MM He IS being an arse. You are not being unreasonable! He is being even more of an arse knowing your had issues in the past. God, some people are stupid at the best of times! I don't think DP would even notice what I ate... he just gets what I ask for, and brings it to me so I don't have to hoist my fat ass off the sofa.
Now isn't the time to be worrying about calories and intake. Not unless you aren't eating enough! And judging by your pictures, you look perfectly healthy!
Tell him that he won't be allowed in the house when you are eating. He must sit outside until you have finished. Because then he can't criticise what he doesn't see!
My rant is mostly about my meeting with the supervisor of midwives yesterday. I would never ever ever be so patronising to someone, even more so if they worked in the same profession as me! Oh my word.... I've been left feeling like an absolute nutcase. She asked me no less than 8 times to change the wording in my 'plan' because they were not happy with it. She had annotated it with words such as 'alarming'. I was hoping the meeting would be supportive. But no. The complete opposite.
She told me over and over again that if I call in labour and the midwives are at another homebirth, that I will be asked to go in to the unit. I stated that as is clear in what I have written, I will not be attending hospital, and that this is their issue to address, not mine. I expect to be provided with midwifery care as soon as possible if the above scenario occurs. She tried to get me to agree to go in. Said I have no right to a homebirth that they could provide an ambulance and that if I chose not to get in it, that covers them as far as they are concerned for legally providing me care. I didn't even bother arguing.
If it happens, I won't be going in. End of. She suggested an independent midwife. I said, have you got the 3k for one? I certainly don't!
Considering alternatives now