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My DH has died in a car crash today.

437 replies

Iwant2move · 01/12/2017 00:23

Is anyone up?

I can’t sleep.

My husband was killed in a car crash today.

We’d just moved house and he was so happy.

OP posts:
sandytowel · 01/12/2017 00:59

I'm so sorry for your loss Thanks

Italiangreyhound · 01/12/2017 01:00

I'm so very sorry.

Thanks
LifeLaundry · 01/12/2017 01:01

I’m so so sorry.

In regards to the t-shirt, if that is what he woukd have liked, then its definitely right. I would do the same if I were you.

Monkeypuzzle32 · 01/12/2017 01:01

So sorry to hear this, let people help you and do what you have to do to survive the next hour, day and weeks etc

mumof06darlings · 01/12/2017 01:02

I am so sorry for what you are going through 💐

Hopefullywaiting · 01/12/2017 01:03

I am so so sorry for you im here and awake as had upsetting news and came on here . i really am so sorry
Xxxx FlowersFlowersFlowers

ohtheholidays · 01/12/2017 01:05

I'm so sorry want it's so unfair on you all,I hope you all have all of the love and support you need around you,I can't begin to imagine what your all going through but you will all be in my thoughts x

sheldonesque · 01/12/2017 01:07

I am so very, very sorry for your loss Flowers

Don't hold in your emotions in front of your lad. It won't make the grief any more painful for him than it already is. It may help you both. And take your friend up on her offer. You need those who love you round you.

And the t-shirt sounds just fine. x

MollyHuaCha · 01/12/2017 01:07

What a terrible shock. I'm so sad for you. ThanksThanksThanks Was anyone else involved in the car accident?

CMH123 · 01/12/2017 01:08

Move, I'm so very sorry.

I am in the Midlands. If you are anywhere local and need a chat and a hug in real life, I'm ready and waiting.

All my love xx

ElizaDontlittle · 01/12/2017 01:09

I'm so sorry OP - what a terrible shock for you all. I hope you can break down somewhere away from your children - it's a completely normal way to feel. I think the t shirt is a lovely idea. I hope you can get even a couple of hours' sleep tonight.

Carriecakes80 · 01/12/2017 01:11

Oh my word....I don't know what to say. I am so so sorry. Just sending you so much love. xxx I cannot imagine what you are all going through right now :-(

Itsonkyme · 01/12/2017 01:11

Hi, Has your friend come round yet? If not I'm here if you want to talk!
If she's there and your ok, I'll go! I'll wait ten mins.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 01/12/2017 01:12

I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children at this heartbreaking time.
(((((((((((((((((()))))))))))))))) Flowers
Sleep peacefully, Moves dh.xx

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 01/12/2017 01:14

Don't be afraid to break down crying.
Its all part of the grieving process.

twinone · 01/12/2017 01:17

So sorry Flowers

thesunwillout · 01/12/2017 01:22

Hi I'm awake, you poor love I am so so sorry, thinking of you and your children x

Iwant2move · 01/12/2017 01:22

You are all so lovely.
I have been on the phone to another friend. He lives in California. The love and support is pouring in. We even managed to laugh about the heavy metal tshrt. My California friend lost both his parents in a car crash when he was the same age as my middle son. He has been a great help and has promised to phone again tomorrow. He understands more than anyone else I know, what my children are going through.

OP posts:
Itsonkyme · 01/12/2017 01:26

I really can't imagine how you're feeling right now. I know that you'll be devastated. I'm so sorry, For you and for your children!

Adarajames · 01/12/2017 01:29

How utterly heartbreaking for you all, sending you warm thoughts x

Chimchar · 01/12/2017 01:30

I'm so very, very sorry to read your sad news. I can't begin to imagine how broken your heart is. Sad

I'm thinking of you and your family. X

Maverick66 · 01/12/2017 01:33

ThanksThanksThanksThanks and thoughts and prayers.

Ella99 · 01/12/2017 01:37

I'm so sorry for your loss 😢 sending love and prayers your way Thanks x

Rainbowqueeen · 01/12/2017 01:46

How sad for you all Flowers

The Heavey metal tshirt sounds perfect, what a lovely tribute.

Handholding here for you, I'm so sorry

iogo · 01/12/2017 01:50

I'm so sorry. xx

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