Gareth and Matthews thread for bereaved Mummies - the special thread where the light bulb at the end of the tunnel is always lit xx

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So pleased that we are all here helping each other walk the 'crappy' path xxxx

I am off to pick up my god daughter . she is coming to play for the afternoon .

I will be back

Don't worry Shabs , just make another list in a day or two when everyone has seen it xx

Will do -

Shabs sweetheart - you haven't got FMN on there?

will message her on fbook and get the dates for her DD

Dee , how you doing ? How is the sickly spud this morning ?

I'm ok. Just worn out, yunno?

Spu is tons better, and will probably be going back to school tomorrow!

I know , I have noticed there is another ranting thread going on at the min , the only thing that really bothers me about all this is that if someone was coming on here at the min for support they would run a mile .

Glad the little man is feeling better and I really really hope you manage to get some sleep , you must be knackered x

Is that the one on site stuff?

it is indeed

It's just so sad. I can't imagine anything worse then being asked to prove my babys death to anyone

I agree with you Dee - I cant be doing with it all anymore. The other thread they pulled was praising me and thee - I almost spewed all over our Lewis' head when I read it!

It is awful , I know that on TCF you do have to give all details to them and they check (no idea how the hell they know who you are tbh) and I know when we were all asked to do that it was horrible but it did make everyone feel safer . Someone had come on and made up some awful lies and it was very extreme .

But the fact remains that if you now want to post on tcf you have to wait to be verified which is awful , I know that when I eventually plucked up the courage to post on there I would have never had the time and energy to fill out forms and wait for days before being allowed on .

Are you still in touch with her Dee ? Shabs ? If so please send my love x

I am indeed TW - and i will do.

Whats TCF, btw?

The Compassionate Friends , it is a support group for bereaved parents , it was a life saver to me a few yrs ago .

Me too TW - thats where I met my lovely friend Triplets xxx

It's where I first came into contact with chegirl too x

In fact this is the third site we have come across each other , fate or am I just a mad stalker

Shabs - what date do you need putting on?

Post the details and I'll do it for you xxx

I'm saying nowt

Billies remember day 27th April,2006 (Chegirl)

and I need Harrys b/day and r/day changing to 2000.

No his remember day is 2001 just birthday is 2000 .

Thank you x

Yeah you gotta watch that TW

Shabs, thanks for putting my girly on the list again. x

Sorry this stuff is still going on and upsetting such nice people.

You can get through it, you have been through worse ((((all))))

Oh TW Im so sorry Im making a right pigs ear of all this.