Afternoon everyone 
Thanks so much for the poems posted yesterday, TW's and PPM's ones were new to me and I sniffed and wept my way through them. Axis the one you posted is my favourite one when I think about my little girl. I want to frame it with her hand/foot prints.
Caz so sorry you are having such a difficult time just now. I would echo what ilove said about illness/stress/random factors delaying ovulation and meaning your period appears late. I'm not sure if it's your thing at all (and forgive me if this is too personal) but I have found charting (temps, cervical fluid etc) has been invaluable in terms of knowing what is happening in my cycle, when/if ovulation has occurred and when I can expect to bleed. We have a fab thread going in Conception called Charter's Anonymous which you'd be very welcome on if it was the right thing for you. (Please ignore if this is not helpful)
I have some news of my own too. I am pregnant.
This was far from the plan (told to wait 6 months by consultant) but we are cautiously very happy and excited. Unfortunately it turns out the consultant's warning was about 1 day too late and I am exactly 4 weeks today.
For the first time I feel I have some hope and a reason to keep going and to look after myself again.
We went to church this morning and I hadn't realised but it was a baptism. A lovely baby boy about 8 months and I couldn't see him without tears rolling down my face. And as if that wasn't hard enough, the friend who was heavily pregnant has had her baby (2 weeks old now) and was there too. A little tiny girl. I knew she was a few rows behind and I could hear her cry and it hurt so much 
I am such a strange mix of grief and excitement, pain and hope. I miss my little girl so much. I am 4 weeks and 29 weeks all at the same time. I wish I could have them both.