To have sex infront of 18 month old

[TwoDotZero]

We were having a cuddle that turned into a bit of a quickie. Ds was playing in his room and occasionally sticking his head around the door but generally not paying much attention to us.

Afterwards I turned around and came face to face with ds sitting on our bed, reading a book and showing me a picture.

He didn't seem at all bothered.
Thoughts?

I don't suppose the fearful psychological damage will emerge for about 25 years. Even then, it'll be his partner who posts "AIBU to have proof that They Fuck You Up, Your Mam & Dad?"

I would be majorly uncomfortable with it. Not much different from watching porn in the same room as a child is it?

erm...i wouldn't, sorry
few weeks old but not when they can pay attention to stuff

Agree with LilQueenie...... they do start acting out/copying at that age......

YABU, sorry but am in that you would even consider this was an OK thing to do.

its an offence afaik

I wouldn't, I really, really wouldn't.

And what if something had happened to him....would you have been aware?

I wouldn't, and I couldn't.

Dh can't even do it with the cat in the room.

I remember stuff from that age...

YABU

Ick! Possibly ok if child was asleep but awake and on the bed?

No, No, NO!

No way. This is a bit odd IMO.

yes it is
sexual offences act section224

starts at 12 months custoday

dont knwo if that includes 18 months but it says the younger the victim the more vulernabe

you are pretty gross imo

My first memory is from roughly that age. YABU.

Now see this why I don't have quickies ever when the dds are awake. YABU. Very unreasonable actually. What part of you thought that this would be okay?

Besom I can't do it if the dog is there. He watches . It's very off putting. Dh also worries that he the dog may mistake his cock for a sausage and bite it off .

Eeeewwww

I'm with Besom
Even the pets have to be locked out.
The cats have a tendency to ahem, watch

We've had ds walk in on us but he was supposed to be asleep at the time so not quite the same! I don't think I ever would with the dcs awake.

couldn't do it either i'm afraid.

a friend walked in on her 3 YO dd being 'mounted' (as in doggy style)by one of her friend's 3 YO dses. the little boy had obviously seen that somewhere. not good IMO.

Just to clarify, I meant "No Way" as in I wouldn't do this. Not "No Way" do I think it's an offence. I totally agree with you, SuSylvester!

Oh, no I can't even do it with the cat watching.

we also put the cats out aswell.

I couldnt do it. But if, as you said you didnt realise he was there then I would recommend you are extra careful not to repeat it!

OP, I can't really get past your thread title tbh, makes me feel really queasy.

What do you think it must look like to a child of that age? Pretty confusing at the very least I would have thought.

..."occasionally sticking his head around the door".... And that didn't put you off in any way?

Grim. And grimmer that you have to ask.