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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

845 replies

Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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NorksAreMessy · 12/04/2011 22:53

Ooh, Kurri, that would be really useful on all threads

EasterChickAndRabbitKurri · 12/04/2011 23:00

Norks - you can get the OP's posts highlighted on any thread by going to 'customise', but only OP. - I've asked MnHQ if they'll do Rinder's posts. (many apologies for slight hijack, but hope its helpful)

onlyjoking9329 · 12/04/2011 23:23

So glad to hear Richard is home.
I understand the bitter sweet thing thou and that will be with you for a while.
Something I wished I'd have done was to write a diary.
It's fab that you've got 2 carers and im sure you'll find that they soon blend in.
I'm hoping that you're all asleep now, together again.

MrsDmamee · 13/04/2011 01:49

Thinking of you and your dear R...Hope his home coming was of some comfort to you and your girls.. sending you continued support from a few thousand miles away.

PollyLogos · 13/04/2011 04:53

So glad that Richard is home with you all. xxx

OmShantiJack · 13/04/2011 05:09

Thinking of you.
Did you get the information you needed about when he nears the end? :(
Sorry I'd that sounds horrible, I just wanted to make sure that you learned what you need to know. xxJacks

oooggs · 13/04/2011 06:59

glad R is home - enjoy your precious family time

stomp · 13/04/2011 07:02

So glad Richard is home with you.

Stylelostinlabour · 13/04/2011 08:14

Thinking of you and your beautiful family.

lostinwales · 13/04/2011 08:35

So glad he is home, have followed these threads from the start (is it really nearly 12 months?) I am so sorry that this has happened to your beautiful family. Take care and enjoy now for all you can.

mummylin2495 · 13/04/2011 08:50

i do hope that your first night as a reunited family went well with your dear Richard having a really peacefull night back in his own home.Im sure this will help to relax him as he is now within his familiar things. I hope this can continue for a long while yet.

FebreezeYourJeans · 13/04/2011 09:09

I'm so thrilled that you are all together again. I will regret to the end of my days not bringing my Dad home to live his last few days with the people who loved him most. You will never regret this x x x

trumpton · 13/04/2011 09:35

I had my wonderful dad home to live with us. It was ,without doubt, the best thing I have ever done. The Hospice home staff were great and he loved being visited by the district nurses . The pain relief they set up was incredible. I wish the Pransome Hince and his Rincdercella and his family sunny days and peaceful nights. XXXX

ViolaTricolor · 13/04/2011 10:16

So glad he's home Rinders, though as ever it breaks my heart to think about how hard this is for you, and to think about how bloody unfair it is. I'm so glad you are happy with the people helping you, they sound wonderful. Thinking of you and yours. xx

Emmanana · 13/04/2011 12:16

Thinking of you all Rinders. May you make many loving memories that stay forever in your hearts. No one can ever take them away. xxx

mejon · 13/04/2011 12:16

Another one who's lurked from the beginning. So glad you've been able to have Richard home with you and your beautiful girls. Thinking of you all xx

corblimeymadam · 13/04/2011 12:21

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speculationisrife · 13/04/2011 12:23

Another lurker here, too. I'm so glad you have your darling husband home and are able to spend this time together. I also looked at his picture on your profile, and was struck by the strength and calm he radiates - he is obviously a very special man. I can only guess at what you must be going through, and how precious this time will be for you. Sending love and thoughts your way.

MissAnthrope · 13/04/2011 13:08

I'm pleased to hear that R is now home with you all.

Wishing you strength and love.

billybookcase · 13/04/2011 13:14

Yet another lurker who thinks of you often. Wishing you all love and strength to enjoy the present and cope with the future.

PoledrathePissedOffFairy · 13/04/2011 13:20

I'm so glad you've got him home with you and the girls where he belongs.

Wishing you all some wonderful times together.

mcfee · 13/04/2011 13:29

Haven't posted before but have followed it all and just want to say that I wish you all calm, peaceful & memory-filled days over the next while.

BlueyDragon · 13/04/2011 13:33

Home at last. I'm hoping you all have some peace and joy together in your lovely house. Thinking of you.

mrsjaja · 13/04/2011 14:13

And another lurker her too - but so please you have got him home with you Rindercella.

Think about your and yours loads - i can only hope i could be as brave as you are if i ever needed to be.

Stay strong. You are a truly amazing lady.

stressheaderic · 13/04/2011 14:20

Another here who doesn't often post on MN but reads avidly - have followed your thread from the start. Your posts have been so strong, so true and so eloquent.

R must be bursting with pride to have you as his wife.
Much love to you and yours x