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TTC a 2012 baby - the GRADUATES!

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Carlitawantsababy · 05/08/2011 07:25

As requested/suggested this is a thread for those graduating from the TTC a 2012 baby -this is our year thread! Bring your BFPs and get yourselves comfy Grin

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Kayzr · 11/10/2011 07:00

Morning,

I feel like death due to lack of sleep Sad but no more spotting overnight Smile

babybrain3 · 11/10/2011 07:57

Sounds promising kayzr!!! GrinGrin

trope · 11/10/2011 12:06

bun super noodles! Shocking! Wink (I had two bowls of crunchy nut cornflakes for lunch the other day...)
Didn't realise poppets did second hand stuff - assumed it was a bit of an expensive hove yummy mummy type shop full of babygrows that cost £18 each... Will definitely have to check it out! Thanks for the tip! :)

fools yes yes to the folic acid issues! I used to have to take high dose folic acid (5mg 3 times a week) and every time I took it I ended up feeling rough as hell and not sleeping. Ended up switching to the pregnancy dose as some was better than none... Coping OK with the daily pregnancy dose so long as I take it with breakfast - with food and early in the day seems to be key! My calcium tablets on the other hand i've barely taken (despite really rather needing them for both fuzzy and me as I have swiss cheese bones already) as they are strongly citrus (well, fake citrus) flavoured and since I got pregnant they make me gag something rotten. DP is nagging away though and guilt tripping me into taking them!! I am at least eating lots of cheese (lactose intolerance seems to have subsided a lot now i'm preg - hurrah!) and spinach, so I am getting some calcium!

babybrain hello! hope to see you in here as a graduate very soon - all sounds very promising! Grin fingers crossed for you!

Kayzr glad the spotting has stopped - sounds like an implantation bleed to me!

In other news, I got my screening bloods back (about 5 minutes ago - can't get hold of DP so sharing here!!) and am astonished at how good they are! As the resident old person on the thread (Wink) I had been a bit worried, but my adjusted risk is massively lower than the average. Trisomy 21 (Down's Syndrome) - background risk was 1:577, my adjusted risk was 1:8903! The Trisomy 18 and 13 adjusted risks were even lower (background risk - 1:6813, adjusted 1:136263, background 1:16039, adjusted 1:275864). Quite how my borked old body has managed to produce a big healthy baby I shall never understand but I am enormously relieved and happy and glad! Grin I can only hope that fuzzy continues to thrive for the next 6 months!

MammaInTheMaking · 11/10/2011 12:24

Well done to Trope's body for being so good and looking after a healthy fuzzy!

Can't say i've had any yuckiness whilst taking folic acid. I pop one with my porridge every morning no probs. Am still ravenous...porridge for breakfast (7am), tub of pomegranate seeds as a snack as soon as i get to work (9am) and an apple at 10am. Then grumbled for 2 hours and now scoffing a chicken and pesto sarnie. Wow, i've never known myself to be so famished! Boobs were crazy painful last night. Even the duvet on them hurt. Much less painful today.

Really pleased you're doing better Kayzr, what a relief. :)

Kayzr · 11/10/2011 13:30

I never remember to take my folic acid so I've started putting the tablets in the tea bag pot we have so when I go to make a cup of tea they are there.

With both boys anything mint flavoured has made me feel sick so when I brushed my teeth this morning it wasn't nice. Must be a good sign though.

peapop · 11/10/2011 15:13

Bad news from me I'm afraid. Scan showed baby had stopped growing around 6 weeks. I have to have another scan next Tuesday to confirm but they said I will more than likely miscarry by then. We are just so shocked and gutted, can't believe it at all Sad

Kayzr · 11/10/2011 15:21

Peapop I am so so sorry Sad thinking of you and please take care of yourself xxx

Tw1nkle · 11/10/2011 15:21

So sorry peapop

MammaInTheMaking · 11/10/2011 15:48

Gutted for you peapop. x x x xSad

foolserrand · 11/10/2011 15:55

Oh, Peapop... you poor thing. :(

Take care of yourself. I'm so so sorry. :(e

BunMyOven · 11/10/2011 16:41

Oh Peapop, I'm so sorry. Sad Wish there was something helpful to say! Take care and look after yourself.

PiggyMad · 11/10/2011 17:23

Hi ladies,

So sorry to read about your news peapop Sad Thinking of you tomorrow.

Just popping in to wave and say hello - have been away for a few days and had a very stressful weekend upon my return - gah!

Had my 12-week scan - or should I say 14-week scan!!! Baby well and bouncing about! Was rushed back in to hospital today at 14+1 for my Down's Syndrome bloods as the first lot weren't labelled correctly and the lab rejected them and today is the last day they can take them for the results to be valid Angry.
Really panicking about that as the scan showed NT measurement of just over 3mm which is on the high side of normal (here 3.5mm is the cut off for high risk) and I've been fretting about (and googling Blush) potential problems. Absolutely crapped myself when answered the phone to the screening midwife Sad
Anyway, she said she will give me a ring personally to tell me the results by Friday since I've been messed around.
Currently also wearing uncomfortable support stockings whilst waiting for some results back about blood clotting disorders due to family history and have also been told I'm rhesus negative so feeling very grumpy - I do apologise for my ranting!

Not had chance to catch up with everyone but see there are some newbies - hello all! Will do a catch up in the next few days.

Off for flu jab now [sigh]

PiggyMad · 11/10/2011 17:25

Sorry peapop I misread and thought you were going in again tomorrow. I'll be thinking about you over the next week Sad

Carlitawantsababy · 12/10/2011 08:30

peapop I'm so sorry to hear that, I don't know what to say, I hope you and DP take good care of each other, it is unimaginable. Lots of love.

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peapop · 12/10/2011 09:22

Thanks so much for the kind words ladies. Miscarriage happened in early hours of this morning. Gutted and still so very shocked by it all but kind of pleased it happened naturally.
Thank you all for your support, it means a lot to me. I wish all of you the very very best of luck with your pregnancies and I will pop back and check in with you all when I feel a bit stronger.

Kayzr · 12/10/2011 09:48

Peapop I am so so so sorry. Will be thinking of you loads. Sad

trope · 12/10/2011 10:15

peapop - just saw your news - I am so very very sorry - is just awful :( Take good care of yourself and each other and please do pop back to say "Hi" when you feel ready.

Davinaaddict · 12/10/2011 18:08

Peapop, I'm so, so sorry Sad Thinking of you, & hoping you and your family are all taking care of you. It would be lovely for you to pop back when you feel ready.

Wow 2 pages of catching up on. We do talk a lot.

Mamma- I hated having to keep quiet too. It's so hard - Fingers crossed you get an early scan!

trope - that sounds like a lovely weekend! Except for the de-moulding bit, but I love the satisfying feeling you get after doing things like that Smile I'm not a brazen hussy really although I do tell that story a lot because it makes me sound much more exciting than I really am Grin Ooh I'm 33 next week too - Thursday for me! It surprises me every time I read this thread how much people have in common! You're job sounds amazing! Admit to being a teensy bit EnvyGrin Yay for healthy fuzzy! And we are not the oldies - I still feel 17 (sticks tongue out at trope) Grin

Kayzr - your about me doesn't sound bad at all. I love weddings - all my friends are married now so none on the cards for me for a while I think - boo! Grin Just realised that might come across as me hankering for an invite! That wasn't the intention at all but if you need someone to help you put your shoes on, you know where to find me Wink Fantastic of you to give up smoking - I never have smoked, so can't imagine how hard it is. But my DH did and it took him about 5 years to give up properly.

Bun - nice to know that I'm not the only one with a scandalous story Wink Happy belated birthday! Congrats on finishing your patchwork.

Glad you had a lovely weekend Carlita

Fingers crossed babybrain!

Sorry you're having a difficult time too Piggy Hope you manage to get it all sorted out quickly.

Quick update from me as conscious I've already written an essay! Bump has been moving around a lot over the last few weeks and the feelings are getting stronger but thus week it all seems to have got REALLY strong. Feel like I'm being beaten up from the inside Grin But I have noticed that it seems to be reeeeally low down this time (mostly feeling it around my CS scar). Hope baby isn't getting engaged too early Wink. Work - v busy but v good. Just found out today I've been nominated for a talent programme which means I'll have to do a presentation to our CEO - aaargh!!! Home - DH has forgotten about an appointment we've got tonight so is still at work Angry. But he's had a shocking day at work so I can't even have a go at him grrrr! Sorry Smile My life seems to be one extreme to the other at the minute! And.....relax! Hope everyone else is having a more chilled week. Smile

BunMyOven · 12/10/2011 21:35

Hi everyone.

Piggy sorry you're having a crappy time, hope you're feeling a bit better today?

Trope, that's exactly what I thought Poppets was like too, it is all the about the middle-class stuff but at far less offensive prices - some of it is second hand (but all brand new condition) and then the rest is either brand new but at lower prices or just plain expensive! It's great to have a rummage through the gorgeous clothes to find the bargains Smile

How fantastic that fuzzy is doing so well!! Grin

Davina, my bump's packing a punch now too, all up high though, can see my boob wiggle!
Congratulations on your nomination! Sounds scary and exciting Grin

I'm happy and pissed off in equal measures today - happy because our new 3-seater sofa has finally arrived after months of living here with just a two seater sofa (last place was furnished) - it's been a nightmare getting one that will fit in the flat because we live on the 1st floor and there's a really tight corner half way up the stairs.
I'm pissed of because I got a phone call from the physiotherapist offering me a last minute appointment for tomorrow morning (for my PGP) as they'd had a cancellation but I can't get up there with DS on my own (pelvis very bad now) and DP couldn't take me up there because of work Sad Have to phone back tomorrow to beg for something soon

Early night for me tonight, am completely shattered. Not before curling up on the super comfy new sofa with DP and watching The 5th Element whilst tucking into fruit pastels though, of course! Grin

trope · 13/10/2011 12:02

piggy sorry your scan has turned out so stressful, do try and remember that the high side of normal is still normal and with any luck the blood test results will be good and bring your risk levels right down. Will keep my fingers crossed for good news for you!

davina Another October girl - hurrah! My birthday is on Wednesday, so i'm a mere 1 day older than you! How amazing! I can live with being the oldest on the thread by a day I reckon! Wink You got anything fun planned?

RE work - the games industry is great in many ways, but it also sucks in many many other ways! I feel very lucky to be able to do part-time freelance, after a decade of high stress and often long hours it's just lovely to have a work/life balance! I do dream of doing something else (predictably I'd love to write for a living) but it's hard to change career with the economy in it's current state. I am toying with attempting NaNoWriMo this year though in the hope that it will give me a kick up the backside to get writing properly again (I have two sadly neglected blogs as well, really must get back them too!)

Congratulations on your nomination for the talent program! Grin Good luck with the presentation to your CEO!

bun Hurrah for having a new sofa! I think it's the most important piece of furniture in a home - DP and I got a really nice, more expensive than we could really afford corner sofa when we moved into our first rental (back in 2002!) - we still have it now and I absolutely adore it still!

I love the fifth element - great film! Hope you had a lovely evening! :) Fingers crossed for a new physio appt soon!

DP and I are off to see Ed Byrne tonight - it's the Brighton Comedy festival at the moment and we splashed out on some tickets so we have lots of fun comedy gigs to look forward to now! We're also seeing Reginald D Hunter, Jack Whitehall and Dave Gorman - should be a fun few weeks! :) Just hope my bladder can hold out through each set, do not want to get up for the loo and get heckled for it!! Grin

Kayzr · 13/10/2011 15:52

I hate morning sickness. Never had it with the boys so had no idea what to expect. Never thought it would start so early Sad

DS1 has a friend round so it's a mad house with 2 4 year olds and a 2 year old.

BunMyOven · 13/10/2011 20:21

Gosh Trope, writing! Fantastic! What type of stuff do you intend on writing? I love the idea of doing something but I'm nowhere near articulate enough and every time I read over something I've done I always think "this is shite!", so I'll leave well alone Grin

I agree, sofas and mattresses are the two things that we spend as much as we can afford on. We got a new mattress when we moved here and I'm so glad we spent more than DP wanted to, it's helped with my back issues so much (and DP is now a convert to the magical ways of the quality mattress) Smile

I have a physio appointment for Monday morning at a time DP can take me! The receptionist was totally lovely and remembered me by name straight away, I am so relieved to finally be dealing with helpful people. Thanks again for your lovely offer Trope Smile

Ed Byrne, brilliant! Hope you have/are having a fantastic night. DP and I usually make sure we see at least one act every year but money and the fact that I'd anticipated having this crap with my pelvis meant we've had to miss out this year Sad Haven't been to see any of the people you're going to see but love them all!

Kayzr sorry you're suffering with sickness so badly! It's completely miserable Sad Hope thing have quietened down for you on the noisy children front and you've been able to put your feet up.

foolserrand · 13/10/2011 22:11

Evening all, just stopping in to fill you all in on my day. I must warn you, this is the most woeful tale of shit luck you may well ever hear. It does, however, prove 2 things. First, I am not allowed a quiet life. Second, I am possibly the unluckiest person in the world when it comes to cars.

Quick background: I drive a 4x4 and, whilst taking a detour last Friday, got forced to pull right off the road on a single track by a BMW series 1 who was driving like a fucking lunatic. No big deal, thinks I. There's a mud puddle. So pull into it at a mere 15 mph. BANG. That mud puddle is a ditch. No more than half a foot (if that) but enough to jolt the whole car. Don't think much of it. My beast of a car can handle that, right? Wrong. The car starts shaking at 65mph so call the assistance to come out (its only 2 years old) and they tell me I have most likely bent the suspension or some big piece of metal under the car, but they won't touch it as its classed as an rta. I called my mum for a moan and she (bless her) insists I take her car as she is going away and won't need it. That's a big deal because she needs her car day to day as is classed as disabled.

Anyway, I have made it to today with no issues. Dh had a day off work and decided he wanted to see my car. So off we go, in mum's lovely 6 month old Volvo estate, to check out my car. Dh, in all his wisdom, decides kwik fit can probably sort the car. So he drives my car with ds and I following behind. Get to kwik fit and it turns out I've just knocked the tracking and compacted a tonne of mud behind the wheels. Wonderful! My car is fixed. I need the loo before we leave. So lock the Volvo (left bags in it, house keys, car seat, everything.... and off I trot, holding my breath, to the loo. Finish up, flush, pick up the key to my mother's Volvo aaaaand.... drop it down the still flushing toilet. It's gone. I call out the Volvo assistance. They can't get into the car. I call my brother, who lives at home but is in London. He eventually agrees to turn back, if I pay him.[hangry]

I ended up driving for an hour to my parents house, picked up the other key, drove back to the garage, emptied out the Volvo, picked up ds and dh (who had gone to his mum's), got half way home before I remembered the house keys were still in the Volvo, which has stayed at kwik fit with a nail in the tyre. So back to get that and finally home to let the poor dogs out seven hours after leaving. So tired now that I am heading straight to bed.

Anyway, hope that made you all smile. Sorry about the writing, its probably shocking but I'm too tired to care. I promise to catch up with you all tomorrow.

Carlitawantsababy · 14/10/2011 10:16

Oh dear fools what a day! Bet you slept well?! bun glad you have another appointment. Let me know how it goes! I am going to find out where I am on the physio list if my midwife is feeling cooperative on Tuesday! I think the acupuncture has helped already though as the last two evenings have involved pain but no screaming so a definite improvement! Grin
trope I hope you had fun last night?

kayzr sorry you're feeling sick, maybe it's a girl?!
davina how exciting that you are getting lots of movement from the bump! Grin

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Kayzr · 14/10/2011 11:23

Fools that sounded awful!! I hope you're having a relaxing day today.

Trope the comedy festival sounds great. Do you want to swap? It's war weekend here. Loads of very annoying people dressed up like it's 1942. Roll on Monday when it'll be 2011 again.

Carlita I'd love a girl. I feel a bit surrounded by trains and planes [hgrin]

Morning sickness not as bad today. More waves of nausea rather than constant.