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Brewing a March baby!

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Carlitawantsababy · 17/07/2011 06:07

Hello! I've just found out that I'm pregnant and due on the 23rd March! I'm 29 and live in London with my husband, dog and cat. So far at 4 weeks things are going very smoothly! I'm very excited about going to the doctor (even if they don't care) as feel it will make things more real!
If you're expecting in March too please join the thread and share a bit about yourself and how your pregnancy is going!

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feekerry · 01/12/2011 20:02

another LO here who hides or goes all shy when i tell DP to put his hand on or watch my bump, then as soon as he looks away she kicks! weird how they must know.
i'm 25 weeks on monday- 15 to go!!! whoop whoop. have my 25 midwife appt on monday so i'll report as to where the top of uterus should be- as i too have no idea!!

i can also see my bump moving loads from the outside. positively weird. i can almost tell the see the difference now between a limb or a head/bum. very very odd. not sure about everyone else but the weirdest sensation for me is when she turns/rolls. its like my insides are literally tipped upside down. very weird!!!!

xxxx

Wordweaver · 01/12/2011 20:59

The midwife seemed to measure to a little way above my belly button.

Amazing that you can see that much, Feekerry! I see little bits of movement but I can't tell what they are.

I feel quite weird about my growing belly. I mean, obviously I am really glad that all is progressing as it should. But I do have moments of wondering where my old self has gone, in a funny sort of way - my old size I mean, not my old personality. It's just such a huge thing to get used to - your body changing so much. I keep saying to myself that I trust my body, and I do. It's amazing what it's doing! But it does make me feel quite odd sometimes.

DH is brilliant - keeps telling me how amazingly beautiful I look. I always appreciate this - especially when I look at myself and really don't see the same thing!

Another thing I have found is that I feel very private about my pregnancy. I think my character is naturally fairly secretive private and it is a bit unnerving to suddenly have strangers entering into intimate conversations about their experiences, and expecting me to share every detail. There's definitely a part of me that would rather not have told anyone, including doctors and midwives.

It's not shyness - I am definitely not introverted! - but in the past, whenever I have done something new, I have kept it to myself until I felt comfortable enough with it to share with others. For example, I told no one when my driving test was, and only let on after I passed. But you can't do that with a baby. The bump is such a giveaway :)

It does help to post on here - I do want to start feeling more at ease with chatting to others about these things, because I want to make sure that the baby has every chance of interacting with others if that's what he/she enjoys.

Don't know if this makes any sense . . . do feel free to ignore me burbling away in the corner here. Just having a bit of a stream of consciousness. Pass the (non-alcoholic) wine . . .

Wordweaver · 01/12/2011 21:08

Should add - when I talked about strangers I meant people I meet in real life - not mnetters. It feels different on here somehow.

feekerry · 01/12/2011 21:53

wordweaver totally get what you mean. esp about changing body. up until about 3 weeks ago i never thought twice about my changing body, never really entered my mind really. but, recently, i've become more aware of it. its hard not to be now! everything is starting to look so stretched and vainy! personally, i dont think it looks that attractive. . . . silly thing to say but thats how i feel!
i see what you mean re keeping things to yourself. some people are so nosy. at the end of the day you should only divulge what you feel comfortable with, its your body, your baby, you call the shots!! to be honest you dont even have to tell anyone when you go into labour apart from your DH and midwife/hospital....dont feel guilty at keeping things to yourselves, there is precious little we can keep to ourselves these days so this is your and your bubs time- you keep what you like!!!!
xx

KikiRC · 01/12/2011 23:18

I completely understand the being-a-bit-private thing, Wordweaver- there are still quite a few people I haven't got round to telling yet. I can still just about disguise my bump if I'm wearing a big coat etc, and I do quite enjoy having the choice whether to show it off or cover it up- I think it will feel quite strange when it's too big for that. The funniest thing someone asked me out of the blue was: "Are your nipples twitching?" !! She burst into giggles afterwards (as did I) but it is strange talking about your body in almost the abstract in front of all kinds of people.

I can feel my uterus quite clearly, Carlita, it's like a big ball in my tummy! And can feel the difference between a big bit of baby- i.e. head and a small pokey foot when it's towards the front. It feels so nice.

I find eating or drinking something hot or cold almost always gets the baby moving about, so if DH wants to feel my tummy I tend to have a cuppa or an ice cold drink. Also, I was at a friend's house last night and her one year old's high-pitched squeaks seemed to set it off several times, so I think it really is beginning to respond to certain sounds, which I haven't noticed before.

It's all becoming a bit real, isn't it?!

Carlitawantsababy · 02/12/2011 15:22

kiki my entire belly is rock solid. Maybe it's all uterus Grin

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KikiRC · 03/12/2011 08:53

Was at some friends for dinner last night, and sat on the sofa it was the first time that people have actually noticed the bump jiggling about underneath a few layers of clothing...

Has anyone else started saying 'we' instead of 'me' when talking about themselves & the bump? I noticed I've been doing it..

Carlitawantsababy · 03/12/2011 09:01

Wow, sounds like we have quite different bumps kiki, I haven't seen mine move yet so others certainly wouldn't and under clothes?! Maybe you have an athlete in there! Very cute saying 'we'! Grin

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broodylicious · 03/12/2011 14:45

Word - that's exactly my approach with needles (not to look)!! For some women, the anti d can make them a little unwell so the hospital will ask you to stay for half an hour afterwards to be sure you're ok. Some trusts even give you tea and biscuits! My DH is coming to make sure I'm ok as I've been a bit poorly with sickness so I wouldn't be surprised if the jab makes me ill!
We've just been to kiddicare - goodness, it's mind blowing!!

Carlitawantsababy · 03/12/2011 17:02

What did you buy broody? Grin

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broodylicious · 03/12/2011 19:10

We only got a baby swing carlita, we were so restrained! We went to check out the travel systems really as my folks are buying them for us so we wanted to start looking now, with a view to buying in January (hopefully sales). We are thinking of getting the Quinny travel system but our brains were fried a bit too much to make any decision! Blush
The swing is brill though - it's a graco sweetpeace and swings from side to side rather than like a bouncer type that goes up and down. It's got a toy bar, a sun canopy, two different musical tunes, a heart beat sound, iPod setting, two vibration settings and two speed settings!! I love it!! Only 16 weeks til baby arrives and we can see it in action for real Smile

Carlitawantsababy · 03/12/2011 21:41

Wow! Sounds high tech! Grin wow, that's kind of scary when you say only 16 weeks...it's going to go really quick isn't it? Shock

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Carlitawantsababy · 06/12/2011 08:06

Sad we lost the house. We were supposed to exchange tomorrow but a cash buyer turned up a few days ago, we've been in a bidding war and he's won, he's gone so high we now can't match him, even if we spent the entire renovation budget. Sad house hunting on Saturday then!

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knitterati · 06/12/2011 10:50

Oh really sorry to hear that Carlita. Try to remember that these things normally happen for a reason - you never know - you might see your ultimate dream home at the weekend. Smile

Carlitawantsababy · 06/12/2011 11:12

Thanks knitterati Smile

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broodylicious · 06/12/2011 11:49

Oh no Sad that is pants! So sorry to hear that carlita. Sending hugs xxx

KikiRC · 06/12/2011 12:27

Oh no, Carlita- I meant to ask how it was all going with the house. I lost three before I bought mine, and one of those was the day before exchange (the woman I was buying from was moving in with her long-term partner & they suddenly split up). Drove me nearly around the bend. But (and I know it's always really annoying when people say this) the fourth one was by far the best- and in hindsight I'm really glad I got this one. I know how you must be feeling though, and especially with the baby coming so soon. Have you somewhere to stay in London now you've sold your place? Hope you find somewhere perfect on Saturday. X

Carlitawantsababy · 06/12/2011 12:36

Thanks broody and kiki. Sounds like you has quite a run of it kiki! It's a bugger the day before exchange isn't it. We always knew it was a risk though, must be even harder with a 'normal' sale. the house was on St Thomas' road by the way. Oh well, onwards and upwards, we've booked to see 4 on saturday, a couple of which are very close to the one we just lost (we love that area) and will give us plenty of opportunity to egg the windows and post dog poo through the letterbox of the man who gazumped us maybe one of those will be for us!

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Carlitawantsababy · 06/12/2011 12:38

Oh and we don't plan on moving until we have somewhere to move too, hopefully our buyers will wait - they are first time buyers who live with their parents at present. If the one we really have our eye on works out on Saturday it could be just a 4 week ish delay as it is chain free and we have mortgage etc. sorted...

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KikiRC · 06/12/2011 15:34

You'll get there in the end Carlita try to breathe deeply through it all. It's freezing in Hastings at the mo- wear something warm! X

feekerry · 06/12/2011 19:33

:(:(:( carlita what a bummer. keep smiling though something will come along.x

kiki another one here with random alien bump. i was sitting in the staff room today eating lunch and everyone could see my bump moving. the bath is a whole other level of weird bump shapes!!x

had my 25 week appt yesterday. nothing of interest really. they measured my bump and all seems well and she had a feel from the outside and said she was head down this time, which explains why i feel like i have a melon in between my legs!!!! hope everyone's 25 week check ups go well.

whos packed or thinking of packing there hospital bag then? or is it a bit early?x

KikiRC · 06/12/2011 20:14

My next appointment is at 28 weeks, feekerry, nothing at 25 weeks- not sure if that's the normal time around here, or just because I'm seeing the MW roughly every 6 weeks (to monitor existing medical stuff, they just want to keep an eye on my blood pressure etc).

God, I haven't even thought about packing a hospital bag. I'm still trying to finish off a load of small bits of freelance work before Christmas & then concentrate on getting the house in some kind of order... it's in a state of semi-decoration.

Feeling a bit uncomfortable, too- and very tired this week. The baby's kicking is over a wider area now- from hip to hip, and a lot at night, which keeps me awake. Also getting a bit sore around lower back & hips- how's your PGP, Carlita? I don't know if my aches & pains are just general ones, or if it's something I should get looked into. I think I'll leave it 'til next week, and see how it goes. X

broodylicious · 06/12/2011 21:03

I've got my 25 week appt on Friday. Hopefully I'll finally get to meet my own MW as she's always been on holiday whenever I've been before so seen two different MW so far!

I have thought about my hospital bag...but, the same as everything to do with this baby, I'm still a bit overwhelmed by it all and am almost thinking that one day soon I'll wake up and realise it's all a dream. We've hardly bought a thing - just a few clothes and our graco sweetpeace swing - because I'm so nervy of anything going pear shaped. Anyone else feel the same or are you all buying stuff like no tomorrow?!

Baby is very active these days, both sides like you say, and he/she pretty much always kicks when I put my hand on my tummy! Still shy for daddy though Sad even tried coaxing it by having a bath the other day (I'm a complete shower fan, can't be doing with lying in the bath!!)

KikiRC · 06/12/2011 21:36

I just have a few baby clothes, broody and someone is going to lend me a crib, nothing else is organised at all. I think I'll be looking about during the sales, once Christmas has been and gone, and I've a few offers from family friends to look through various bits & bobs they have in their attics etc. I'm not planning on make up a nursery or anything anyway until the baby is about 6 months old or so anyway.

The pram/ travel system is the hardest thing for me because there are so many, and they're all slightly different & so expensive. I need something very narrow & lightweight to suit my wonky old Georgian warehouse conversion of a house. I think I'll go to a big store after Christmas and test some out & then try to find one secondhand.

Good luck to you all for your 25 week checks, then. X

feekerry · 06/12/2011 21:45

broody so far we have half decorated the nursery and thats about it. I have bought some clothes but it will be spring when our bubs are here so no point in buying too many clothes now as there all winter based. Um, bought few packs of nappies if i've seen them on special offer somewhere and my friend has given me her breast pump and steriliser but i'm too frightened to even look at the breast pump so its still in the box. Lol! I'm off to mother care this weekend to get demo's on the travel systems etc. Fun, i'm sure. X

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