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Highly Emotive subject but I would appreciate the views of others

235 replies

Tiamummy · 16/10/2008 15:33

We are at stalemate on the subject of wakes. So i would appreciate the views of others on this. It's taken all day for me to pluck up the courage to ask

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idontbelieveit · 21/10/2008 21:01

just wanted to say i'll be thinking of you tomorrow Tiamummy. Wishing you strength to get through tomorrow. She'll always be with you.
So sorry.

ilovemydog · 21/10/2008 21:04

can someone start a candle for Tia thread? Perhaps places where candles will be lit at 11:30, which is the time of her funeral

mamadiva · 21/10/2008 21:19

I hope no one minds but I have started a 'candle light' thread for baby Tia and her family as requested by the poster above just thought it was a nice idea.

You are akll in my thoughts tonight.

lauraloola · 21/10/2008 21:22

You beat me to it but I just didnt know what to put. I think you did a great job Mamadiva x

Thinking of you Tiasmummy x

Ruthie71 · 21/10/2008 21:41

Be brave x

ilovemydog · 21/10/2008 21:53

could someone please link the support thread for Tia's mom to this one?

Rubyrubyruby · 21/10/2008 21:57

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ilovemydog · 21/10/2008 22:10

Thanks Ruby. There is a Candle Thread for Tia that mamadiva started. I don't know how to link it as Tia's Mummy won't know where to look....

charleymouse · 22/10/2008 10:51

Lighting a candle for Tia

shabster · 22/10/2008 15:35

Ridiculous question I know but just wondering how you are? Dont expect you to reply just wanted you to know everyone is thinking about you xx

lauraloola · 22/10/2008 18:07

Thinking of you Tiasmummy x

whispywhisp · 22/10/2008 18:07

Same here...wondering how you are tiamummy? Sending you lots of love. xxxx

Tiamummy · 22/10/2008 18:53

A quick message of thanks, i'm moved beyond words

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umberellascankill · 22/10/2008 18:57

lots and lots of love to you Tiamummy, well done for getting through today xxxxxxxxx

andiem · 22/10/2008 18:58

tiasmummy was thinking of you today

whispywhisp · 22/10/2008 19:00

Thought about you so much today tiamummy, as has everyone else on this thread I'm sure. Hope you have a peaceful evening. xxx

cikecaka · 22/10/2008 20:01

Tiamummy you and tia were in my thoughts today.

luckywinner · 22/10/2008 20:06

Thought a lot about you today.

mamadiva · 22/10/2008 20:13

Oh tiamummy just seen that you came on for a minute.

Couldnt stop thinking of you and your family today, I hope you are somehow getting through it.

xxx

shabster · 22/10/2008 20:17

So glad you posted. I have only just blown out my candles. Take care sweetheart.

VaginaShmergina · 22/10/2008 20:20

Tiamummy, I have no idea of what you are feeling but wanted you to know that you are very much in my thoughts and encourage you to visit the Bereaved Mummys thread. A bunch of wonderful women who will embrace you so you feel as if theri arms are around you, holding you tight and keeping you safe.

I have lost too many people close to me, just too many, but the loss of your beautiful little girl has made my heart heavy and the tears fall.

Many of us will be walking with you tomorrow. I am lighting my candle in my lounge window for all to see as they go by, here in chilly Hampshire.

lauraloola · 22/10/2008 21:43

Hope you are all ok after your day, Im sure Tia looked lovely in her dress xxx

Lilyloo · 22/10/2008 22:28

Have seen your post much love to you all!

whispywhisp · 23/10/2008 10:43

Thinking of you tiamummy...do hope you are ok. xxxx

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