Hi Brightonbaby, I've namechanged lots of times on here for different reasons. I am not a regular, though, I'm more of a casual flirt using and abusing where I feel the need. Oh and giving support where I can, too. This is my first experience of Mnet addiction though! Oh and as for your friend -I think people just have no idea what to say. Have you thought about when to have your wedding, by the way? Good luck with all of that.
I feel very strongly - and did before now, too - that how we live with the problems our babies have is entirely up to us. And I do know that nobody knows what they would do until they are there living it. For me anonymity I suppose is about protecting myself because I don't want to talk about this (yet, I might eventually) in RL.
Spending, well I am justifying it on the grounds that it's cheaper than the baby I was meant to be having. Feel justified, Bezzy!
Actually I started to imagine I might start baking again earlier. In a pre-DD life I baked at least once a week: flapjacks, cakes, brownies, muffins, whatever. I made DD two birthday cakes and have made cupcakes a couple of times, plus a couple of basic chocolate cakes, but nothing major. Think I might start again. I don't detox, by the way, I just tox. I've never really got the whole detox thing. Anyone who has, any tips?
I am writing this very flippantly. But part of me still wants to fling myself on the ground and yell in raw pain. Better put DD to bed first, though.