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Anyone want to join me at the start of another 2 ww?

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ElmMum · 26/04/2011 13:42

I am due on around the 11th/12th of May. This is our 4th cycle of TTC number 2, after a MC last Jan, and our 2nd cycle using a Clear Blue Fertility Monitor to keep track of things. We managed to DTD 5 times (a record for us!) in the days just before and while I was (hopefully) ovulating, so I have (despite my best efforts) got my hopes up that this month will be the month.

Anyone else out there got 2 weeks of waiting and symptom-checking looming and want some company?

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DreamingOfABump · 01/05/2011 21:04

af due 5th may. feel sick all evening. hope its a sign. prob sign i have a vivid imagination ;) all will become clear in a few days!
(ive been sucked into the symptom spotting- argh!)

pommedechocolat · 01/05/2011 21:07

AF due 10th may. Feeling nauseous and have sore boobs. Have tested BFN twice today...
Attempting to wait until weds now.

mopey · 01/05/2011 21:19

AF due 13th May, mc in March so 1st cycle since then. Not quite sure when ov was but guessing Fri just gone - just hoping the next 2 weeks go quickly!!
Good luck to any expecting AF this week x

milocuckoomitten · 01/05/2011 21:55

Still getting cramps and thinking AF might be starting but nothing and then they stop for a while. Not in the terribly stroppy mood I often get with PMS either. Still no sore boobs which I usually get every month just before AF.
Am absolutely bursting to talk to someone, just want to find out now so can either forget it for a while and concentrate on work or get all excited about having a baby! I am dwelling on this far too much!

DreamingOfABump · 01/05/2011 23:38

gah! Very torturous to be kept dangling milo i hope things pan out soon. BUT, no af is a good thing- hopefully its a slow burner of a BFP.

milocuckoomitten · 02/05/2011 11:21

So do I dreaming
Still no test but no AF either. Think I ought to do another test today as have a meeting at work tomorrow and really should know if I'm pregnant as it would affect the discussion. Missed fmu for testing today but I guess that since I must be late already it shouldn't matter.

sims2fan · 02/05/2011 11:47

Yes, do another test milo. Good luck!

hairylights · 02/05/2011 12:29

I'm fairly sure I'm not up the duff. No symptoms at all.

VintageNancy · 02/05/2011 17:09

I'm doing it again, I'm googling early pregnancy symptoms. Someone slap me. Feel asleep for an hour on the sofa this afternoon.

Have you tested again milo?

No symptoms doesn't mean no baby hairy Fingers crossed :)

milocuckoomitten · 02/05/2011 17:19

BFN Sad Was a clearblue digital as well so likely to be accurate. Can't believe it - haven't had such a long cycle since August last year, understand why I would be a bit late but not this late. So disappointed....

pinkpony · 02/05/2011 18:00

fingers crossed for everyone waiting to test, sorry it was a BFN milo

I'm slowly driving myself mad on CD19 or a 28 or 29 day cycle, I had convinced myself I wouldn't test unless I got to the 13th May but have just had spotting which I never normally get mid cycle so am thinking about getting one of the early indicator tests.

I can just see me bankrupting us by obsessively buying pg tests, please can someone tell me to be patient??

mopey · 02/05/2011 18:26

Hi pinkponey I have always tested early and wasted so much money on tests - each time when I was pg I never got a bfp until 3 or 4 days before af was due even then it was very faint and that was with first response ones - think you would only end up driving yourself more mad by testing now as it would be sure to be a bfn - I'm on similiar timings to you - CD 17 now and I am going to try and wait until 9/10th May before I start to POAS.......sooo difficult though.....cant think about anything else!!

milocuckoomitten · 02/05/2011 19:49

My GP is away this week anyway, so decided I'm going to wait until next weekend, test again then if no AF and then whatever the result I can see GP next week.
ALso going to start using OV sticks from next cycle if and when it starts!

SlightlyBabyCrazed · 02/05/2011 19:56

Hi all, can I sign in

Am at the start of the 2WW, but have "hit" all the relevant days this cycle, so should be due AF around 17th May, but.... cycle was only 25 days last month so could be earlier........

ElmMum · 02/05/2011 20:17

Evening all. Hello to the newbies !

I've updated the list but could have missed someone. Don't know how the other MNers do those massive threads with loads of stats. Is v befuddling!

Anyhow, I am having no symptoms at all but have looked at calendar and although I would normally be due on the 11th or 12th, if my luteal phase is 14 days then I may well get AF a couple of days before that. Assuming that I ovd on the days that the CBFM showed a peak reading.

Is that right though? Or do you ov after the peak reading on the CBFM? In which case 11th/12th is probably about right.

Lots of of you approaching the end of the 2ww according to this list. FX for you all!

ShimmeryPixie BFP
milocuckoomitten 28th April
Sims2fan 3rd May
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed 4th May
DreamingOfABump 5th May
eurochick 5th-7th May
VintageNancy and flyingcloud 7th May
Bellakins 8th May
meliesmummy and blueeyedmonster 9th May
mopey 9th/10th May
hairylights and pommedechocolat 10th May
ElmMum 11/12th May
FidgetPie and pinkpony 13th May
SlightlyBabyCrazed 17th May

LivingDeadGirl ?
hopingitsthismonth ?

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DreamingOfABump · 02/05/2011 20:19

imaginary symtom of the day, husband says i am very grumpy.

(I say this is probably because he is a lazy, messy git who does nothing around the house and needs to be nagged)

ElmMum · 02/05/2011 20:20

Also, I feel as though there is no reason why I shouldn't be pg this month as we did everything right. Which is plain stupid, given that i know it doesn't work like that.

Even though I have no symptoms I just want to test now so I can stop being hopeful if it's a BFN. Stupid logic. I plan to sit on my hands until the 11th/12th and test then if no AF.

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DreamingOfABump · 02/05/2011 20:20

elmmum i think you ov within about 36 hrs of lh surge (peak reading)

SlightlyBabyCrazed · 02/05/2011 20:28

Yep, the LH surge is 12-36 hours before ovulation, so at most if you tested at the beginning of that window and got the surge then you are at the very most 36 hours away from ovulation. With the CBFM that is from the first day of peak.

I had mild crampy type feelings during the afternoon of my first peak day - but suspect that was me obsessively symptom spotting before there are any real symptoms to spot!! Most stupid thing today - driving to work thought I had a metallic taste - then realised I had split my lip and it was in fact the tiny taste of my own blood - I know you can get symptoms early - but before sperm meets egg is a little ridiculous GrinBlush

eurochick · 02/05/2011 21:10

I started my daily testing regime today.

8dpo and negative (unsurprisingly).

I have had v few symptoms to spot this month - only cramps. No sore boobs, no dizzyness, no nausea, no metallic taste.

ElmMum · 02/05/2011 21:40

Thanks ladies. Then my original estimate of 11th/12th May is probably right. It seems such a long way away...

I'm off to heat up some Ambrosia Custard. I need cheering up! Night all :)

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Reallyneedajob · 02/05/2011 22:39

I think I'm due on today but it could be tomorrow. I don't normally keep good track of exactly how long my cycles are but I'm pretty sure they're usually regular and about 28 days. Yesterday I was very crampy so was convinced I was about to start. Same thing today - keep checking and nothing there. About half seven I started to feel the ache I often get the first couple of days when I have a really heavy flow. Nothing there. I've just been to the loo and again nothing there!

If it's going to start I wish it would just hurry up so I can get on with looking forward to trying again next month as at the moment I can't help but have a bit of hope that actually it's not going to start!

LivingDeadGirl · 02/05/2011 22:53

CD22 today, AF due on or around 9th May. DH commented last night that my boobs looked "massive" but he had been on the beer all afternoon watching footy with the lads and was merry to say the least. Trying not to read too much into it.

mamarara · 02/05/2011 23:47

Hi may I join you ladies? First month ttc since mc in Jan. Due on 11th May. Not done any ov testing, charting or anything technical. Just been shagging til we feared it might fall off. Now deluding myself I feel nauseas/boobs hurt/any other pg symptom I can think of.

If it's any help (its not, I know) I had zero symptoms of any kind with my DD. Nothing pre period or during pg. Nada.Except BFP. After a while a bump. And eventually a baby popped out. Needless to say was uber paranoid the whole time (previous mc) but it all worked out fine. So no symptoms might not be bad news.

Ovaries crossed for you all. Here's hoping for some blastocysts.

ElmMum · 03/05/2011 08:50

Newbies added to the list . This is turning into a proper MN thread! .

Here's hoping no AFs for anyone today and maybe even some BFPs...

ShimmeryPixie BFP
milocuckoomitten 28th April
Reallyneedajob 2nd/3rd May
Sims2fan 3rd May
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed 4th May
DreamingOfABump 5th May
eurochick 5th-7th May
VintageNancy and flyingcloud 7th May
Bellakins 8th May
meliesmummy and blueeyedmonster and LivingDeadGirl 9th May
mopey 9th/10th May
hairylights and pommedechocolat 10th May
mamarara 11th May
ElmMum 11/12th May
FidgetPie and pinkpony 13th May
SlightlyBabyCrazed 17th May

hopingitsthismonth ?

Who is testing early and who is waiting til AF is late?

I'm going to really really try to wait, although I'm itching to test so I don't have to have that horrible feeling when you realise AF has started. At least if you get a BFN you know it's coming and can stop feeling hopeful. But then I don't want to feel the disappointment of a BFN just yet...

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