ok...will try this again, aibu to be put off a school by the amount of children with SN?

[daftpunk]

posted this in education, (Pre-school, like the twit that i am).....my ds is due to start secondary school in 2 years so we're looking around already, i am a bit put off by a school with lots of SN children, as SN also means behaviour problems....i'm not sure if i am being unreasonable.

daftpunk no realistic
I know some one all these things have happened to in RL

yes, 2shoes, so have i....but i don't iive my life thinking that could happen to my dc at anytime,...if i did, i would go mad.

fio....it would be nice if this thread could end well, dispite all the personal attacks, (none of which i have reported, even though one criticized my personal appearance)....i hope we can end this on fairly good terms....is that possible?

asking for this to end well and on good terms is not stiring things up fio....this is the only thread i have been effected by...because i am discussing my child, who happens to be the most important person in my life,....nothing else on mumsnet has ever got to me....i want this to end well....work with me here....please.

Stop trying to manipulate, DP. It's not working - you can't manipulate people who can see what you're doing. Good try but far, far too obvious.

Seems nobody else's child or their feelings about them, is important.

jumente..i'm not asking anyone to like me or feel sorry for me...i'm just asking for this thread to end well...i have learn't from it.

What exactly are you hoping to happen then DP? What does 'end well' constitute?

Well said 2shoes no one can predict the future.Dp I think you are flogging a dead horse here You are asking for compassion when you clearly have none yourself.i gave you the benefit of the doubt once but never again

I have to say i find this entire thread so utterly vitriolic.

It's not at all Stig, there's plenty of info, general support and SN chat in amongst it all

Sadly DP seems to want to retyurn it to original post every tiome something productive happens

DP- I said exactly the same as 2shoes about an accident away etc in a different way a few posts below- Lucyellensmum responded immeidately above. You'd have been far fairer targetting that at me.

Anyway guys come post here please

sorry here

lundy...sorry, i just flew out to the middle east and thrashed out a peace agreement...it was alot easier than trying to sort things out on here....

It is good to see you have recovered from being "broken" last night and least you are able to see through your tears to come back to the thread and get things going again.

Can you not just leave the thread alone and let it go a good way, surely you would do that if you have learned all that you say you have from it?

Cor DP you're unbelievable. Do you take ANYTHING seriously?

You said you've learnt from this - what then?

What about your list of people you've offended?

I just think you're full of shit to be honest. It's all hot air and drama. Broken. Typing through the tears. Then jokes and sarcasm. Not once have your words ever sounded genuine.

my "list"...was posted on one of the song/chat threads...only about 3/4 people on that thread..so not sure how anyone else knew about it???

most of what was said was one or two posts...ie; i said fat people are fat because they eat too much..they haven't got "big bones".....most of my other comments are opinions that are held by many people and are discussed on radio/television etc.....people need to get over me.

just let this die.

Well, you said it - people need to get over you. I think you need to get over you most of all, though.

Ditto stewie.

Thanks for answering the question about what you have learnt.

Not.

LOL at 'only 2/4 people on that thread'