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mum doesnt ever baby sit

214 replies

loujo · 08/12/2009 22:17

Hi,

Is it unreasonable for me to want to go out once in awhile ? I have a 11 month yr old baby girl , but I can never go out as my mum never offers to babysit. I dont want to go out every weekend ! Just maybe once a month to go out with my friends but I carnt as my mum wont have my baby ? She has never had her to stay the night or ever really wants to look after her, She knows how hard she is and how tierd I am ..I just need a break so bad . I dont know what to do. I feel so drained and lonely , just need time out once in awhile . But how ??? !!! Anyone think of what I can do ? x

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SomeGuy · 09/12/2009 00:00

something like this?

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DandyLioness · 09/12/2009 00:00

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lockets · 09/12/2009 00:01

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loujo · 09/12/2009 00:01

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scottishmummy · 09/12/2009 00:02

lou like your vicky pollard fuck u!!!!Fighting cos we r all grans what would us ole granny grunts know about watching grannys pussy and goin out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lockets · 09/12/2009 00:03

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BitOfFun · 09/12/2009 00:04

This is a self-moderated site- but you aren't supposed to be personally abusive. You have been very rude to scottishmummy and SomeGuy, you know. Do you talk to people in real life like that?

MrsMerryHenry · 09/12/2009 00:04

Do you know what, loujo? I was on your side when this thread started, but not any more. Nobody has any sympathy for you any more. You've killed it in one fell swoop, along with your dignity. I think you'd be best abandoning this thread and namechanging. Oh, and, as you said before, going to bed for a good night's sleep.

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CharCharGabor · 09/12/2009 00:04

lol at this. Most of you didn't say what I wanted so throw insults and strop off. hahaha

SomeGuy · 09/12/2009 00:04

Looks like I was right. Even if I am pissed.

FluffyPumpkins · 09/12/2009 00:04

loujo How old are you? genuine question.

MollieO · 09/12/2009 00:05

Lots of people don't have anyone who can babysit for free and lots of children don't have four grand parents. Ds has one and she isn't well enough to babysit.

Why don't you either tell you mother how you feel? It may not have occurred to her that you want her to be more involved.

MrsMerryHenry · 09/12/2009 00:05

Rofl at Dandy - sometimes a verbal slap is supportive!

fluffy - just what I wanted to ask.

Someguy - too right, man, too right.

BitOfFun · 09/12/2009 00:05

Guess so, SomeGuy...

scottishmummy · 09/12/2009 00:05

maybe mum thinks you cuss too much and get in scraps too much?because you don't come across well at mo.maybe she fears your exclamation marks and potty mouth will land you in trouble

loujo · 09/12/2009 00:06

I bet u scots bird are on here everynight !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mate what a GREAT LIFE U LEAD !!!!!!! HOW SAD

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MrsMerryHenry · 09/12/2009 00:06

This thread is hilarious. Only on MN.

scottishmummy · 09/12/2009 00:08

Lou,us scots burds are everywhere every night hun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thats what makes us so understated

BitOfFun · 09/12/2009 00:08

Counting down to thread deletion...

Loujo- you might find another site more suited to you? You don't seem to be making many friends here. Again, how old are you?

lockets · 09/12/2009 00:08

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MrsMerryHenry · 09/12/2009 00:08

Um, loujo forgive me if I'm wrong, but I thought you were the one whingeing about having a sad life hence this appalling thread?

caramelwaffle · 09/12/2009 00:08

You say it is sad that scottishmummy is on here, yet you......are on here.

Anyhoooooooo.......

BitOfFun · 09/12/2009 00:09

scottishmummy- you,me, Port O'Leith one day, k?

displayuntiltwelfthnight · 09/12/2009 00:09

MrsMH - yes, redeemed and I hope not smarting from my defensive post!
dammit, trying not to do even one exclamation mark as fear the wrath of scottishmummy (and quite rightly, may I add)
I have had some nice banter with you previously so don't want to fall out

loujo
I don't mean to sound patronising, really I don't , but you've been banging on about how you're feeling below par, having a tough time, struggling with things...do you not think that instead of flinging out insults to MNers, you ought to go to bed for a decent night's sleep instead?

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