I've spent the afternoon with a friend, and we've been planning our annual Christmas Shopping Extravaganza - it's become our default present to each other, brunch somewhere nice, a browse around the shops, coffee in a garden centre etc.
We don't actually buy much other than a few stocking fillers for our children, and a few little items here and there, but she asked me what I really really wanted for Christmas.
I said I would love a copy of Sense and Sensibility, preferable a dusty well thumbed paperback.
She wants a door stop.
Neither of us is being a grinchy bah humbugger, we're just quite happy with a little token gift. So what would you like?