For Bereaved Mummies. Remembering Jack and our other precious little ones... the sharing of hurt is the beginnning of healing.

[lottiejenkins]

Third time lucky........ Thanks to Shabs and FMN. I hope i can carry the baton as well as you did. I havent made a good start though. Things can only get better.........

Evening all... have just been out to see a band....... what a hectic social life i lead!! Hope we are all ok xxxxxxxxx

Morning girls - everybody ok?

Morning Shabs........morning all............ xxxxxxx Shock horror it isnt raining!

Hi everyone, first of all a big thankyou to Shabster for pointing me in this direction.

I lost my ds 7 years ago now, it was his 7th birthday last friday, he was my first child.
I have two other children my dd who is 5 and my ds who is 3.

Seven years on and when it comes to my ds's birthday i still find it very hard and upsetting, mostly because as the years go on my family seem to forget my ds, including my dp. I went alone to the cemetary to visit him for his birthday and i felt so sad that i was the only one who remembered it was his birthday.

Hi and welcome OM....... i still get upset when i go to my sons grave and hed be nearly 14 now. Im sure you will soon find people on here like me who you can relate too,,,,,,,,,,,hugs for you xxxxxxxx(and kisses)

So glad you came Orange - also so sorry we have to meet this way.....hope we can all help you xxxxx

Hi everyone, hi orangemoon. I think I saw a thread you'd started about this. I sooo wanted to post but for some reason no words would come at the time. I have yet to experience the pain of people forgetting as I am still pretty new to this game. But I felt it so important from the word go for people to remember - I recall at Eris' funeral saying to people as they left "don't forget her, please don't forget about her!"

Do you want to talk about your ds to us? Tell us his name and why he isn't wih you?

Lottie, glad you enjoyed the play!

Guess what.... Wilf and I are off to Eurodsiney for Christmas! I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo excited, i think im going to be worse than he is!! My Mum has paid as she paid for the other three to go. We are actually going to be there on Christmas Day!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow Lottie! That will be fantastic! Lucky, lucky you and Wilf!

evening girlsx

Oh Lottie how very, very lovely!! What a special Christmas Day you and Wilf are going to have...

Hi Everyone.

Lottie - you will have such an amazing time! DD just loved it when we went.

Orangemoon - welcome, its really nice to meet you on here. I'm sorry for your loss. You'll find everyone really loving, considerate and supportive. Its been such a comfort to me since my ds died earlier this year. x

Good morning girls xx

Morning xxxxxxxx

morning girls its raining her today againx

Morning all,
welcome OM, don't take it to heart OM, my DH doesn't visit, yet I feel the need to, albeit not that often. Sorry about your little boy.

Shabs Lewis is coming on so nicely he is a handsome little fella.

FMN so pleased the scan went well.

Lottie you will have a great time at disney,

Hello everyone else.

Just a quickie to say I had another scan today for them to check the heart, which looked nice and normal.

Also, asked the sonographer to double check the sex and she said girl too, so I suppose I need to get used to the idea of another girl. I very much doubt they'd have both got it wrong would they?

How's everyone else? All well I hope.....

fmn.......... am SO glad everything looked ok today,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

fmn im so pleased scan went okx

FMN - so pleased for you. Couldn't keep my fingers crossed any longer

All will be well sweetheart....all will be well xxx

Hi Girls,

FMN - So pleased it went well. Must be such a relief. Hope you'll be able to relax a bit now. xxx

Morning everyone xx

Morning all

I did come and say hello to everyone before but I then went off and didn't come back (sorry ) I have been having a crappy few days , it should have been Harrys 8th birthday yesterday and my own mother didn't even pick up the phone to me

A couple of people were lovely and I knew that as time went on less and less people would make an effort but I didn't think my own mum would be one of them .

Anyway onwards and upwards I hope you are all doing ok at the moment and I will be back xx

Hi TW welcome back..... am sorry your Mum didnt ring hope you stay with us....... im sure others will be along to chat soon xxxxxx

Morning everybody xxx

TWilbury - so very sorry that your mum didn't contact you. Stay around love we will all try and help. xx