free OH won't countenance borrowing to finance IVF and Mr S said my chances were less than 5% with my own eggs anyway, he suggested donor eggs as that would then give me a 60% chance. Donor eggs just wouldn't be for me, I'm afraid, I would feel like the child wasn't mine (although I do understand why women go this route).
sue You're right, I didn't used to have any problems getting pregnant until I went on the pred, was getting pregnant every second cycle. But Mr S won't hear that the steroids could be the cause of either my suddenly diminished AF or that I'm not getting pregnant any more, despite this all happening from when I started taking the higher dose pred in Nov/Dec. He says all that is coincidence, that it's all down to my age - I questioned the suddenness of it; the fact that until that chem. pg and higher dose steroids my AFs were absolutely text-book and predicatable to a fault, but he stated again that no, he's never heard of steroids causing problems with AF (as in, much lighter bleeding) and that it was complete coincidence. I think he's wrong, but he's the expert and I'm not going to argue when I can't prove it. I still feel if I hadn't taken the steroids my AFs would be exactly as they always are, but obviously I can't prove a thing. shrug
Due to him not being willing to even entertain the notion that it's the steroids responsible I didn't bother to raise the question of only taking the pred from BFP, but it's what I'll do anyway. Although if he's right, I'm very unlikely to ever get any proper BFP again anyway.
Just as an aside, someone - snoopy, was it you? - mentioned about needing blood tests on the hydroxy. Well Mr S has asked me to get my GP to do a full blood count, as I've been on the hydroxy since December - so yes, it is after all something that needs monitoring, although I don't know what it is they're looking out for, he didn't say (and I wasn't in any mood to ask!).