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Update on Rindercella's DH (No. 2)

845 replies

Portoeufino · 12/04/2011 16:25

The other thread has reached 1000 posts, so I hope no-one minds that I started a new one......Hoping R is home with you now!

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strawberrybonbon · 13/04/2011 18:54

So sorry to read this, my thoughts are with you. Best wishes to all.

sharbie · 13/04/2011 18:55

have tried to type some words but can't find anything to say just so sorry xxxxxx

bellavita · 13/04/2011 18:56

Rinders, I am so so sorry my darling. If there is anything,anything at all, let us know.

Much love to you xx

LawrieMarlow · 13/04/2011 18:58

I am so sorry to hear this :(

Have been another lurker and in everything I have read your love for each other has shone through.

Sending you love and strength.

Lizzylou · 13/04/2011 18:58

I am so sorry Rinders.
I am so pleased that you were all together when Richard died, he must have known how much he was adored.

Take care, I will be thinking of you x

Brasso4 · 13/04/2011 19:01

I am so sorry Rinders. I am glad that it was a peaceful end for Richard surrounded by those he loved most.

I am a lurker but wanted to send you and your family much love. xxxx

Lily311 · 13/04/2011 19:02

Another lurker here, so sorry. Lots of love to you and your family, xxx

Arcadie · 13/04/2011 19:07

Rindercella Glad he got to be home, with his precious wife and beautiful children. Just furious that life has done this to you. Our thoughts are with you, J & I tonight. RKDxx

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cupofteaplease · 13/04/2011 19:12

I'm so sorry x

It must have been a comfort that he died at home, with all of his family around.

Wishing you lots of love and strength for the upcoming days and months ahead x

Blackcoffeeandcigarettes · 13/04/2011 19:13

Rindercella, you are truly wonderful. My thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so sorry for your lost xxxx

moonmother · 13/04/2011 19:13

So very very sorry Rindercella .

He was home with you all, no comfort I know, for him to be taken so soon.

Sending you all love, light and strength xxx

MissPaintyOeuf · 13/04/2011 19:13

I'm so, so sorry Rinders, but I'm glad he was at home with you and his children and that he went peacefully. You've coped with so much this year and you've done it with such grace. You're an inspiration to us all. Sending you love and strength xx

(I posted this on the p/n thread, but I realise you may not have much time to read everywhere, so re-posted here also.)

ChippingInMistressSteamMop · 13/04/2011 19:14

Oh my darling girl - I am so so so sorry xxxx

It was so lovely that Richard was able to come home, although it was clear that he didn't have a long time left, it has come as a real shock that he has gone so soon. I expected a bit more time for you all :(

I am really glad that he had all of his children there and that you & India were actually with him, having a lovely chat :) If you have to go, what a lovely way to do it - at home, peacefully, with your family.

I wish my tears were sparing you some pain - but I know they aren't.

It's not fair - you shouldn't all have to be going through this... you just shouldn't.

Huge hugs, lots of love & much strength...
xxxx

stomp · 13/04/2011 19:16

so soon- i'm so sorry Rinders. my thoughts are with you and Richards beautiful children x

MissBeehivingChoclitWabbits · 13/04/2011 19:17

Another lurker Rinders. So so sorry.xxx

oooggs · 13/04/2011 19:19

Rinders - I am very sorry Sad the right words just aren't there.

Strength and love to you and you family and so pleased that you had him home and were all there x

newpup · 13/04/2011 19:19

So very sorry. Sad

thirtysomething · 13/04/2011 19:19

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I don't know what to say. Like others I have sensed your enormous dignity over the past weeks. Your love for your DH and your family has shone through even in the darkest moments.

Wishing you much love and strength in the coming months and years xx

SleepyCaz · 13/04/2011 19:19

Much love to you and your family Rindercella. Have followed Richards story.

God bless xxxxxx

cheepcheepchoconora · 13/04/2011 19:19

oh what sad news... I have lurked and followed your threads...

I am so pleased you were able to get him home to be able to die peacefully with you and his children there, that must have been so comforting for him :(

Sending much love, strength and thoughts to you and the children (including DSS) to help you get through the coming weeks and months

give those girls an extra cuddle from daddy tonight xxx

Sinkingfeeling · 13/04/2011 19:21

I'm so sorry, Rinders. A very, very sad day for all your family.

Thinking of you lots.

xxx

MissAnthrope · 13/04/2011 19:22

I'm so so sorry.

There just aren't any words. Wishing you love and strength.

Sassybeast · 13/04/2011 19:23

So very sorry for you all Sad

ilovemyteddy · 13/04/2011 19:24

I am so sorry, dearest Rinders. At least his passing was peaceful and he was with the people he loved most.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. xx