Gareth and Matthews thread for bereaved Mummies - the special thread where the light bulb at the end of the tunnel is always lit xx

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So pleased that we are all here helping each other walk the 'crappy' path xxxx

Showoff!!!! Finally got back on just now - only took 6 hours

Good morning all xx

I hope everyone is doing ok , not much going on here at the Wilbury house today . I might manage some housework but that is it I reckon .

Good morning girls xx

hello I have added DD to the list, I hope that is OK. It suddenly struck me reading it that I will be the only person who will remember her birthday etc, ever.
DP said he doesn't even know when she was born, so it's kind of nice I can put it somewhere. I've put it in date order hope that's right, it's far too early in the morning am at my desk drinking as much coffee as possible to wake up!

Lucie's Birthday 28 February 08
Benjamin's Birthday and Remember day 3 April 07
Lucie's Remember day 12 April 09
Frasers remember day 13 April Frasers b/day 15 April 05
Niamh's Birthday 30 June 09
Callum's Remember Day 13 July
Niamh's Burial 23 July 09
Caitlin's Birthday 29 July 08
Cole's Birthday 30 July
Caitlin's Remember Day 03 Aug 08
Callum's Funeral 08 Aug
Ciaran's Birthday and Remember Day 09 Sept
Ciaran's Burial 01 Oct
Harry's Birthday 07 Oct
Cole's Remember Day 07 Nov
Harry's Remember Day 02 Dec 01
Jack's Birthday 22 Dec 94

Lucie's Birthday 28 February 08
Benjamin's Birthday and Remember day 3 April 07
Lucie's Remember day 12 April 09
Frasers remember day 13 April Frasers b/day 15 April 05
Niamh's Birthday 30 June 09
Callum's Remember Day 13 July
Niamh's Burial 23 July 09
Caitlin's Birthday 29 July 08
Cole's Birthday 30 July
Caitlin's Remember Day 03 Aug 08
Felix's Birthday and Remember day 05 August 09
Callum's Funeral 08 Aug
Ciaran's Birthday and Remember Day 09 Sept
Ciaran's Burial 01 Oct
Harry's Birthday 07 Oct
Cole's Remember Day 07 Nov
Harry's Remember Day 02 Dec 01
Jack's Birthday 22 Dec 94

...scuttles off for more coffee..... x

oh its really sad to see that our list covers almost every month of the year.

eh shabster for someone who said they like organising other folk- how about organising yourself and adding Gareths and Matthews dates???

embarrsed i dont know how to cut and paste

hazy if you highlight it by clicking at the start and dragging your mouse down it and then letting go, and press ctrl + c to cut and then ctrl + v to paste that should work.
Alternatively just type dates and we'll add to list for you x

Hello all

I've added my darling Christina's name to this list.

Lucie's Birthday 28 February 08
Benjamin's Birthday and Remember day 3 April 07
Lucie's Remember day 12 April 09
Fraser's remember day 13 April
Fraser's b/day 15 April 05
Christina's birthday 24 May 93
Christina's Remember Day 25 June 93
Niamh's Birthday 30 June 09
Callum's Remember Day 13 July
Niamh's Burial 23 July 09
Caitlin's Birthday 29 July 08
Cole's Birthday 30 July
Caitlin's Remember Day 03 Aug 08
Felix's Birthday and Remember day 05 August 09
Callum's Funeral 08 Aug
Ciaran's Birthday and Remember Day 09 Sept
Ciaran's Burial 01 Oct
Harry's Birthday 07 Oct
Cole's Remember Day 07 Nov
Harry's Remember Day 02 Dec 01
Jack's Birthday 22 Dec 94

PS Thanks crumpette for the handy hints on how to do this...

FMammy you know me tooooooo well!!!

Daniel and Gareth birth date 28.12.81
Gareths remember day 21.07.82

Matthew birth date 30.06.84
Matthews remember day 10.04.92

I think those dates are right - I am a pisched as a pisched person....will come back and have another look tomorrow!! I just know that it is a lifetime since I last saw my lads xx

hi jayden was born on 18th september 2006,and he went to sleep 1st december 2006,please will you addxxx

Lucie's Birthday 28 February 08
Benjamin's Birthday and Remember day 3 April 07
Matthew's Remember day 10 April 92
Lucie's Remember day 12 April 09
Fraser's remember day 13 April
Fraser's b/day 15 April 05
Christina's birthday 24 May 93
Christina's Remember Day 25 June 93
Niamh's Birthday 30 June 09
Matthew's Birthday 30 June 84
Callum's Remember Day 13 July
Gareth's Remember Day 21 July 82
Niamh's Burial 23 July 09
Caitlin's Birthday 29 July 08
Cole's Birthday 30 July
Caitlin's Remember Day 03 Aug 08
Felix's Birthday and Remember day 05 August 09
Callum's Funeral 08 Aug
Ciaran's Birthday and Remember Day 09 Sept
Jayden's Birthday 18 September 06
Ciaran's Burial 01 Oct
Harry's Birthday 07 Oct
Cole's Remember Day 07 Nov
Jayden's Remember Day 01 Dec 06
Harry's Remember Day 02 Dec 01
Jack's Birthday 22 Dec 94
Gareth's Birthday 28 Dec 81

hope that's right

shabs! sober up and check !

Argh am properly moving house today- half moved last weekend (but didn't take 'stuff' just did painting) so am now horrified by prospect of man and van arriving at 9am and I HAVE NOT PACKED A THING!!! Aaaaargh! DP slobbed out on sofa watching sky news refusing to assist! wish me luck

Morning girls.

Got our Matts remember day wrong probably cause I dont want to remember it - 10th May, 1992.

Happy moving Crump...hope it goes well xx

I hope all went well today Crumpette and I hope your dp got his arse in gear and helped you.

Nothing interesting to report here

Morning girls xx

Going back to work tomorrow .. deep breath..

Good luck sweetheart - Im sure you will be fine...will be thinking about you xx

oh woolyjo.. its a big step

I work on a helpdesk and the day I went back they didnt want me to take calls..I couldnt do sitting about so by lunchtime I logged in and took calls

I didnt know if I would end up saying "you think your broken pc is a tragedy.. let me tell you about a real tragedy"

but in a way it was actually a relief to think about something else for a few hours

I hope it goes well.. I wil be thinking of you

oh woolyjo.. its a big step

I work on a helpdesk and the day I went back they didnt want me to take calls..I couldnt do sitting about so by lunchtime I logged in and took calls

I didnt know if I would end up saying "you think your broken pc is a tragedy.. let me tell you about a real tragedy"

but in a way it was actually a relief to think about something else for a few hours

I hope it goes well.. I wil be thinking of you

oh woolyjo.. its a big step

I work on a helpdesk and the day I went back they didnt want me to take calls..I couldnt do sitting about so by lunchtime I logged in and took calls

I didnt know if I would end up saying "you think your broken pc is a tragedy.. let me tell you about a real tragedy"

but in a way it was actually a relief to think about something else for a few hours

I hope it goes well.. I wil be thinking of you

Billie seems to have disappeared off the list .

Travelling I think I know the thing you are referring to. If its the same thing it caused utter havoc and pretty much spoiled a great site.

Hello all. x

Good luck tommorow woolyjo it took me 3 years to get back to work.

Crumpette hope the move goes well - are you going far?

Dont worry Che - Im going to start from the beginning of the thread and write them all down and then put them on here. If I dont find Billies name I will give you a shout. Will do my very best to not leave any of our precious children out. xxxx Just left a message for you on the names thread xxxx