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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

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Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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Lilyloo · 13/04/2011 20:46

Much love to all your family, i am so very sorry, the love you had as a family has shone through your posts.

Hulababy · 13/04/2011 20:47

I am so sorry that Richard has died.

Take care of yourself x

SharonGless · 13/04/2011 20:52

Rinders,
Just wanted to add my support and thoughts to the thread.

No words can take away your pain and that of your family.
You have done everything in your power to ease his passing and to make lovely memories for your girls.

Thinking of you and yours xx

Tikkabillajive · 13/04/2011 20:52

Oh no, Rindercella, I am so, so sorry. It's just so totally, bloody unfair.

You've been so amazing and you did everything you could to make Richard's death so dignified and peaceful.

I'm willing you strength and love - I wish there was more I could do than that.

ThingOne · 13/04/2011 20:53

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

lisad123isasnuttyasaboxoffrogs · 13/04/2011 20:53

Oh darling Im so sorry. Im glad Richard made it home and he passed peacefully. Thinking of you and the kids too tonight, and you know where I am if you need anything, even just a moan.

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copycat · 13/04/2011 20:56

Oh Rinders I am so very sorry to read your news. Like everyone else I am glad he was home with you and his precious children surrounded by your love and care. Your strength, humility and dignity have been an inspiration to us all and your overwhelming love for Richard is undeniable. What a blessing you have been to him Rinders.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful princesses, DSS and all of Richard's family.

much love xx

SecretNutellaFix · 13/04/2011 20:56

Rinders, I am so sorry that you were only together for a very short time back at home, but he went surrounded by love and the people who meant everything to him. Which is what all of you wanted.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this really hard time, x.

ginmakesitallok · 13/04/2011 20:57

Anothe lurker here. It will be hard in the next few days/weeks/months but you will remember the loving times and the good times and all the times when Richard amde you and your family what you are. Wishing you peace and strength. x

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hotcrossSES · 13/04/2011 20:59

Rinders - I am so sorry for your loss.
Richard truly was a Prandsome Hince and I'm pleased at least that he was home and surrounded by those he loved and that he had a peaceful end.
You, he and your familiy are very much in my thoughts and prayers
xx

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TheFallenMadonna · 13/04/2011 21:02

Thinking of you all.

SlightlyJaded · 13/04/2011 21:03

Oh no. Too soon. Far too soon.

I am so so sorry Rinders that you Jas and India have lost Richard. You sound like an amazing family and it's so unfair.

You did good to get him home when you did. His parting sounds very peaceful and full of love.

Thinking of you xxx

sobloodystupid · 13/04/2011 21:04

Rindercella, so very very sorry to hear your news. I am glad that you were all together at the end, and at home. God bless you, your girls and your dss

Alibabaandthe80nappies · 13/04/2011 21:04

Rinders I'm so, so sorry.

I can never find the right words at these times, but know that I'm thinking of you and your darling girls and wishing you love and strength.

lucjam · 13/04/2011 21:04

So glad you managed to get him home and that you were with him when he died. Take good care of yourselves and your children, take all the help you need. May your wonderful husband rest in peace. x

hardhatdonned · 13/04/2011 21:04

So sorry for your loss x

Sidge · 13/04/2011 21:09

I'm so very sorry.

I'm sorry his death came so quickly after getting him home, but I hope it comforts you that he was home, surrounded by all those that love him, and that it was peaceful.

Thinking of you xxx

SunCream32 · 13/04/2011 21:12

I haven't posted before but have been following your thread. I'm sooo pleased Richard managed to come home for his last few hours and to be surrounded by his loving family. I'm just so gutted for you that it wasn't for longer. He sounded like an incredibly strong man. Thinking and praying for you and your family at this sad time x

Arcadie · 13/04/2011 21:12

Rinders Our P/N thread has a fair few good wishes on it for you too - when you get a chance, which I should think won't be soon. It's here when you do

orangina · 13/04/2011 21:14

Oh Rinders, another lurker here. I'm so so sorry for you and your girls but so glad he was able to be at home holding your hand at the end.

Thinking of you all xx

TimeForMeIsFree · 13/04/2011 21:20

Oh Rinders Sad I am so so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and sending you much love, God bless you and God bless Richard xxx

Milliways · 13/04/2011 21:22

So sorry to hear your news.