...To expect monetary contribution from my DP??

[GrumpyMoo]

... In any form. I'm not asking for all his money to go off and spend as I like. But SOMETHING towards his keep would help. And how do I ask him NOW after we have lived together on and off (more off than on TBH) for nearly a year?? HELP someone. Need kick up the backside or somehting please??

Oh fumble what a sad sad person you are

I almost, almost feel sorry for you. Why oh why would anyone want to 'out' someone in RL????

I presume you are as nasty in RL as you are on here.............go get a life and leave grumpy to enjoy hers. Or is that the problem you can't bear to see anyone happy?

Ha, at least fumble has proven s/he knows Grumpy - so, exP or exP's ex wife?

Cunt either way.

Fumble I think I understand the point you were making.

You are saying Grumpy and ex should have declared their coupleness so their benefit claim was correctly assessed , and so the" your money/my money" thing would not be an issue. I do understand your point here.

But if you go to the very beginning of the thread you will see this is exactly what grump did do.

As a result she lost her entitlement to IS.Ex continued to get incapacity benefit, none of which he used to contribute to the household bills.

I hope this answers your query

I think we always knew that fumble was 'somebody' in or around grumbles life....

I don't think anyone gives a toss who he/she is. All fumbles posts have done have once again proved how right grumble was to get rid of the COCKLODGER and build a better life for herself and her dc.

So thanks for that fumble, now why don't you ccrawl back under your little stone down on the beach and have a little think about how you can improve your life??

high-fives dittany in a one-off kind of a way

....oh shit, just noticed i called 'grumpy' 'grumble'.........apologies for that grumpy.....or maybe not so grumpy anymore

Anyone else reported fumbles 'i know where you live' post?

How disgraceful....i post where i live because i don't care who knows me. If someone else outed me i'd go nuts.

How are you today OP??

Morning all! Lovely nights sleep (still waking up FAR too early though )! But! Woke up in the middle of the bed again!

Kids are in hyper 'we'll do all our chores' mode. I am NOT complaining! Not at all. Not sure how long this'll last but I will enjoy it while it does. Wow, not having to endlessly remind them to make beds get dressed clean teeth feed cats blah blah blha. BLISS!

Righto, coffee has been had, off to put washing on! I am so deeply sexy domestic goddess, look out nigella and that one off changing rooms who has her own prog about keeping your house tidy? Linda something??

Yeah. Look out them.

Grumpy soooo nice to 'see' you looking to happy and relaxed this morning.

Repeat again WELL DONE YOU!!!!!!

If you do feel exposed by the cocklodger's mate ex whatever..... just name change, you shouldn't have to but if it helps you go for it.

PS if it does all get a bit weird, as someone has said before the police do get involved with online stalkery behaviour.

now go and enjoy your day!!!!!
fumble

Mornign doris how about I change to 'Happy' Moo?? Peceful? Blissful? EcstaticMoo? has a nice ring to it!

Sounds lovely, and appropriately cheerful

(sorry about the random fumble at the end of my last post

Hmmmmmmm would seem the dick is more upset with the split, than he tried to make out to you grumpy

Good enough for the knob

To come on here and slate you, even if it is his EW.(she is obvs as sick and twisted as him tbh). Probably mad now, she"s got no one to look after her DD while she goes to work. And possibly missing out on a certain chair/ sofa in her home now, because the dick has laid the law down.

Goodluck in the future grumpy, you really have had a shitty weekend, however, itll be the weekend that has changed the rest of your life for the better

To the dick and his wife/ex, get a fookin life, your robbing, selfish, babysitting, greedy ways have come to an end with this lady, so fook off and leave her be

(((((((HUGS)))))))) to grumpy, and all her DC

Ye gods grumpymoo, I was away this weekend (in wellies!) and wondering how you were getting on, couldnt wait to check the thread
and am so glad that you have made such a good strong practical solution to the situation! Good luck to you and your DCs, hope you had a great weekend

Fumble - you may be an involved party or an interested person from the same town, either way I think you should out yourself a bit and tell us what axe you have to grind in the situation and why you are trolling?

Just curious....

Welcome back ping How were the wellies?lol I made the only solution I could in the circumsatnces. The weekend has been hectic. But in a good way. Hope you had a good one too?

Thank you welshbyrd I sincerely believe fumble to be my ex. I can't really call him a partner not anymore as he never was. Not really. That would involve, well...involvement, wouldn't it?

My plans now involve getting on as best I can. I may even have to go to my brother and ask for a loan to get my car through it's MOT in a few weeks.

I'd rather eat my own liver! But I need my car. Three kids.... what else can I do? Grr.

I think "fumble" may have a few hidden issues and agendas that perhaps he should have addressed at a point when he and i were still seeing each other. In all honesty though even that may not have made our relationship any longer than it was.

Hey ho. School is back here in the morning and normality returns.

welshbyrd Nicely put.

Fumble imfiltated me earlier! The very cheek of it!

I meant "infiltrated" of course

'Imfiltated'? porto? Do tell!

Irritated?

Infuriated?

Imitated? God forbid!!!!!

Guessing you're doing okay then Moo?

Ho hum. Good moments and bad.

Just run out of white choc and in a few moments will run out of white wine!