You know it is sad when you cannot express your feelings on a woman/mans behaviour without being branded a racist.
I have not said I know exactly how man black people I know but living in Peckham SE London I am pretty sure it is a lot. I have nothing to be ashamed of, you see it as racist i don't. I fail to see how mentioning the races of the children is racist....if i were to come on here and say I have 3 cousins who are half indian (which i do) 1 who is half russian (i do) 3 half chec (again I do) would this be racist????
If i had come on here and said "I f*cking hate black, indian, albanian, muslim, chinese, irish, scottish, polish, turkish people" (or any race for that matter) And this woman has had more men than hot dinners her kids are all foreign etc ten yes i could be classed as racist.
As it stands, I was factual about this womans relationships with men, she is not bothered who the man is as long as she has one iyswim? and as a result she has a multi racial family. It is awful to hear the things the local families say to and about her, I am not one of these people. If i have a concern I do tell her, and we have had many chats over the years where she has told me what has gone on and I have given her advice, offered help etc. The last time i saw her previous to this time, she was staying single and focusing on giving her children a better life, she had said she had realised that her life choices were and would affect her children and yet when i saw her the other day she had slipped back into her old ways of life, of putting a man before her childrens needs, wants, safety etc, like it or not this is how it is..hardly racist just knowing this woman personally and having tried to help many times it becomes annoying to see nothing changes.
I should not have mentioned the races of the children or their fathers, but then I would not have been giving all the facts and we all know that if you don't then you are branded a troll or a liar so i tried to be open and upfront. - the result I am branded a racist, when in actual fact all I have done over the years until moving away is try to help this woman, I have helped with the children took her daughter in when she feared for her safety being in her own home due to the threats of abduction from the childs father, who had said it was his culture for the first born daughter to be raised by his mother, whether this is true or not I do not know.
I wish she could find someone who really cared for her,her children and her well being. She looked dreadfully tired and worn out. She was moaning about the grandchildren and how she couldn't understand why her dd's had had babies so young and why only one of them (the eldest with 2 children) actually wanted to work.....I just said to her " sadly kids learn by example and anything we as adults do in our life maps their way of life for them. She agreed and said maybe i should have had less time at home and worked.
Now regardless of how i worded it the situation is the same this woman moves from man to man having children, not being able to financially support them, and then moaning when her daughters follow in her footsteps. If i had not have mentioned the races of the children opinions would have been different, as i have seen on here before.