It's fab Richards's home and it went well, if draining.
I can only imagine how upsetting it was to leave the hospice - it's such a warm, loving, safe environment and the people are so amazing - it's very, very emotional - but this is the nicest way to say goodbye, when you are taking him home x
The carers sound great - they sound like the kind of ladies who will be really supportive and blend in as much as they can. You can also use them to fend off any unwanted visitors 
Life is fragile my love - we treat it as though it isn't, but it is. It is incredibly hard when it's shoved right under your nose and you can't escape it - on the other hand, it does give you the opportunity to say all the things you need to say, create memories and send them off knowing, that they know, how much they are loved. When someone dies suddenly you don't get that - it may not seem much of a comfort right now, but I hope that, in time, it is x
Lots of love & strength (& cake)
xxx