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TTC #1 Thread 14. Shroedingering Like Champions! (It's an art form and a skill!)

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 17/04/2016 12:02

Hugh enjoys ISW and his love affair with Doreen. He watches out for skittle tits and weepyitis. Mrs Arseholey Fucknut (Af) shows up when you least want her but brings wine and soft cheese as a consolation prize.

We don't have rules as such but expect to be talked down from the ledge with kind and well meaning but firm words if you get too hysterical. But most importantly don't convince yourself you're pregnant in the tww That is paramount! It messes with your head and makes you crazy crazier

We don't get a lot of baby dust in these here parts. We want a fanny full of determined Doreen, not unicorn farts and gnome tears with extra sparkle. We've been going a while now so the novelty has somewhat worn off and we're slightly battle scarred and bruised in the cervix area.

Post your stats and add your dates. A more lovely, supportive group of ladies you couldn't wish to meet. We've got a few grads sticking around I won't leave and no question is too daft. We have opk experts, cervical mucus management teams and symptom spotters extraudinaire!

WE SHALL WIN IN THE GAME OF SPERM MEETS EGG! IT WILL HAPPEN!

TTC #1 Thread 14. Shroedingering Like Champions! (It's an art form and a skill!)
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SuchaJem · 19/04/2016 18:10

Oh kwick Sad I am so sorry and sad to see this. Heartbreaking Sad thinking of you, take care of yourself xxx

LisaTheGreek · 19/04/2016 18:11

Oh god, Kwick. I am so sorry. I don't have the words... That is just awful, and I don't know what to say.

No one ever deserves that, but I think you really really really didn't, after everything you've been through. God, I am so, so very sorry Thanks

mayago · 19/04/2016 18:14

I am so sorry kwick. I can't imagine what you are feeling. Stay strong, and know you have a lot of love and support here Flowers

theneonninja · 19/04/2016 18:24

I'm so sorry kwick. I hope you have some support around you to give lots of hugs and help you get through it all. Thinking of youFlowers

Theorchard · 19/04/2016 19:08

kwick I'm sorry to hear your sad news, as pp said there are no words and I can't imagine how you must be feeling. Flowers

KatOnATinRo0f · 19/04/2016 19:08

Kwick oh no ThanksThanksThanksThanks
I have no words that I can possibly say, I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling but my love is here and my thoughts are with you ThanksThanksThanksThanks

Evergreen17 · 19/04/2016 20:25

Jem I am soooooo happy to hear you say this. I am fed up with dtd and I feel it is such a chore. Why? Well, as I have gotten older I have a lot loess sex drive than when I was I dunno, 26, 29, 30... And I am exhausted working full time and commuting.
So yes, all this dtd is killing me as I usually wouldnt fancy that much of it but what I have would be lovely but now I force myself to dtd more to get preggo but nothing!!! Envy
Moose I have gained a lot of weight since TTC started. I am just so upset every time AF arrives that I eat
Oh well

Kwick I just read your message and I am speechless. I am so sooooorry. This is so unfair. All of us here have been crossing everything for you for months because you are so lovely and you really deserve this. Massive hugs. So sorry Sad

HepKestrel · 19/04/2016 20:37

I am so sorry kwick ((hugs))

There are no words. So sorry for your loss.

Mooseville · 19/04/2016 21:09

Oh kwick so sorry. Life's a fucking cruel, horrible bitch sometimes. You know we're all here for you if you need us.

StarkyTheDirewolf · 19/04/2016 21:14

Oh kwick I'm so so sorry, I'm in tears for you. I've got no words other than I'm so so sorry. All my thoughts and love and prayers. Flowers

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Ni4444 · 19/04/2016 21:51

This is so unfair Kwick... I guess all of ttc is so bloody unfair. The effort we put in, the amount we want it....none of it is linked to the outcome. You could not have done any more. I am holding out hope for you my love...you got upduffed first ivf, I hope that next eggo is the one. Flowers 💕

kavanaughkj · 19/04/2016 22:43

Kwick, I haven't been posting here long but wanted to join the rest of the ladies here in offering a collective shoulder to cry and/or lean on. So so sorry for your loss. Flowers

bluebird3 · 19/04/2016 22:52

kwick I'm heartbroken for you. I was thinking about you today wondering how you were getting on. Take care of yourself and know we're all here for you. ThanksThanksThanks

Kathrino · 19/04/2016 23:30

Oh kwick, I'm so, so sorry. I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now ThanksThanksThanks

Snowdog37 · 20/04/2016 01:58

Oh kwick 😢 I'm so sorry. Huge hugs from across the pond. Love and prayers. 💗💐💗💐💗

Evergreen17 · 20/04/2016 06:47

Morning kwick I woke up thinking of you and I come here and all these lovely ladies doing the same. Big hug love Thanks

Mileymoocow · 20/04/2016 10:11

kwick I'm devastated for you, I can't imagine how you must be feeling. It's so unfair, no one deserves this more than you. Please look after yourself Flowers

Cthulhoo · 20/04/2016 10:23

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear that Kwick. :( Gentle virtual hugs.

celizabe · 20/04/2016 10:31

Kwick, I am so sorry for your loss; be kind to yourself xxx

Peaches8Posies · 20/04/2016 11:56

kwick there are no words, once you see those 2 lines I just wish it was as straight forward as we deserve it to be. Take care of yourself, thinking of you xxx

FXSkip · 20/04/2016 14:21

kwick I've got no words, I am just so sorry. Know that every one of us here is thinking of you and we are here if you need us. Take care of yourself xxx

Pugmummy87 · 20/04/2016 16:10

Kwick I've been thinking about you all day today. Sending you love. Take your time and when you are ready we are all here waiting for you.

Kwick709 · 20/04/2016 17:20

Thank you ALL so much for very kind messages.
Am very sad and crying loads - this is not a good look as I am not a delicate crier - never mind, at least I am back home again (went to work this am but now off).
Got to talk to good work pal who has helped numerous friends through mc - he is from Central America and said that the UK seemed to be the only country where you did not automatically have an op in this situation... That made me think.
I will go to Early Pregnancy Unit to get more info tomorrow. My initial reaction to Op was not but not sure I can handle pain and visible evidence. Fucking wish I did not have to make this decision. Please excuse my French.

FXSkip · 20/04/2016 18:09

mate, we all wish you didn't have to make this f*cking decision, no excuses necessary. My sister recently had a termination (by choice, not the same scenario) but based on her experience I'd choose the op. It is of course your decision and I hope that EPU can give you lots of balanced info but it may well be better for you emotionally to have some control over the situation.

Evergreen17 · 20/04/2016 18:15

Kwick so sorry Sad
Not sure what to advice, I hope you get all the info you need to make this decision Sad
Don't have words
Thanks