everlong yes that's a good idea :) I just panicked when he started taking photos of it. They have tons of Dsis's things there, so my crib shouldn't take up much space. When I bought it for DD1 it was quite expensive, but when I checked the resale prices on Ebay recently, I've found that they're going for really silly money, despite being so expensive new.
I've been thinking a lot about music since shabs post this morning. It really does have the most powerful effect on me emotionally. I listen (sometimes when I'm brave) to the songs I listened to when pregnant with Tamsin... songs from when I was 'safe'. Before I'd been invited to this thread from my own (and would have been far too scared to even look at this section to be honest). I could have stayed in the other sections, such as 'relationships', complaining - and failing - to change anything, like so many other posters. But fate stopped me from being 'safe' and brought me here.
Even listening to upbeat music, such as Mika, can induce tears. I cannot listen to Eva Cassidy's Somewhere Over The Rainbow, or Brahm's Lullaby anymore (they were Tamsin's funeral songs; doesn't help that DD1's light show has the lullaby as one of the tunes).
I feel more sad that I can't easily show her photos. A friend of mine, commented how "tasteful" my facebook profile is, as it doesn't show more than her hand. I'd never even considered that I should be 'tasteful' till she said that, I blithely assumed that all my friends would want to see photos of her. Even those who have only say "hmm", never anything nice.
I've got some photos that no one has seen, except DH. They were probably the worst photos I took. They were when her eyes were slightly open, and you could see the brightest, most beautiful blue. Truly stunning. I love those photos, but I can see to others they would be morbid, which saddens me so much. She's not scary, she's my baby. How can she elicit horror from others (by this I mean my mum, refused to look at them).