strikes... apart from me as I dwell on the loss of twins in may.

Sorry others find themselves here.

Another friend announced today... same due date! What are the chances.

Now where is that wine...

Lime just came on to post the same. We shall fight together to keep ourselves sane throughout all the joy!

It sounds like you would've caught it nocats I've not tested again, no. Will be testing with fmu again tomorrow. I'm not sure how I'm stopping myself! I think because I'm petrified that I'm going to test again it'll be negative that if I leave it 48 hours and stick to fmu I have less chance of that happening? I'm yoyoing between thinking I've mis-read tests after the time limit, and being certain that even if this sticks initially I'll find out I've had another mmc at the 12 week scan. I'm really distancing myself from the fact I'm most probably pregnant again. I keep feeling very overwhelmed and tearful.

Sorry you're back here tea. I'm so sorry you're going through such an awful time. I really hope you get some answers soon. Love the name though - nothing like tea and pj's 👏🏻

Flash, hoping that's a good sign for you this month!

iecgi yes I take them and they do make me queasy if I take them when I haven't eaten enough. You have to take them with your main meal I think