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Kid keeps attacking my 3 year old

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Mamalexi343 · 13/03/2017 16:15

So I'm fuming right now! Angry

My 3 year old dd keeps getting hit and pushed and kicked by the same kid at her nursery.

Now this kid has special needs and whilst I do understand (my niece is autistic) I don't understand why nothing is being done about it. I'm not angry at him (well I am a bit, he hurt my baby) nor am I angry at his parents (slightly annoyed) I'm furious with his care givers, that they know he lashes out yet nothing is being done.

He went to her old nursery and bit her twice on the same finger, breaking the skin both times and I didn't realise he had moved over to her new nursery until I saw him a couple of weeks ago and it all clicked together all the time she was coming home saying xxxxx had hurt her again.

As soon as I realised he was there I immediately took her teachers to the side and quietly explained their history and he seems to have taken a disliking to her, they assured me they would be vigilant in watching and on hand if any situation looks like it's forming.

I pick her up today to be called into the classroom and she is uncontrollably crying and they inform me she has hit her eye, it's only once we've got home and her eye has swollen up and turned into a black eye and I ask her what happened and she again tells me xxxxx has thumped her in the eye.

I am beyond angry and waiting for her next nursery day to get to the bottom of this, she wouldn't say someone did something if they didn't and I said a few of the other kids names and she assured me it was him.

Why is the nursery not doing anything about it? Why did they lie to me? Why aren't they getting this boy the help he so obviously needs? My dd isn't the first child he's gone for, I've had several conversations with other parents of children he's hurt.

I already struggle to get her in there every morning let alone with all this now going on.

I don't care if I'm over reacting I'm not having this!!!! How would you guys handle it?

OP posts:
LouKout · 14/03/2017 05:59

No * their

WateryTart · 14/03/2017 06:33

They can't be expected to have eyes on every child every second

If a child has history of violent or aggressive behaviour then of course they have to keep an eye on that child every second. It's their job. That child needs help learning to control his behaviour, and has to be prevented from lashing out until he has. And all the other children need to feel safe.

I wouldn't want to go to work worrying that an unpredictable colleague may suddenly lash out at me, yet we expect children to put up with it.

If the child is accepted into the nursery then the staff have to keep the other children safe and help him to learn appropriate behaviour.

DixieNormas · 14/03/2017 06:34

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Flypaperforarseholes · 15/03/2017 13:03

LouKout...Second "their".

Jenny0502 · 17/03/2017 20:06

My son is 7 years old and is being bullied on the bus, and off of the bus in our yard. I've tried talking to the kids Mom and she got in my face and told me I was a liar. Seriously??

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