Gareth and Matthews thread for bereaved Mummies - the special thread where the light bulb at the end of the tunnel is always lit xx

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So pleased that we are all here helping each other walk the 'crappy' path xxxx

Deemented you are sooo norty!!!!

I inadvertantly (sp) outed myself on another thread and Dee is not the only beaky one to have noticed!

I decided to try for another baby before my eggs dried up. I didnt realise just how errmm quickly it would happen.

I am now 10 weeks pg with number 5.

I suspect twin boys

Congratulations Che

That is lovely news .

Well spotted Dee

Congratualtions Che!

Or even congratulations!

Urgh .. must learn to type/spell

Hello all , I am feeling really shitty today .
I can't get motivated to do anything and I know it is the build up to Harrys birthday on the 7th . I know it will be a wee bit better afterwards but then we have the build up to his remember day on 2nd dec and stupid christmas which I do try and get into but I still struggle with it .

Nothing I can do except ride it out but just wanted to have a moan really .

I should have a nearly 9 yr old boy running around asking for a party and worrying about what presents he is going to get but instead I am sitting here feeling miserable .

The build up is awful isn't it. There's nowt you can do about it either is there? It's even sub-consciously there. I almost want the 7th to hurry up and come and go for you {{{hugs}}}

Come and have a moan anytime xxx

Many. many congratulations Che What lovely news, and twin boys as well! You've put a big smile on my face. There seems to have been a baby boom on here recently

Glad went well for you WoolyJo. Your job sounds interesting, what do you do?

FM - are you looking after yourself? The virus on top of virus thing is horrendous, my sympathies. I hope Ross is feeling much better and that your heart rate has returned to normal.

Shabs - how are you feeling love?

Thanks Ilike , especially for the calorie free cake

I just can't shake it today , I really need to sort stuff out here and just cba .

Must try harder . We have got a new mattress coming tomorrow and I really need to sort out our room before hand . Hopefully I will perk up later .

aaawww congratulations chegirl .. I hope you didnt think you needed to hide it on here

tw there is nothing I can say that will make the next few weeks better.. but we are here to listen

TW- I virtually gift you calorie-laden cake, lots of it. You deserve the fattening chocolate comfort variety x I can't say anything helpful, I haven't been there yet just eat cake and be nice to yourself

chegirl congratulations!!!!!!!!!! xxx

everyone else, as my great granny used to say 'keep your hand on your halfpenny'

nice [nausea face!] x

Evening...congrats Che xxxx

congratulations chegirlxx hope everyone ok ,just got back and no work till saturday so im proper chilling ,had my teeth sorted so busy week.
had granddaughters yesterday and olest one told me grandma dont worry now that your fifty ,doesnt mean you are going to die,some people live to be sixty,what a classic and boy am i glad im only 44.
boy they cheer me upxxxx

Good morning all xxx

How is everyone this morning ? I am still feeling like I need a bloody good cry but it is just not happening . No time for wallowing today either so onward and upward .

I hope you are feeling better Shabs x

Thanks for the cake crumpette and fm you are right , nothing anyone can say but it is good to hear I can waffle and be heard xx

Morning girls.

I have to be better today TW - marital crap - H is only happy when its him who is ill - was moaning all day yesterday that the house is a tip.

If he's so bloody concerned about it Shabs, tell him to sodding clean it himself. Am for you.

TW - Thinking of you sweetheart, i know i can't take the pain away, but i'm here, walking with you. We all are.

Cant be doing with a row if you know what I mean Dee. I will get even - dont you worry!

Oh Dear Shabs , you deserve to be looked after ((()))

We could always come up and sort him out for you

Thanks Dee xx

shabs I vote we lock your dh and my dh in the same house till one of them caves in and realises that in fact the fairies dont do the housework and the washing

Right am off to the garage take 2.. There is something leaking so I took it to local garage yesterday. Mechanic wasnt it.. left it and got bus home. They called me and they said I needed a new shock absorber £120 .. phoned kwik fit £75 .. local garage cant match it. Kwik fit say bring it in just now . we will do it while you wait .. cool

gets bus back to original garage.. drive to kwik fit. They dont have the part . They can get it in half an hour, wander around get a coffee- go back they cant the part till today.. but not sure when

so another bus trip looms today...

oh well at least Ross likes public transport

Muddle I am sure you have been here before - if you are lurking please step away from the smug it wont happen to us thread

and come tell us your worries re fetal movement etc..

hope you are ok

shabs hope your feeling better,and im sure y houll get even with dhx ha ha.

Che CONGRATULATIONS, had spotted you somewhere else but thought you would come out when the time was right.

Hello all.

For any of you ladies following Dizzymares progress through her twin pregnancy - she is back in the hospital on a drip due to de-hydration. Hopes to be home tomorrow.

che congratulations - what wonderful news.

TW - sorry you're feeling rubbish. Christmas will be tough for everyone I guess .

The bug that everyone (Shabs - hope you are better) seems to be getting is well travelled as I woke up this morning feeling dreadful.

We're having a BBQ today which was supposed to be a sort of thank you to a few of our friends (two couples) who have been so supportive since we lost Felix (and TBH an excuse to get a bit drunk !) Only DH has gone and invited some guy he works with and his girlfriend neither of whom I've met. Grrrr. I just wanted to have a few too many glasses of wine and probbaly get a bit teary and now I'm stressed out about entertaining!

Good morning all

Shabs I hope you are feeling better this morning

fm, I hope you have managed to get your car fixed

Still feeling like shite here , just can't get out of this funk , not sure I want to either which is more of a worry . I need to have a good cry but I am holding off . Stupid as I know I feelk better if I do have a cry .
No helping some people

I hope everyone is feeling ok this morning xxx

Hi girls,

I hope you are all muddling through ok.

Had an awful night, I though I was doing ok, having days when things were nearly normal again, work was ok etc then bang, hours of uncontrollable sobbing DH feeling awful 'cause he doesn't know what to do, me not being able to stop ... when will this hell be over?