Morning all!
Davina Sorry you're having a tough week - is totally normal to have bad days where you cry and worry and think it's all gone horribly wrong (i've had plenty myself). Doesn't make it any less awful to go through though! Glad you've got an appointment on Wednesday though, is always a good idea to be cautious and get checked over. Fingers crossed everything is fine!
Bun Love your tradition of giving a new decoration every year - I think that's great (and may have to steal it!) Your xmas eve parcel sounds fab - not lame at all!! As it happens, I have in fact put my foot down this year and said xmas day is just me and DP at home - it's our last chance for a xmas alone for what, 18 years? So I want to make the most of it! We'll do family stuff between xmas and new year, it's just working out the details of who will go where - DP has family in north london and they tend to want everyone to come to them (to be fair, they have a huge house and are amazing cooks) but it's a horrible journey up around the motorways and a long way from home to get stuck if it snows... I've told DP that all xmas plans with family and friends are conditional on a) good weather and b) me feeling up to it - and everyone is to be warned that we may have to cancel at the last minute and if they aren't happy with that then we shall just decline the invite as I'm not 100% committing to anything at all post 20 weeks! I'm usually really flexible about travelling around to see people, we spend most of each xmas break visiting various family & friends - but I figured that this year I have a cast iron excuse for doing what I want for once in my lifetime! We've already decided that once fuzzy is born the default for xmas will be for us to spend it at home and have people to us (very happy to have siblings,GPs etc once we have a bigger house!) rather than us traipsing around the country! I don't mind the odd xmas at grandparents etc, but really want fuzzy/our little family to have xmas traditions other than garage pasties and long car journeys! 
OUCH with the piles - you have my utmost sympathy!
I also don't understand why people put stuff on facebook like that - is horrible :( Am so glad all mention of fuzzy is banned on FB! The first time fuzzy will be mentioned should (I hope) be a link to a picture on flickr of newly born, healthy, baby with mum & dad, posted only after ALL close friends and family have been informed by us! Anyone posting before we give the OK will be in the deepest of shit with DP and I!
Ghost 7 weeks - WOW! If the baby came in 7 weeks then it would be an xmas baby! That would certainly add complications to your xmas! But you'd (presumably) get to laze on sofa with baby while everyone worked around you? The mammoth Kiddicare trip sounds like fun!! 
Carlita GOOD LUCK for today!
Am very excited for you! Hope you get a nice clear long look at the baby!!
Checked out the xmas play thread you mentioned - is great!! 
hey mamma - so glad it's going well - nice to see you popping in! :) Fingers crossed for your scan on Wednesday!
So, exciting news! I felt fuzzy move last night!!! I had had inklings that some fluttery windy feelings could, possibly, maybe have been fuzzy related before, but this was the first time I just thought, yep, that's got to be the baby! I was laid up on the sofa while DP made dinner, with my legs folded up and leaning on the back of the sofa - so fuzzy was a bit squished up in the middle! I'd been windy as hell (sorry for TMI!) so wasn't really paying much attention to the rumblings and grumblings of my guts - but then I noticed that one feeling was coming from somewhere deeper/different. It went on for a few minutes before I had to move (stupid hips and pelvis hurting and making me move!) and was really weird and very lovely. Best I can describe it was as though someone was tickling me deep inside! So kind of like the fluttering that you read about! I have never, ever, felt anything like it so am pretty sure it was fuzzy! Today I haven't felt that exact thing again yet, but there's a weird almost vibratey sensation I am intermittently getting in the same sort of place, which I assume is fuzzy movements! I have to confess, I was so happy/relieved to feel fuzzy move that I promptly burst into tears!! Am really
hoping to feel more today! Is particularly great as DP was here and able to be excited with me (not that he will get to feel anything for ages yet!) - I'd been worrying it would happen while he is in NY and I wouldn't have anyone to share it with! So am mighty relieved it happened before Sunday!
Anyways - builders just arrived (hurrah!) so got to go!