The Berries: The one where The Berries cease to exist after a spate of waxy knicks and a'hem seepage (thread 20)

[funkymonk]

The smallprint –
Berries have a strict entrance criteria (TTC #1, over 30, TTC for 12+months, NO instadiffers, must have a special pot and def no mention of baby dust or baby dancing UGH !!! Ooooh aren’t we strict!

rain do you have any plans for your edd? We went for a lovely walk then visited a wine bar and went for a nice meal. It was really important to me that we were out doing something nice together instead of me crying at home.

funky if you decide you do want to go to NZ I'll foster your dog for a year, I'll put skype on every night

Can someone wind up the sausage projector? boodle can't possibly have anything better to do over half term..... lady and otters hope you're both hanging in there as well.

tiger not read that book, would you recommend it? Sounds like you do need out. Even if you get a bfp this cycle you'll still have to work another 8 months before leaving for maternity, if you've got itchy feet just make the move When do you find out?

barking no, I've arranged to not be in the office (I refuse to have any more tears at work, so I am avoiding the risk) but haven't thought about doing anything else.
To be completely honest, I've not really spoken to anyone about it, not even MrP - I'm not sure he even realises it's looming. I sort of don't want to mention it if he has forgotten as why drag him down too but I know I'm going to be in a really weird mood all day. It's a hard thing to talk about tho, even with him.
I think I'll definitely arrange for us to go out at the very least, you're totally right about not staying in crying which is what I had been envisaging.

bushy def take one day at a time my dear! My wait from BFP till early 6w scan took forever, then another wait till 12w scan, another wait till 16w midwife appt etc etc. I agree with the wise berries, please take DH or mum/friend for moral support to scan

Lots of seats free in the chopper when you are ready ladies. Took me a while to feel ready but there did come a time when I had questions I needed to ask the pg berries

Awww barking your DH is sweet! I think we sometimes forget how sad our partners feel because we are so wrapped up in everything. Still keeping everything crossed for you x

Knocker watch

Errr...

It's very faint. What does it mean berries??

feather !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Shit I want to poas now!!!!

Is it positive? Is a line a line? Oh god. I am so so so scared it's another ectopic.

Do it barking!

I'm only 9dpo though, and I'd only just talked myself out of pimping tomorrow morning!!!
I'm on my mobile and can see the line. Remind me how many dpo you are?

I'm 12dpo today. 9dpo is quite early...

I don't know what my line means though. It's faint. So faint.

feather!!!!!!!! OMFG - the clusterdiff is unstoppable! A line is a line is a line my dear, and I can see lines! Wooooooo!

OMFG *feather!!!! A line means your pg my dear regardless of how faint!

A line is a line, feather, there wouldn't be a line if there wasn't any hcg to detect and there wouldn't be hcg unless you were pg. Everything crossed for a sticky one .

Ha rain we clearly think along the same lines! This cluster diff is amazing!

Thanks guys, don't know what to say. Am in shock as really didn't expect it. I guess I have to be cautious as it is faint and I only ov'd on May 15/16 - that would make me 3 weeks, right?

I feel like such an idiot. Not sure what to do tomorrow. Call the FC?

Ps: cluster diff indeed!!

Feather cluster diff

Head over if you need to ask questions. And just so you are sure ANY LINE IS A LINE

Ov on May 15th would make you 4 weeks tomorrow wouldn't it? Was this clomid? I'd call the FC.

WOOHOO!!! It's about time we had a cluster after only a few single diffs.

Fingers crossed for a sticky one!

Oh my god!!!!!!! FEATHER congrats! I can definitely see two lines and on my mobile! Woohoo, clusterdiff clusterdiff! This is amazing!

barking right - 4 weeks, wow. It wasn't clomid - just acupuncture and exercise - I've lost a stone since Christmas and have ovulated for the last three months on my own. I get married next weekend. Don't know I could deal with the news of an ectopic beforehand. Oh, god...

OMG Feather!!! Congratulations!
Who's next??

Oh Crikey, just before your wedding, what a lovely wedding gift but understandably scary. Hugs x

Crossing everything for you Feather if you think you need to, definitely ring the FC.

I'm feeling much perkier Tiger and Rain thanks Rain I think Barkings advice is good, do something lovely with your dh. Also, hope you are feeling better soon.

Tiger I am crossing my fingers for the job! It sounds like you need a change.

Chloe did you have your scan again today? Sorry if that's wrong it's difficult to keep up

Barking fingers crossed for you, poas!!