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August 2014 - very early days but so excited!

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Hollyjokes · 15/11/2013 09:52

Hello!

So I'm actually due around 27th July but I went two weeks overdue with my first so I'm pretty sure this will be an August baby Smile

Is there anyone else who is newly pregnant and would like to join me?

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PinaColadas · 13/12/2013 12:48

Hi Ladies just been catching up, have a great holiday baggy

Hello to all the newbies congratulations.

Bad couple of days for me, mentally not physically. I had a bit of a breakdown a few nights ago, think it all got a bit too much for me worrying. I guess I’m just so worried the same thing is going to happen again, I’m haunted by the image of the empty sac on my ultrasound and I can't ever imagine seeing anything other than that so when I feel any kind of symptom I feel like it’s all in my head! I’ve booked a scan for 30th December (should be between 8 and 9 weeks then I reckon) I, didn't realise at the time but that’s the day our first baby should have been due so hoping that day will be flipped on its head.

This group is really like a therapy for me, it’s so reassuring to read other people's worries because sometimes I think I’m going mad!

talulah I’ve had yellow cm for a few weeks, I’m hoping its normal too.

I went to see my doctor last night and he was very matter of fact in saying that when you get in a car or a bike you understand you're risking that you could crash and you could get hurt, and that pregnancy is the same in that when you get pregnant you know you're taking the risk that it could end in a MC and it will hurt but you've got to keep trying or you won't get anywhere. I kind of hated him but loved him at the same time because its put it all into perspective and I know he is right.

Thanks for reading my essay! Sorry it was so long x

miserywaterfall · 13/12/2013 12:54

Pina, I am so with you on the mental side of things. Yesterday I convinced myself all my symptoms had disappeared and the worst had happened and now since seeing the doc and being told it's probably a UTI my symptoms are back... This really is a complete rollercoaster of a emotions and it's taking it's toll on me today.

HungryHorace · 13/12/2013 13:03

Pregnancy is a tough journey, both physically and mentally. I admire anyone who breezes through it without a worry as I just worry constantly.

I've been thinking this morning about not feeling pregnant, and I remembered that at 6 weeks last time I forced DH to buy me another test as I really didn't feel pregnant. That test had a strong line and about a week later my sickness started and there was no mistaking the fact I was pregnant. So I'm doing the same worrying this time it would appear.

It's great to have this board and the Facebook group to share our worried / potentially neurotic moments with. :-)

PinaColadas · 13/12/2013 13:51

I'm so scared to join this group yet so intrigued all at the same time, I do want to join but I don't fully trust Facebook not to put it on my newsfeed or something, is it definitely completely private?

It's strange how symptoms come and go, one minute I feel sick as a dog the next I'm fine. I've still not actually been sick yet though.

deuscat · 13/12/2013 14:00

I was thinking recently that I'm not having many symptoms. I'm 5+5 and have had sore boobs and occasional cramping. Then today exhaustion has hit me like a brick wall. 2 hours left at work and all I can think about is having a snooze as soon as I get home. Just need to drag myself through the next 2 hours Blush

Just had a mince pie to help me along Wink

deuscat · 13/12/2013 14:06

We haven't heard from mrsmusic who I'm sure was due at EPU yesterday. Hope she is ok. Thanks

HungryHorace · 13/12/2013 14:07

Piña, the group is definitely private. Posts show on your own newsfeed but not your friends'.

I've been tired, but with a nearly 6 month old who still wakes at night, that's not really a surprise!

PinaColadas · 13/12/2013 14:16

Can't imagine that at all Hungry you must be shattered!

ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie · 13/12/2013 14:28

Hungry you're advice about waiting was spot on, I had my appointment letter through last night! It was supposed to be 27th but we're away so now it's the 31st, which seems so long away but it's in reality. At least we've got our private scan on 23rd, which is much sooner Smile

Choco I had to make a decision when I saw my nurse last week, but it means they know where to send your info for appointment booking!

Misery so glad everything is looking better now for you.

I've been falling asleep by about 9.30pm for the last few nights and not waking up until morning, which is crazy for me. I made it all the way to 11 last night but can already feel an early night coming on. I'm such a party animal Xmas Grin

Pina what happened on Monday with your colleagues? Did they say anything? (sorry if you've already said)

HungryHorace · 13/12/2013 14:29

I can't remember my last good night's sleep...it's normal now! smiles weakly!

PinaColadas · 13/12/2013 14:46

ItsSoFluffy I'm the same I went to bed at 8.30 a couple of nights this week, think DH is getting slightly fed up of not seeing me but he has been great running me baths and cleaning and cooking! I'm in shock. Think after my MC he wants me to take it easy and I really appriciate it because it's usually me that does housework and cooking.

Oh yes I forgot to say about that, the 2 main culprits were off on the Monday but on the Tuesday everything was fine they pretended like nothing had happened, although they were talking to eachother about how hungover they were but never asked me, so I still think they must blatantly know. But like my friend said, they don't know for sure until I confirm it. Can't wait for the secrets to stop though I have to watch what I say all the time!

flymo79 · 13/12/2013 14:48

I'm with you slice, would love to sleep till 12 week scan! the whole scan-early-or-not quandary goes round and around my head, I have a different opinion every day!
Glad you got a prognosis misery

flymo79 · 13/12/2013 14:51

pina just caught up, so sorry you've been feeling so down and stressed. I know what you mean about the doctor, they can be reassuring but maddenning (sp??) at the same time!! Sometimes you just want someone to understand how horrible it is not knowing. I am literally the worst at not knowing, and at waiting!

Ruggle · 13/12/2013 15:07

I tried again to get a referral for and early reassurance scan, but no joy. GP won't play ball. "We don't do referrals"....
Anyway, I then started researching scans, and decided actually I might not bother.
I stupidly used my last CBdigi today thinking it would show 3+, bit it still said 2-3. I know they aren't 100% reliable, but it still made me feel sad and worried. I wish I'd waited a few days longer. I'm only 5+1 today (I think).

Mabelandrose · 13/12/2013 15:11

I had an early 8 week scan that was normal but then mmc at 12 weeks with my first pregnancy. I honestly think it would have been better to cope having not had an early scan. I know everyone is different, but all I could see what that little heart beating in my head for weeks after.

The scan only reassures you at that moment. I think I will wait this time until 12 weeks and just have low expectations until then.

HungryHorace · 13/12/2013 15:23

I'm sorry so many of you have had MCs / MMCs, it must be so worrying being pregnant. :-(

I can't decide whether to have a private scan or not. But I think if there was something wrong I'd rather be told by the NHS. Does that sound odd?

Ruggle, I'm trying not to use my next digi until way into next week because of their lack of accuracy. It's difficult though as you just want reassurance. I need to resist as I, like you, am desperate to see 3+, and as dark as the OPKs get, they can't get any darker now so aren't proving much at all.

Twin packs of digis were only £8.50 on Amazon last week, by the way.

Ruggle · 13/12/2013 15:26

Haha! Don't tempt me into buying more! I've spent way too much money already. Whatever will be will be.... The test won't change that...
(That's what I keep trying to tell myself anyway!)

PinaColadas · 13/12/2013 15:41

Ruggle I was secretly hoping GP would say "I know what will make you feel better, let me personally drive you in my Bently to the hospital and take you to ultrasound and get you a scan sorted this afternoon"
No such luck, in fact he didn't even buy into me wanting to be told my hormone levels from my urine, was just like what will be will be more or less.

I'm definately going for it with this private scan I know what you mean though, but apparently if theres something wrong they refer your notes straight to your GP.

Thanks Flymo This waiting thing is awful although I realised its been 17 days already and its gone pretty fast acually. I probably need to just get a grip but its definately easier said than done isn't it

NameToBeDecided · 13/12/2013 17:04

Misery I'm really pleased that everything's ok. Hope it clears up soon for you.

Choccywoccydodah · 13/12/2013 18:35

Was just flicking through and so glad I just read your post nearly first Horace!!
So, my lines aren't getting darker, so I got a superdrug digi today (15dpo) and I said not pregnant!! Wtaf????
Wish if just bought the frer now!!

HungryHorace · 13/12/2013 19:16

15 DPO is still really early. What sensitivity is the Superdrug digi? I'd definitely be investing in a different test!

OveranxiousUnderated · 13/12/2013 19:22

Hi everyone, just saying hello...have been reading your posts for a couple of days and would like to join if that's okay! I'm currently about 6weeks and 4 days, I had an early scan on Tues as I suffered an ectopic pregnancy and tube removal 6 months ago so classed as high risk. Scan showed pregnancy in the right place with a heartbeat but I am still extremely nervous. I also had a miscarriage last year at 6 weeks...this is my 3rd pregnancy in 18 months...3rd time lucky I hope.

I am booked in for a private scan at 8 weeks on Monday 23rd December...was very should I/shouldn't I but I am a nervous wreck and don't think I could wait until 12 weeks without some more reassurance.

Ruggle - Just saw your post and wanted to say that I also used my last cb digital up a week after the first one expecting it to say 3+ and it didn't...and I was around 5+4, I panicked but my husband refused to let me buy another. I had an early scan 4 days later at 6+1 which showed an embryo and a heartbeat so my levels were most certainly rising. Hope that reassures you a little. Smile

My EDD is August 2nd.

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eeyore2911 · 13/12/2013 19:42

Those tests are evil! I had some bleeding and so go referred to EPU, was worried to did a pregnancy test beforehand and it was negative. Convinced I had miscarried I went for my scan anyway and it was twins!!! Stupid test giving me heart failure !!! And then actual heart failure from the news that I'm laughing two babies around Shock

HungryHorace · 13/12/2013 19:54

If twins can come up as negative then there's no hope!

And do you mean last time or are you having twins this time, eeyore?!?!

Hi to today's newbies. :-)

HungryHorace · 13/12/2013 19:55

Though above a certain amount of hcg the tests can get confused and show negative results instead of a positive. Diluting the wee usually works in that situation.