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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

845 replies

Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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evitas · 13/04/2011 20:12

Rinders I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.
Much love
x

GColdtimer · 13/04/2011 20:14

I am so so sorry Richard went so soon. Hopfully there is some comfort in the fact he was at home surrounded by his beautiful family and all the love in the world.

Sending you much love and strength Rinders.

queenoffairies · 13/04/2011 20:14

Sending lots of love, am so very sorry for your loss x

kuckingfunt · 13/04/2011 20:16

Oh Rinders, I am so very sorry.

I wish he had been able to have some more time with you all at home but I am so glad that Richard managed to come home and was surrounded by all his lovely family when he died. I am glad it was peaceful for him, it is obviously where he wanted to be.

Much love and strength to all of you, you are in my thoughts x

FoxyRevenger · 13/04/2011 20:17

Oh Rinders, my stomach dropped when I saw this thread had become so active Sad

Nothing any of us can say will make a difference, but your whole family are in my thoughts and my heart tonight.

You've shown such grace and strength through this time, you are a real inspiration to me.

Hold on tight to your lovely lovely girls

xxxx

dietstartstmoz · 13/04/2011 20:17

Another lurker, just wanted to pass on my condolences to you and your family. I don't know you or your girls but i am sitting here in tears at your loss. My thoughts are with you all. X

Woodlands · 13/04/2011 20:18

I'm so sorry. I hope you can draw some comfort from the fact that the end came peacefully, and he was surrounded by those he loved most. That's all we can ever ask for when the end comes, isn't it?

Thinking of you and sending you and your family all my love and prayers.

jezebelle · 13/04/2011 20:19

Sorry to hear of your and your family's loss, Glad Richard got to come home to his family to be at peace xxx

rosieposey · 13/04/2011 20:21

Rinders im just a lurker too but have been hoping along with everybody else this past year. Im so so sorry for you and your family and you will be in my prayers tonight. Thinking of you all x

deemented · 13/04/2011 20:22

Oh Rinders, i am so so sorry for your loss. Words seem so bloody empty.

notapizzaeater · 13/04/2011 20:25

So sorry for your loss, hope you can take some comfort in Richard going surrounded by love x x x

Bucharest · 13/04/2011 20:26

Oh my goodness.

So sorry.

So, so sorry. xx

TheGashlycrumbTinies · 13/04/2011 20:28

So very sorry, glad Richard was at home surrounded by his family.

FlipFantasia · 13/04/2011 20:31

Oh Rinders Sad I'm so sorry that Richard has died. It sounds like he was surrounded by love and peace when he passed. My thoughts are with you and your girls and your step son, and all the others who knew and loved Richard, at this very sad time for you.

whomovedmychocolate · 13/04/2011 20:31

Sincere commiserations on your loss :( I'm glad he made it home where he belonged and his passing was peaceful.

Northernlurker · 13/04/2011 20:33

Rindercellla - I'm so sorry for your loss. Richard is home safe now indeed and you have all done so well, so very well to carry him through this. I'm so sorry though. It's not enough to say that but it's just about all I've got. I'm sorry.

Pancakeflipper · 13/04/2011 20:35

I have read your updates but couldn't previously find words to post as a dear loved one of ours died way too young from the same disease last month.

I am so glad for your Richard that he made it home and his children were there and he had your hand to hold. The fact he had suffered this awful illness is horrible but take some comfort his actual death was surrounded with love. He will have felt it, absorbed it in his heart and known it was time to stop the pain.

Its so unfair. So damn unfair.

nanatothree · 13/04/2011 20:35

So sorry you didn't have longer together but he managed to come home to you all and be at peace surrounded by love. Your prince has gone in one sense but he will be with you in your heart and his beautiful princesses and DS forever. Wishing you peace and strength and love.xxx

MmeSurvivedLent · 13/04/2011 20:35

So sorry to read this, Rinders.

My thoughts are with you and your family tonight.

migola · 13/04/2011 20:37

I haven't posted before, didn't feel I had the 'right' because I don't know you, but you have said many a time that it helps, and I have been so moved by your story and your strength, I just wanted to say how very sorry I am to hear the news xx

hecklephone · 13/04/2011 20:39

I'm so so sorry Rinders. Will be praying for you and your family. Sending love and strength and peaceful thoughts your way xxx

SiameseIfYouPlease · 13/04/2011 20:40

Rinders all my love to you and your gorgeous girls. So sad. Im lighting a candle for Richard xx

TheFarSide · 13/04/2011 20:42

Very sad for you Sad.

Wishing you strength for the coming days.

ilovewoody · 13/04/2011 20:44

another lurker...

I am so sorry for the passing of your wonderful husband.

Your love for him shone so brightly and is a real inspiration x

ZenNudist · 13/04/2011 20:45

Rindercella I have followed your posts and wanted to offer my condolences. I am glad your poor dh is no longer suffering but so very very sorry you and your dc are going through this pain.