Kid keeps attacking my 3 year old

[Mamalexi343]

So I'm fuming right now!

My 3 year old dd keeps getting hit and pushed and kicked by the same kid at her nursery.

Now this kid has special needs and whilst I do understand (my niece is autistic) I don't understand why nothing is being done about it. I'm not angry at him (well I am a bit, he hurt my baby) nor am I angry at his parents (slightly annoyed) I'm furious with his care givers, that they know he lashes out yet nothing is being done.

He went to her old nursery and bit her twice on the same finger, breaking the skin both times and I didn't realise he had moved over to her new nursery until I saw him a couple of weeks ago and it all clicked together all the time she was coming home saying xxxxx had hurt her again.

As soon as I realised he was there I immediately took her teachers to the side and quietly explained their history and he seems to have taken a disliking to her, they assured me they would be vigilant in watching and on hand if any situation looks like it's forming.

I pick her up today to be called into the classroom and she is uncontrollably crying and they inform me she has hit her eye, it's only once we've got home and her eye has swollen up and turned into a black eye and I ask her what happened and she again tells me xxxxx has thumped her in the eye.

I am beyond angry and waiting for her next nursery day to get to the bottom of this, she wouldn't say someone did something if they didn't and I said a few of the other kids names and she assured me it was him.

Why is the nursery not doing anything about it? Why did they lie to me? Why aren't they getting this boy the help he so obviously needs? My dd isn't the first child he's gone for, I've had several conversations with other parents of children he's hurt.

I already struggle to get her in there every morning let alone with all this now going on.

I don't care if I'm over reacting I'm not having this!!!! How would you guys handle it?

OP, hide this thread. You're in an emotional place and reading some of the responses of here, it's not going to help. Perfectly normal how you feel. Funny in a bullying topic some people on here are acting like playground bullies to the OP, who is clearly not in a good place.

Oh and wanker of the thread comment goes to you Badders

*Yeah...maybe head over the netmums?

I'm sure lots of "Huns" will agree with you over there*

Lovely x

Good luck .

Complain to nursery.

Bye

Also just because OP kicked off, doesn't mean anyone was bullying her.

Night all

You've been very passive aggressive too lou with your :) and your 'bye' at the end of your last comment, mixed in with the other little pokes at the OP. Don't try to gaslight here into thinking that you're being nice and helpful, because it's plain as day that you haven't been. You want to make a supportive comment, great, don't follow it up in the same post with a passive aggressive one.

Bye

Yes lou, she kicked off with no provocation whatsoever

Porpoise - you could do with educating yourself about child development. Your comment makes you sound ignorant.

Op - try to calm down. It's not nice but venting on here isn't going to help. Have a meeting with the nursery- find out what safeguarding measures they have in place to protect all of the children under their care. Explain the situation and your concerns calmly. Then go from there. If you're not happy with their care though - you may have to consider a different setting. Good luck.

I haven't. I wished the OP well many times

Plus i took issue with other people generally, not the OP. HtH

lou I'm telling you, you have come across as passive aggressive on many of your posts. Whether you realise that about yourself or not, doesn't not make it true! Just because you follow a passive aggressive comment with a smiley face or 'I wish you all the best', doesn't detract from the original comment.

So sorry you've been subjected to this nastiness, OP. Of course you are angry, people should be more understanding, given what's happened to your DD. Not nit-picking.

I hope you get some answers and a way to move forward keeping your DD safe.

I was actually just refusing to engage in a fight, but whatever.

Plus its not nitpicking to say she shouldn't be angry with the boy or his parents either.

If you want me to post and dissect each comments, I've got all night. But you're just going to look like a bit of a cow.

Oh boo hoo

Right, I will then lou* as you are clearly delusional!

I'll leave you to your lame bunfight attempt. Byee

Do what you like

So here Lou, all doing so well until you put 'as you should understand'. Why should she? She's not thinking about the other child, she's thinking about her child, you know, the one with the black eye, so what was your agenda there? Passive aggressive.

Assumptions on past threads, not helpful.

Making yourself superiors here because 'you' wouldn't have though to put it in this topic. Oh, and loving the smiley face, in your 'supportive' comment. Good job!

Ah its some kind of weird court. Ok. get a life

Oh yes, here she's a bit nasty... not like you would be, of course and yay, followed by another follow up 'supportive' comment. Do you really want me to continue????

No love, you were the one who came on here with your passive aggressive shit, then tried to gaslight a woman who is clearly upset about her child being bitten and hit, to the point where they have a black eye, by another kid.

Instead of supporting her, you made little passive aggressive comments and then tried to make her look in the wrong when she got upset. It's all there in black and white.

If I wanted a bun fight with you, my comments would be deleted. I'm just highlighting that I see your game, and isn't nice.